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wiseblood
joined December 04, 2017
28 years old femaleA wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
The Drowning Gemini - Welcome to the Darkside

Sun - Gemini - 8th
Moon - Scorpio - 12th
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th
Venus - Cancer - 8th
Mars - Cancer - 9th
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st
Chiron - Cancer - 8th

Life Path 38/11

  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Yes.. Actually the most important creature in my life almost never happened. And great time for this story as it's only a week shy of sharing 10 years with my special boy ❤️

    10 years ago I decided I wanted my own dog. I searched on Kijiji for awhile before I found the most beautiful boy I had ever laid eyes on. A man who was in the Navy had just adopted him less than a year previous from a shelter and was now posted to go over seas. He was heartbroken about having to give up his new found friend, but after rescuing him from a cage, he didn't feel right boarding him in a kennel while he was away.. So he posted him for free to a good home. I inquired about the dog and after a few msgs back and forth, the Navy man asked if he could come meet me and see where I lived to ensure the dog would be going to a good home. I never replied to him after that.. I lived in a duplex with 5 guys who drank and partied and I knew I was not the most suitable candidate (even though I was set to move the following month). We also had no yard, but lived 5 minutes away from a very large park. However I didn't want this man to travel 2 hours only to find that he didn't approve of me.. so I never responded. A few days later he msg'd me and seemed a bit upset that I never replied. I was honest with him and told him why I didn't.. He must have appreciated my honesty as he offered for me to go down to his place to meet him and the dog.. So that's exactly what I did. When I arrived, they were both outside and the dog immediately ran up to me. I dropped to my knees and started giving him all sorts of love and attention. I wasn't even there 5 minutes when the man said "If you want him, he is yours" Through tears in his eyes, he told me that many people had been by to look at him, but none of them connected with the dog like I had and he didn't feel comfortable sending the dog home with anyone else that he had met. I could tell he was having a hard time saying goodbye. He took a few minutes to gather the dogs belongings to send home with me, and I gave them some time to say good bye, but this poor man was in tears and couldn't handle it.. He told me to just take him. I'll never forget that day. Was the best day of my entire life.. Changed everything for the better!!

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  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Weed. I don't touch anything else.
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by Cassy3
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Cassy3
    Posted by wiseblood
    It's a big NO from me. Never had such a terrible relationship in my entire life.
    Manipulation, lies, games, fake with no real personality of their own. If he's mature he may not possess those traits, but I have yet to meet a male Libra that is not like this.


    Omg sounds like the guy I was just talking to... idk why they say gems and libras are good together. I disagree LOL


    I very much disagree as well. But after reading through your threads I am a bit confused :/
    It seems like you didn't really know what you wanted with the Libra you were dealing with.


    I did but he played alot of games so it made me second guess everything. After I really thought about it and the conversations we had i realized he knew what i wanted from the beginning but kept going back n forth on me so i started doing the same. Then after last wknd i realized i was compromising because he was unsure and i shouldn't do that. So I've moved on... his mixed signals, hot and cold, told me everything i needed to know and waiting around for him to make a decision was not an option anymore for me
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    You made the right decision. I hung on for 4 years hoping things would get better and the games would stop.. They never did.
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by Cassy3
    Posted by wiseblood
    It's a big NO from me. Never had such a terrible relationship in my entire life.
    Manipulation, lies, games, fake with no real personality of their own. If he's mature he may not possess those traits, but I have yet to meet a male Libra that is not like this.


    Omg sounds like the guy I was just talking to... idk why they say gems and libras are good together. I disagree LOL
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    I very much disagree as well. But after reading through your threads I am a bit confused :/
    It seems like you didn't really know what you wanted with the Libra you were dealing with.
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by Cassy3
    Posted by Cassy3
    Posted by Cassy3
    I've been seeing a guy since January. We we're dating then we got into a blow out so we stopped the dating label and just were taking it one day at a time. My question is it's been since January and he has said he doesn't want to date or commit, he also said he didn't like to be pushed which I never did. He texts me all the time and we hang out atleast 1,2 times a week. He says he likes hanging out with me. My question is if a guy is REALLY into you wouldn't he want to take things to the next level by now? Is he just playing games?


    Well I just ended whatever this was. Told him I'm not settling to be friends with benefits or hang out ... thanks for your advice and input tho!!!!


    Just a question... he was mad that i wasn't texting him back right away and was accusing me of talking to other guys but kept insisting he didn't care but be honest with him about it. even tho I wasn't....Why was he doing that?
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    You said you had been dating someone else and that it had started getting serious but then you dropped him to not upset the Libra?
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    But you basically contradict yourself here in these 2 threads.. Sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it too.. It actually doesn't sound like you know what you want at all.. You said you don't want to commit.. so how is he the one playing games?

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-guy-confusing-gem-girl--10630972/?checkpg=1

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-man-says-hes-being-cautious--10657132/?checkpg=1
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Mmk.. or don't let me post -_-
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
     p`bef`4
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    It's a big NO from me. Never had such a terrible relationship in my entire life.
    Manipulation, lies, games, fake with no real personality of their own. If he's mature he may not possess those traits, but I have yet to meet a male Libra that is not like this.
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Yeah.. I know you were just trolling, that's why I was annoyed. But if everyone knew you were going around doing that no idea why people were trying to turn it around like I was gunning for your attention. Stupid treetrunk tards -_-
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by ufo
    restraining order


    Tried 50 times


    Start documenting each occurrence in an organizer. Once 25 or more happen, then take it to court.


    That’s been happening. Everyone (including the popo) keeps saying to “suck it up” for the greater good.

    He says some pretty degrading stuff to her


    Make sure you get evidence then. If it continues, take it to a custody hearing. Family courts dont like this behavior.


    Already been to courts about it

    Her son isn’t a typical little boy, he’s special needs and normal rules don’t apply


    Why do they bend the rules due to this? Is he a decent Father when he has the little guy?

    My only thought would be to relocate.. You'll have to go through the courts again about custody.. but I would imagine they would grant custody to her and he may get to see him a few times a year. Dirty, but it could work.



    She’s not petty


    Was just the only option I could think of unless the courts are going to step in and do something to help yas out Sad Sorry


    They won’t do butter. Haven’t done butter


    That's absurd to me! He's harassing and bullying her. Such a broken system Sad


    And so for that your gonna deprive a kid of his relationship with his father? treetrunked up.
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    I'm not doing anything?? lmao

    But a guy who is going to harass and belittle his ex forever like this can't be much of a decent father. You're all concerned about them talking about him in front of the kid like this.. well do you not think he does it in front of the child? They are the ones having issues with his behaviour, not the other way around.. It's their life, not mine or yours.. I also said it was a dirty move to do that if you had read what I said.
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    He's such a turd!
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Missed you girl!! How you doing?
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by ufo
    restraining order


    Tried 50 times


    Start documenting each occurrence in an organizer. Once 25 or more happen, then take it to court.


    That’s been happening. Everyone (including the popo) keeps saying to “suck it up” for the greater good.

    He says some pretty degrading stuff to her


    Make sure you get evidence then. If it continues, take it to a custody hearing. Family courts dont like this behavior.


    Already been to courts about it

    Her son isn’t a typical little boy, he’s special needs and normal rules don’t apply


    Why do they bend the rules due to this? Is he a decent Father when he has the little guy?

    My only thought would be to relocate.. You'll have to go through the courts again about custody.. but I would imagine they would grant custody to her and he may get to see him a few times a year. Dirty, but it could work.



    She’s not petty


    Was just the only option I could think of unless the courts are going to step in and do something to help yas out Sad Sorry


    They won’t do butter. Haven’t done butter
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    That's absurd to me! He's harassing and bullying her. Such a broken system Sad
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by wiseblood
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by ufo
    restraining order


    Tried 50 times


    Start documenting each occurrence in an organizer. Once 25 or more happen, then take it to court.


    That’s been happening. Everyone (including the popo) keeps saying to “suck it up” for the greater good.

    He says some pretty degrading stuff to her


    Make sure you get evidence then. If it continues, take it to a custody hearing. Family courts dont like this behavior.


    Already been to courts about it

    Her son isn’t a typical little boy, he’s special needs and normal rules don’t apply


    Why do they bend the rules due to this? Is he a decent Father when he has the little guy?

    My only thought would be to relocate.. You'll have to go through the courts again about custody.. but I would imagine they would grant custody to her and he may get to see him a few times a year. Dirty, but it could work.



    She’s not petty
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    Was just the only option I could think of unless the courts are going to step in and do something to help yas out Sad Sorry
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
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  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by ufo
    restraining order


    Tried 50 times


    Start documenting each occurrence in an organizer. Once 25 or more happen, then take it to court.


    That’s been happening. Everyone (including the popo) keeps saying to “suck it up” for the greater good.

    He says some pretty degrading stuff to her


    Make sure you get evidence then. If it continues, take it to a custody hearing. Family courts dont like this behavior.


    Already been to courts about it

    Her son isn’t a typical little boy, he’s special needs and normal rules don’t apply
    click to expand


    Why do they bend the rules due to this? Is he a decent Father when he has the little guy?

    My only thought would be to relocate.. You'll have to go through the courts again about custody.. but I would imagine they would grant custody to her and he may get to see him a few times a year. Dirty, but it could work.

  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    He doesn't even count! lmao
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    Nooooo!! Other way aroundLaughing
  • wiseblood
    A wolf doesn’t concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
    28 years old female
    I never had an issue with spam likes before. Was just annoyed that I avoided coming here due to that. Guess I should have checked them..