Pisces Sun-Leo Rising-Libra Stellium-Air Dominant
"Life without love, is like a year without summer"

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Pessimistic.


Yes I see that but they often don't come across that way but I know that they are, why is that?


It's probably because there are certain things in life we take very seriously -- reputation, work, relationships, etc. Challenges in any of those areas can become a matter of life and death. Most of us take our responsibilities seriously, so quitting is not an option.

We're also very self-critical and have a tendency to hold on to the past...the mistakes, in particular, and make every effort to avoid them in the future.

So our cautious nature makes us pessimistic, I suppose.

I appear calm in real life, even under stressful circumstances and my friends think I'm someone who has no worries in life, but that is far from the truth. I ponder a lot over the choices I make. I just have a good support system.


You sound exactly like my cap. It's only because I know him so well I know all that. That does make sense I suppose your cautious nature makes you pessimistic.

He's very self-critical and really holds on to past mistakes. I tell him that he should not allow that to bother him anymore. It's in the past he learnt and grown from it. There's no need to harbor that anymore. You can't change it.

Yes he appears very calm on the surface, you'd never know when he was under stress. That's his main problem he isn't used to talking to anyone. He's a head down get on with it type of guy. However he'll be the first to admit to me that it's not always healthy, not having a release. He will either write things down or throw himself into exercise. Now that he has me I think it's taking him time to realise that I'm happy to be his support system. He's not used to it. I don't push it but he will occasionally come to me rather than let it build up (it's not regarding us btw) .

I'm cautious but not pessimistic he likes that I'm a very positive person.


That's truly nice of you. We do require more positive people around us. I'm glad you are able to provide that kind of support for him.

It must be difficult for your Cap to admit that he needs someone to depend on. You are right about learning from past mistakes and moving on. I find that some caps have a hard time dealing with that. My Cap friend, for instance, who was targeted and isolated at University, still holds on to the bitterness and hurt from those days. The discussion comes up each time we get in touch. I can see how that experience has impacted her. But she uses that anger to push ahead and achieve greater heights in her career. So it did not break her...quite the opposite.

I regularly exercise and meditate to combat stress myself. Sometimes just zoning out helps too. I do that when I'm in a room full of people discussing issues that do not require my attention.

The habit of being self-critical may be a difficult one to give up. I know I have tried and failed at that several times.

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I'm just a glass half full kind of person. My attitude is their is always someone worse off in life and I should be grateful for the good things and people I have in my life.

Well I think part of it is a male thing too. However I do realise how much he trusts me as he's told me things he's never told anybody in his life and coming from a Cap it means a lot. Yes he's not allowed bitterness to get to him. I think he used his past to his advantage too threw himself into his work and has a very successful career. He said last year that he's never really had anyone but himself and his son to think about before (even though he's had gf) but he puts me in the equation now! I just need him to get the work/life balance now as he's not used to it. With being in a LDR aswell.

I find general exercise and yoga very good for the mind. He says that when he's under stress he takes himself off somewhere quiet just to think lol

Somethings are just part of our character though aren't they. It's better than being Self-interested 😊
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Pessimistic.


Yes I see that but they often don't come across that way but I know that they are, why is that?


It's probably because there are certain things in life we take very seriously -- reputation, work, relationships, etc. Challenges in any of those areas can become a matter of life and death. Most of us take our responsibilities seriously, so quitting is not an option.

We're also very self-critical and have a tendency to hold on to the past...the mistakes, in particular, and make every effort to avoid them in the future.

So our cautious nature makes us pessimistic, I suppose.

I appear calm in real life, even under stressful circumstances and my friends think I'm someone who has no worries in life, but that is far from the truth. I ponder a lot over the choices I make. I just have a good support system.

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You sound exactly like my cap. It's only because I know him so well I know all that. That does make sense I suppose your cautious nature makes you pessimistic.

He's very self-critical and really holds on to past mistakes. I tell him that he should not allow that to bother him anymore. It's in the past he learnt and grown from it. There's no need to harbor that anymore. You can't change it.

Yes he appears very calm on the surface, you'd never know when he was under stress. That's his main problem he isn't used to talking to anyone. He's a head down get on with it type of guy. However he'll be the first to admit to me that it's not always healthy, not having a release. He will either write things down or throw himself into exercise. Now that he has me I think it's taking him time to realise that I'm happy to be his support system. He's not used to it. I don't push it but he will occasionally come to me rather than let it build up (it's not regarding us btw) .

I'm cautious but not pessimistic he likes that I'm a very positive person.
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I refuse to give my trust to venus in cancer.


The thing is you shouldn't just rule people out based on that and I'm assuming that's based on a bad experience. Many things play a part, maturity, life experience it all moulds us.
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It's all about understanding the sign Scorpio itself. Scorpios, being a water sign, are am emotional sign. Being a fixed sign they can see the world in terms of black. Scorpios understand that there is beauty in both light and dark things. Hence Scorpios focus on attaining ultimate knowledge or rather the secrets of the world. They love to know how things tick and are comfortable pulling the strings in the background.

Unlike some signs who want to focus on inner peace or outer beauty, Scorpios understand that the real world is also comprised of darkness. It's that "occult" knowledge that they seek. Scorpios are also said to be a very sexual sign and can be very comfortable indulging in carnal delights. However because they are aware of the world's darkness, they can also be paranoid. As a result even though they can be highly sexual, many will focus all of their attention on a single trustworthy lover. Scorpios are a sign of intensity, so they love fiercely and passionately. As a result this can also make them jealous and obsessive.

There's more to them that this, but this is just a basic start. Scorpios are a complicated, mysterious, and often secretive sign. If you want someone to dig deep up some dirt or to find something that shouldn't be found, a Scorpio is your best bet.

That all being said, place that energy into someone's Venus. A person with their Venus in Scorpio can be sensual and seductive. There's a certain intensity to them and often a hyper sexuality as well. They also can be jealous and obsessive, paranoid and possessive. A Scorpio Venus person doesn't just want just your heart, they want your soul. They want an intense bond. For them though they must know how you act on both good days and bad. They need to see you smile and they need to see you bleed. For them there is honesty in suffering. A Scorpio is hesitant to engage a lover who is still wearing a mask covering is flowery pleasantries. They want to to see if the creature underneath instead, so that they may find some deeper truth.

I've noticed that Scorpio Venus people, being paranoid in love, may find the need to test/torch a relationship to find the truth in it. By seeing the relationship go sour, the find understanding in its inner workings. As a result there may be some tumultuous moments when dealing with a Venus in Scorpio person.


My bf is a Cap sun, sag moon, Scorpio Venus. I've never seen him express jealousy. Do you think the other signs balance it out?




Possibly. More reserved placements may not express jealousy outwardly (also if he's just more mature). I've noticed they do tend to stalk more and be obsessed with knowing your secrets.


Yes that could be true. I do find it hard to believe with this placement and the fact he's been cheated on in all his serious relationships. I think personally this has been down to choice of women. However he is very grounded and mature. We are in a LDR.

Stalking could be a possibility, I guess I'd never know lol


Well also know that long distance relationships are hard regardless. Most people regardless of the sign have a hard time with them. I'd focus less on his Scorpio Venus and just on the quality of the communication between the two of you.

Also social media stalking is definitely possible.
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Tell me about it 18 months. I don't know if it's the Venus retrograde but I'm thinking and analysing everything. Ive not been like this before. I've always just gone with the flow, take each day rather than looking too far ahead.

As I'm quite new to astrology I'm finding it fascinating. I just enjoy finding out more, especially about myself.

Yes communication is key for us.

Well he only uses Twitter and whatsapp is how we communicate.
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It's all about understanding the sign Scorpio itself. Scorpios, being a water sign, are am emotional sign. Being a fixed sign they can see the world in terms of black. Scorpios understand that there is beauty in both light and dark things. Hence Scorpios focus on attaining ultimate knowledge or rather the secrets of the world. They love to know how things tick and are comfortable pulling the strings in the background.

Unlike some signs who want to focus on inner peace or outer beauty, Scorpios understand that the real world is also comprised of darkness. It's that "occult" knowledge that they seek. Scorpios are also said to be a very sexual sign and can be very comfortable indulging in carnal delights. However because they are aware of the world's darkness, they can also be paranoid. As a result even though they can be highly sexual, many will focus all of their attention on a single trustworthy lover. Scorpios are a sign of intensity, so they love fiercely and passionately. As a result this can also make them jealous and obsessive.

There's more to them that this, but this is just a basic start. Scorpios are a complicated, mysterious, and often secretive sign. If you want someone to dig deep up some dirt or to find something that shouldn't be found, a Scorpio is your best bet.

That all being said, place that energy into someone's Venus. A person with their Venus in Scorpio can be sensual and seductive. There's a certain intensity to them and often a hyper sexuality as well. They also can be jealous and obsessive, paranoid and possessive. A Scorpio Venus person doesn't just want just your heart, they want your soul. They want an intense bond. For them though they must know how you act on both good days and bad. They need to see you smile and they need to see you bleed. For them there is honesty in suffering. A Scorpio is hesitant to engage a lover who is still wearing a mask covering is flowery pleasantries. They want to to see if the creature underneath instead, so that they may find some deeper truth.

I've noticed that Scorpio Venus people, being paranoid in love, may find the need to test/torch a relationship to find the truth in it. By seeing the relationship go sour, the find understanding in its inner workings. As a result there may be some tumultuous moments when dealing with a Venus in Scorpio person.


My bf is a Cap sun, sag moon, Scorpio Venus. I've never seen him express jealousy. Do you think the other signs balance it out?




Possibly. More reserved placements may not express jealousy outwardly (also if he's just more mature). I've noticed they do tend to stalk more and be obsessed with knowing your secrets.
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Yes that could be true. I do find it hard to believe with this placement and the fact he's been cheated on in all his serious relationships. I think personally this has been down to choice of women. However he is very grounded and mature. We are in a LDR.

Stalking could be a possibility, I guess I'd never know lol
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It's all about understanding the sign Scorpio itself. Scorpios, being a water sign, are am emotional sign. Being a fixed sign they can see the world in terms of black. Scorpios understand that there is beauty in both light and dark things. Hence Scorpios focus on attaining ultimate knowledge or rather the secrets of the world. They love to know how things tick and are comfortable pulling the strings in the background.

Unlike some signs who want to focus on inner peace or outer beauty, Scorpios understand that the real world is also comprised of darkness. It's that "occult" knowledge that they seek. Scorpios are also said to be a very sexual sign and can be very comfortable indulging in carnal delights. However because they are aware of the world's darkness, they can also be paranoid. As a result even though they can be highly sexual, many will focus all of their attention on a single trustworthy lover. Scorpios are a sign of intensity, so they love fiercely and passionately. As a result this can also make them jealous and obsessive.

There's more to them that this, but this is just a basic start. Scorpios are a complicated, mysterious, and often secretive sign. If you want someone to dig deep up some dirt or to find something that shouldn't be found, a Scorpio is your best bet.

That all being said, place that energy into someone's Venus. A person with their Venus in Scorpio can be sensual and seductive. There's a certain intensity to them and often a hyper sexuality as well. They also can be jealous and obsessive, paranoid and possessive. A Scorpio Venus person doesn't just want just your heart, they want your soul. They want an intense bond. For them though they must know how you act on both good days and bad. They need to see you smile and they need to see you bleed. For them there is honesty in suffering. A Scorpio is hesitant to engage a lover who is still wearing a mask covering is flowery pleasantries. They want to to see if the creature underneath instead, so that they may find some deeper truth.

I've noticed that Scorpio Venus people, being paranoid in love, may find the need to test/torch a relationship to find the truth in it. By seeing the relationship go sour, the find understanding in its inner workings. As a result there may be some tumultuous moments when dealing with a Venus in Scorpio person.


My bf is a Cap sun, sag moon, Scorpio Venus. I've never seen him express jealousy. Do you think the other signs balance it out?
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Pessimistic.


Yes I see that but they often don't come across that way but I know that they are, why is that?
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^^ that gif doesn't mean they are always stone faced though. Quite the opposite. In fact, most of the Caps I know are quite outgoing and chatty in person.

But even the ones that appear open and congenial at first glance definitely have walls and protective devices around their emotions and feelings.


Fun fact: Even our humor can be a defensive wall.


That's so true and will joke about something that really you know is an insecurity (i see straight through it) why is that? To see if you agree or if you disagree?


It's just another aspect of our humor. Imho the only sign that really gets all the layers of our humor are the scorpios. It can be dark, dry, self deprecating... whatever. In the case of an insecurity, if you can laugh at it, it does not control you.

We also DO enjoy making ppl we like laugh. It's not always a wall. It just can be if we choose to use it that way.


You're spot on with the humour with the ones I know. That sentence "if you can laugh at it, it does not control you" sounds like a mature and confident cap.

You guys can be treetrunking hilarious.


It's all fun and games until we crawl out the bathroom window and leave you with the check.

Btw in my experience Pisces and Cancers often misunderstand our humor a lot... scorp a followed by Virgo and Taurus get it best. Others mileage my vary and my experiences are probably heavily influenced by my sag merc.


😂😂 I'm far to quick for you to get away with that!

I can't agree with that I know a few caps and I totally get their humour but then my dad is one so I've grown up with it.



None of this astrology stuff applies universally. I believe you. The Pisces who often doesn't get my humor is a very smart, confident Pisces gal... but for whatever reason my humor often goes over her head or she misinterprets it. Not a big deal, just an observation.

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I'm pretty new to this astrology stuff to be honest so I wouldn't know which signs get me or don't but I'd say that's exactly what people can be like with me. It can go over their heads or they think I'm being serious when I'm actually playing.
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^^ that gif doesn't mean they are always stone faced though. Quite the opposite. In fact, most of the Caps I know are quite outgoing and chatty in person.

But even the ones that appear open and congenial at first glance definitely have walls and protective devices around their emotions and feelings.


Fun fact: Even our humor can be a defensive wall.


That's so true and will joke about something that really you know is an insecurity (i see straight through it) why is that? To see if you agree or if you disagree?


It's just another aspect of our humor. Imho the only sign that really gets all the layers of our humor are the scorpios. It can be dark, dry, self deprecating... whatever. In the case of an insecurity, if you can laugh at it, it does not control you.

We also DO enjoy making ppl we like laugh. It's not always a wall. It just can be if we choose to use it that way.


You're spot on with the humour with the ones I know. That sentence "if you can laugh at it, it does not control you" sounds like a mature and confident cap.

You guys can be treetrunking hilarious.


It's all fun and games until we crawl out the bathroom window and leave you with the check.

Btw in my experience Pisces and Cancers often misunderstand our humor a lot... scorp a followed by Virgo and Taurus get it best. Others mileage my vary and my experiences are probably heavily influenced by my sag merc.
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😂😂 I'm far to quick for you to get away with that!

I can't agree with that I know a few caps and I totally get their humour but then my dad is one so I've grown up with it.

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^^ that gif doesn't mean they are always stone faced though. Quite the opposite. In fact, most of the Caps I know are quite outgoing and chatty in person.

But even the ones that appear open and congenial at first glance definitely have walls and protective devices around their emotions and feelings.


Fun fact: Even our humor can be a defensive wall.


That's so true and will joke about something that really you know is an insecurity (i see straight through it) why is that? To see if you agree or if you disagree?


It's just another aspect of our humor. Imho the only sign that really gets all the layers of our humor are the scorpios. It can be dark, dry, self deprecating... whatever. In the case of an insecurity, if you can laugh at it, it does not control you.

We also DO enjoy making ppl we like laugh. It's not always a wall. It just can be if we choose to use it that way.
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You're spot on with the humour with the ones I know. That sentence "if you can laugh at it, it does not control you" sounds like a mature and confident cap.

You guys can be treetrunking hilarious.
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^^ that gif doesn't mean they are always stone faced though. Quite the opposite. In fact, most of the Caps I know are quite outgoing and chatty in person.

But even the ones that appear open and congenial at first glance definitely have walls and protective devices around their emotions and feelings.


Fun fact: Even our humor can be a defensive wall.
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That's so true and will joke about something that really you know is an insecurity (i see straight through it) why is that? To see if you agree or if you disagree?
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Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!


treetrunking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before 😂




I am a man with many faces. *dramatic music playing*

Haha I'm the same but I tend to be quite serious on here. On Twitter I'm known for being a sarcastic cookiemonster 😂😂


Lol, you have to show us that side of you now!

I feel it may be wasted on here, or people will think I'm just being a cookiemonster and dont get my humour, there seems to be a lot of tension lately from threads I've read. I can't be arsed getting involved in that kind of drama.





Someday you'll let your sarcastic side out. I'll be watching!
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Hahaha I've been warned Americans don't get sarcasm. Maybe I'll allow my playful side out 😜
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Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!


treetrunking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before 😂




I am a man with many faces. *dramatic music playing*

Haha I'm the same but I tend to be quite serious on here. On Twitter I'm known for being a sarcastic cookiemonster 😂😂


Lol, you have to show us that side of you now!
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I feel it may be wasted on here, or people will think I'm just being a cookiemonster and dont get my humour, there seems to be a lot of tension lately from threads I've read. I can't be arsed getting involved in that kind of drama.



I'm going to try my best to be polite because I think you have baby brain!! Your hormones are probably all over the place. Cut contact with this guy. If he really wanted you he would have kept pursuing, never mind the message that didn't send, what a load of crap. That wouldn't have stopped him.
You have a husband and a new born to focus your energy on, the past is the past and don't allow your Pisces fantasy brain to run away with the fairy's.
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Dont listen to these idiots. Follow your heart! Leave your loving husband and your newborn son and try to fix things with this guy! There obviously is a lot of chemistry between you guys, and ya know - you only live once so go full on YOLO. Yeah, sure, maybe there are some communication issues between you two.. it might take another 7-9 years before you two start talking for a problem when one occurs but thats not a biggie... He MIGHT be the one!


treetrunking hilarious I've never seen this side of you before 😂
I'd say I'm a combination of 2 and 3.

I don't look at girls as competition. I have no interest in competing with anyone. I'm secure enough in myself. I'll leave the mean girls to compete with each other. I'm a strong independent women and I think we should build each other up not push each other down.

I know I can come across as harsh and blunt on here sometimes but it comes from a good place. I've always been told my text style is harsh 😬 Especially when in a serious conversation. However I'm empathetic and I'll do anything to help anyone whether I know you or not.

I'm nice to everyone until I have a reason not to be in which case I have no problem speaking my mind. I'm no pushover and I hate bullies.
This post is 3 months old!! Only just realised 😏
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Extremely prideful though as well. Extremely.


Prideful in what way in your experience?

Appearance, environment, manners...etc.
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All of that lol sorry for jumping in.

I always like to look nice, you will never see me slumming it unless I'm at home.

My house is no different. It's always neat and tidy. I have an eye for interior design and I get complimented on it a lot.

I am extremely polite (not always on here 😂) and have impeccable manners.

Let's say I'm more classy than trashy, although I make an exception in the bedroom 😉
I was married to a Leo. He's not interested by the sounds of it sorry. Trust your Pisces intuition, it's a gift.
Lust is fueled by idealisation and projection, you see what you hope someone will be or need them to be rather than seeing the real person, flaws and all.
It's wearing rose tinted glasses, where they can do no wrong.

Your focus is on their looks and body. You are more interested in sex than conversation. You like to keep the relationship on a fantasy level and not discuss real feelings. You want them/you to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning. You are lovers but not friends.

Love is when you get lost in conversation and don't realise the hours pass by. You enjoy spending time together not just for sex. He/she motivates you to be a better person. You care about the other persons feelings and want them to be happy. You want to get to know their friends and family.

Being in love doesn't exclude lust. Lust can lead to love. It requires taking time to really get to know each other.