sag sun, taurus moon, sag rising
a combination of all things magical. 1/2 sweetheart, 1/2 bad-ass! Mostly bad-ass! ;)

sun: sagittarius (house 1)
moon: taurus (house 6)
mercury: sagittarius (house 1)
venus: aquarius (house 2)
mars: virgo (house 10)
jupiter: scorpio (house 11)
saturn: libra (house 10)
uranus: sagittarius (house 12)
neptune: sagittarius (house 1)
pluto: libra (house 10)
node: cancer (house 8)
lilith: sagittarius (house 1)
chiron: taurus (house 6)
AS: sagittarius
MC: virgo

***MY DOMINANT SIGNS IN ORDER: Sagittarius, Virgo, Scorpio, Taurus, Aquarius and Libra.***

Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by youngali
i have mars in virgo, but it's in the 10th house. whatever that means.
i can't say i pick guys that don't want me... because every guy i've ever wanted.. i've gotten.
never been an issue.
i have never for the life of me stayed in an abusive relationship or with someone who doesn't want me to begin with, and NEVER will. just not my style .
i also have an aqua venus.

i do find this topic interesting and am curious to hear from other virgo mars tho.
i always thought our relations were a butter show due to many ain't butter people in this world..
but i could be wrong. πŸ˜‚


when I was reading Tina Turner's biography and her documentary on Oprah, she said honestly she has NEVER been abused or hit during her childhood or early life before Ike Turner. All of a sudden she found herself in hot water...




she said that Ike Turner was SMART, common sense smart a good strategist.

because he made sure that Tina Turner was an ICON..

was really surprised that she was not even interested in him sexually or romantically. so interesting from this.

so it doesn't mean much even if you were never abused cause something happens when you are with someone who does that.


or be like Halle berry who has actually witnessed abused and then was abused in her relationships. it's terrible how these things happen.
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yes. i get that, and understand that it could happen to anyone. but the way my temper is set up... it naturally won't allow it. he'd literally be dead. no ways around it.
Posted by jane84
Asking a bunch of Libras to decide on ONE sign? Lol Funny.

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ jk.

Libras are a sign that will try their hardest to make it work. There are many crazy ones, but the ones that truly believe in partnership can make it work with almost any sign.

I was married/sincerely loved a Taurus for 15 years... I still would not say it's the best match although it can work for several years.

Another libra might be the best choice as they seem to never separate, but I personally have little experience except a couple of dates where I didn't feel any chemistry with the guy.. that was just one though.

For me I found my best match in THIS Sag. I have never felt like this about someone, not even my ex-husband. It's a carefree, but oddly grounded relationship in that we are each others' priority. We communicate so well and enjoy a lot of the same things that it just amazes me.

But I know too many different types of combinations to choose one. I can only speak for myself.




i often see the libra + libra combo and sag +libra combo.
i have a virgo mars in 10th house and i find that i attract cancer mars men the most.
however after doing everyone's chart, i've found that majority of my exes have cancer, virgo and cap energy.
so i can definitely see a pattern with the mars placement as opposed to my venus in aqua.

Their venus is usually in Cap, Aries, Virgo, Leo or Sag. hmm interesting.
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Posted by YasmineMin

I heard that the males mars snd females venus in harmonous aspect is one of the best indicators for compatibility. I though this aspect indicated sexual compatibility?

So far, I've found this to be very hit and miss.

Based on looking at natal charts of exes, a part of me feels that Mars-Mars compatibility could be a key factor. However, the jury's still out (and probably will be for quite a while)...

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I also believe this theory.
Posted by tcta
Posted by youngali
Posted by tcta
Taurus is a good fit - this is from experience ...


taurus + libra...? interesting.


yes, and there are many on DXP that will agree ...
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i see that. just never witnessed that combo before. but judging from dxpnet, seems like it can work.
Posted by tcta
Taurus is a good fit - this is from experience ...


taurus + libra...? interesting.
Posted by lady_chatterley
Neither of us are on facebook. He couldn't handle guys chasing after me and he asked me to remove certain things from facebook. I wanted it to be fair, so I asked the same of him based on principle. After awhile we mutually agreed to ditch facebook.


great way to go about it.
Posted by 2Moon
Posted by youngali

just curious.


My top 3 sun signs for relationships:

Libra, Taurus, Sagittarius
( no order )

This is just me...

I have some other signs that I really like too, worth mentioning.. like Virgo and Scorpio
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My libra sister married another libra.
Posted by CuddleBug88
Offline, the two couples I know personally are a Libra female and Cap female - engaged and seem to be doing wonderfully. The other is a married couple, Libra male and Cap female - they've been together a few years, one daughter (a Pisces) and they're great together.


Libra + Cap?... interesting.
Posted by poison_ivy
Posted by youngali
Posted by poison_ivy
Posted by youngali
Posted by poison_ivy
Posted by youngali
Hmm... one things for certain, he's been consistent at being inconsistent. my ex cap crush, when he first pulled the ignoring butter, i spoke up about it, the second time he did it, i was done.
you have to decide if this is something you can handle and then act accordingly.
if you're worth it to him, he'll come back around... but nagging ain't the way to do it.
caps can be stressful, but scorpios are even more stress. 😩 when y'all don't get your way, you nag, nag, nag, until you do. it might not be considered nagging to y'all... but it is.

you can either...

let that man avoid you in peace, especially if you're just gonna stick around anyway... or...
...do something about it and leave.

very simple actually.
lol


Yea, I honestly don't like inconsistencies with anyone.. My man especially.. The ignoring butter seems more to me like a tantrum.. Trying to be dominate [the boss].. Choosing when and how we talk.. I am not for that butter.. So, oftentimes, I ignore his ass back and he def always comes back saying "I miss you" [Yea, OK buddy].. Some occasions I do speak up.. Asking him, "WTF is up..?"

My ex Scorpio used to nag TF outta me so I agree with you on that... BUT, Me, I HATE [w/ a passion] being nagged, and hearing someone whine and complain.. I shut down EVERY TIME my ex scorp did that.. It even bugs me when my daughter [scorpio also] whines and nags.. I don't allow that.. You know how to talk, use words... It's cute as a baby but she's too old for that butter.. lol..So.. I'm not much of a nagger myself.. IMO.. I am stubborn so me being a scorp.. I shut down.. to get my way.. & That's not the best way to do it.. BUT I'm working on it.

When I first met my cap...
My friends know me.. how I am when they upset me.. So I didn't believe my friends at first til me and him got deeper in our relationship.. but they told me from the jump when I told them how he acted when we got into a petty disagreement, "You met your match, he's just like you.." They would laugh so hard.. & say that's what you get.. LOL! My friends suck.. lol

Anyway, 2 of my friends know my 'silence" for sure because I got so mad at them before that I shut down on them and didn't talk to them for a while... They would call ppl to find out how I was.. Tell other mutual friends to tell me to call them.. Said they missed me.. etc.. & I valued them as a friend but I give ppl chances.. Over & over.. my sag Venus is very optimistic.. I like to see the good in everyone cause no ones perfect.. [we all have stories] But when you keep "treetrunking up" I hit you with the "deuce sign".. I don't play about that.. So if he remains inconsistent.. he will get the same treatment.. I have no problems cutting ties..

BTW, I'm an October Scorpio... My daughter and My ex Scorpio are November.. so maybe theres a difference.


ahhh... a sag venus! that explains everything. venus in sag does give chances until you're fed up, but it's also very forgiving so be careful. mines in aqua, so i'm able to cut it short. lol (thank GAWDDD)

i too think the ignoring thing is a sign of dominance. but those who play that game could play it by themselves. 😩 lol
patience is something the good lord did not bless me with, and it takes a hell of a lot of patience to deal with a cap, which is why they're now on my "signs i'm done with" list. lmao.
the cap + scorp combo is one of the dopest "compatible" combos out there.. so hopefully y'all can work it out.

how long has it been since y'all talked? or is he just avoiding talking about that topic in general?

Lol YUP. Good ole' Sag Venus... SMH! Sometimes I have to remove the "shades" to see through ppl. I just have a forgiving heart.. Never hold grudges either.. Even when things are "over" .. I'm that person that feels you can be "friends" with your exes if no bridges were burned and you've moved on.. smh. It's a curse... and a blessing.. depends on the situations.

Now, he's got Aqua Venus, like you.. LOL! Ya'll are tough.. But I'm always researching iish.. So I've read that Aqua Venus & a Sag venus are compatible.. So that cheers me up.. lol

Yea, I don't like it.. LOL! I let him play alone when he gets that way.. lol.. Sag Venuses need space too and don't really like confrontation. That's why we so positive.. Hoping situations get better.. w/out fighting.

LMAO! Girlaaa... LOL! I had to work on my patience with him.. I want... what I want... when I want it.. So for me to be as patient as I've been, must REALLY mean I like this man. SMH.. Cause I know me.. It doesn't take too much for me to throw in the towel when it comes to dudes.... I do get "fed up" quickly.. SO I get you completely.. Uh, after him.. boyyy, I love caps ... but Ima need to recharge for like 2 years for the next cap if that happens.. LOL!

Honestly tho, I hope we work out! God willing.. If it's in his plan, I'll be happy...

I read that also.. Scorp woman & Cap men are the "Power Couple".. Very compatible.. The biggest issue with that pairing is communication.. LOL! Obviously we see that, from my post.. We gotta get through that. Communication is the key to success for us. Another issue is they both want to "wear the pants" in the relationship.. I have to learn to be more submissive and he has to learn to be dominate constructively and not be so vain.





LOL! he's a Aqua venus!?!?!!!! LOL! that explains a lot! i feel like i'm a blend of both you guys! LOL!
My aqua venus disappears if someone is annoying, or if the topic at hand is annoying, so maybe he's annoyed with your ass for this moment. LOL! but when we do pop back up tho... we still don't want to hear about it. 😩 lol, you gotta let him bring it up on his own. he knows he's wrong tho. lol

y'all will be fine. y'all sound like a match.


LOL! Yes he is.. & You def are a good mix of the both of us!

Yea, everything annoys his ass.. LOL! I probably did annoy him, I'm sure! LOL! I laugh at him cause he so serious sometimes.. I have to tell him to lighten up when we're out together.. But he's still fun, silly, loving .. so there's a balance.. LOL! His Placements are so serious, as it is.. But you know the term "resting cookiemonster face" LOL! If someone in public annoys him.. his face gets so stern.. Like a father.. LOL! I have to get his attention and tell him to stop.. He'll either realize it, laugh and stop or tell me the reason he looks the way he does.. Ya'll Aqua Venus are funny to me..

Thank you, love.. We'll see....

Are you currently dating?
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lol i am currently dating. nothing serious yet, just trying to feel out the vibe of a couple of guys to determine whether it's worth or not.
i have mars in virgo, but it's in the 10th house. whatever that means.
i can't say i pick guys that don't want me... because every guy i've ever wanted.. i've gotten.
never been an issue.
i have never for the life of me stayed in an abusive relationship or with someone who doesn't want me to begin with, and NEVER will. just not my style .
i also have an aqua venus.

i do find this topic interesting and am curious to hear from other virgo mars tho.
i always thought our relations were a butter show due to many ain't butter people in this world..
but i could be wrong. πŸ˜‚
Posted by cheekyfaerie
So thankful he doesn't have any. One less thing.

He's logged into mine on his phone tho. That way I can send him links to events instead of having to do multiple screen shots that end up getting buried in our texts.


lucky. i'd rather him not be on social media at all... but these days... 😩
Posted by Neno2
I think its better to not post anything that has to do with relationships on social mediaπŸ˜€i like more privacy


agreed.
Posted by Teena
He better not post anything about us on the social media. It's suchha mess😣


agreed.
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Posted by youngali
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by 2Moon
Nicki only successful Queen in this hip hop butter.
Don't care what the haters says. She is one of the biggest artist in the world too


Def not hating on Nicki .. she makes her money , does her thing & is a star.. she's just wack as hell for so many reasons


what makes her wack?


Her music
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ok. definitely understand that as it's not my cup of tea either, but she still CAN rap.
i never used to like nicki, but that's because i met lil kim in person and she's the sweetest person ever. I thought to myself, how can someone not like lil kim?

so if nicki is considered "wack" it should be because she doesn't promote unity amongst women like lil kim did. thats why i say kim is queen. and will always be queen.

but nicki CAN rap, despite the type of music she DECIDES to make now. she crossed over to pop to make more money, but that doesn't mean she can't rap. kinda like taking someone out the hood. that person might conduct themselves differently in an more upscale neighbourhood... but at the end of the day they're still hood, and can go back to that mind set if necessary.
Anybody who says Nicki can't rap is a liar... her delivery is crazy, she rides the beat properly, her metaphors are dope, and she's memorable, especially her lines... that equals marketable.

The only reason i don't like Nicki like that is because i appreciate unity. Female rappers who uplift each other. i don't like bitter cookiemonsteres, but even if nicki ain't my cup of tea, it doesn't mean that she can't rap.

you see what I'm saying tho?

Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by 2Moon
Nicki only successful Queen in this hip hop butter.
Don't care what the haters says. She is one of the biggest artist in the world too


Def not hating on Nicki .. she makes her money , does her thing & is a star.. she's just wack as hell for so many reasons
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what makes her wack?
Posted by sagoya



This butter is lit! πŸ”₯
She keeps dissing her on every hit record πŸ˜‚


as she should...
it's a trap. run.
Posted by poison_ivy
Posted by youngali
Posted by poison_ivy
Posted by youngali
Hmm... one things for certain, he's been consistent at being inconsistent. my ex cap crush, when he first pulled the ignoring butter, i spoke up about it, the second time he did it, i was done.
you have to decide if this is something you can handle and then act accordingly.
if you're worth it to him, he'll come back around... but nagging ain't the way to do it.
caps can be stressful, but scorpios are even more stress. 😩 when y'all don't get your way, you nag, nag, nag, until you do. it might not be considered nagging to y'all... but it is.

you can either...

let that man avoid you in peace, especially if you're just gonna stick around anyway... or...
...do something about it and leave.

very simple actually.
lol


Yea, I honestly don't like inconsistencies with anyone.. My man especially.. The ignoring butter seems more to me like a tantrum.. Trying to be dominate [the boss].. Choosing when and how we talk.. I am not for that butter.. So, oftentimes, I ignore his ass back and he def always comes back saying "I miss you" [Yea, OK buddy].. Some occasions I do speak up.. Asking him, "WTF is up..?"

My ex Scorpio used to nag TF outta me so I agree with you on that... BUT, Me, I HATE [w/ a passion] being nagged, and hearing someone whine and complain.. I shut down EVERY TIME my ex scorp did that.. It even bugs me when my daughter [scorpio also] whines and nags.. I don't allow that.. You know how to talk, use words... It's cute as a baby but she's too old for that butter.. lol..So.. I'm not much of a nagger myself.. IMO.. I am stubborn so me being a scorp.. I shut down.. to get my way.. & That's not the best way to do it.. BUT I'm working on it.

When I first met my cap...
My friends know me.. how I am when they upset me.. So I didn't believe my friends at first til me and him got deeper in our relationship.. but they told me from the jump when I told them how he acted when we got into a petty disagreement, "You met your match, he's just like you.." They would laugh so hard.. & say that's what you get.. LOL! My friends suck.. lol

Anyway, 2 of my friends know my 'silence" for sure because I got so mad at them before that I shut down on them and didn't talk to them for a while... They would call ppl to find out how I was.. Tell other mutual friends to tell me to call them.. Said they missed me.. etc.. & I valued them as a friend but I give ppl chances.. Over & over.. my sag Venus is very optimistic.. I like to see the good in everyone cause no ones perfect.. [we all have stories] But when you keep "treetrunking up" I hit you with the "deuce sign".. I don't play about that.. So if he remains inconsistent.. he will get the same treatment.. I have no problems cutting ties..

BTW, I'm an October Scorpio... My daughter and My ex Scorpio are November.. so maybe theres a difference.


ahhh... a sag venus! that explains everything. venus in sag does give chances until you're fed up, but it's also very forgiving so be careful. mines in aqua, so i'm able to cut it short. lol (thank GAWDDD)

i too think the ignoring thing is a sign of dominance. but those who play that game could play it by themselves. 😩 lol
patience is something the good lord did not bless me with, and it takes a hell of a lot of patience to deal with a cap, which is why they're now on my "signs i'm done with" list. lmao.
the cap + scorp combo is one of the dopest "compatible" combos out there.. so hopefully y'all can work it out.

how long has it been since y'all talked? or is he just avoiding talking about that topic in general?

Lol YUP. Good ole' Sag Venus... SMH! Sometimes I have to remove the "shades" to see through ppl. I just have a forgiving heart.. Never hold grudges either.. Even when things are "over" .. I'm that person that feels you can be "friends" with your exes if no bridges were burned and you've moved on.. smh. It's a curse... and a blessing.. depends on the situations.

Now, he's got Aqua Venus, like you.. LOL! Ya'll are tough.. But I'm always researching iish.. So I've read that Aqua Venus & a Sag venus are compatible.. So that cheers me up.. lol

Yea, I don't like it.. LOL! I let him play alone when he gets that way.. lol.. Sag Venuses need space too and don't really like confrontation. That's why we so positive.. Hoping situations get better.. w/out fighting.

LMAO! Girlaaa... LOL! I had to work on my patience with him.. I want... what I want... when I want it.. So for me to be as patient as I've been, must REALLY mean I like this man. SMH.. Cause I know me.. It doesn't take too much for me to throw in the towel when it comes to dudes.... I do get "fed up" quickly.. SO I get you completely.. Uh, after him.. boyyy, I love caps ... but Ima need to recharge for like 2 years for the next cap if that happens.. LOL!

Honestly tho, I hope we work out! God willing.. If it's in his plan, I'll be happy...

I read that also.. Scorp woman & Cap men are the "Power Couple".. Very compatible.. The biggest issue with that pairing is communication.. LOL! Obviously we see that, from my post.. We gotta get through that. Communication is the key to success for us. Another issue is they both want to "wear the pants" in the relationship.. I have to learn to be more submissive and he has to learn to be dominate constructively and not be so vain.



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LOL! he's a Aqua venus!?!?!!!! LOL! that explains a lot! i feel like i'm a blend of both you guys! LOL!
My aqua venus disappears if someone is annoying, or if the topic at hand is annoying, so maybe he's annoyed with your ass for this moment. LOL! but when we do pop back up tho... we still don't want to hear about it. 😩 lol, you gotta let him bring it up on his own. he knows he's wrong tho. lol

y'all will be fine. y'all sound like a match.