^ Hi fellow Aries, Yes I'm officially over this guy. I even confronted him today about some stuff and he got really mad. We both agreed just to be work associates. I'm glad it's over this Aqua man drained me mentally the last few months. I'm back feeling like myself. And yes once an Aries is over you their over you, we definitely turn ice cold.
This is the second time I didn't speak him. I remember few weeks ago I was over him and didn't want to speak to him at work and he later called me that day to see what was up. We ended up hanging out the next day, big mistake on my part I should've just kept ignoring then. This time though I'm going stay strong and not let him get my attention.
He got mad because I didn't say anything to him at work today, he said hi to me but I didn't respond. I didn't even look him in the eye, I had on my mp3 player and just dropped off the stuff for his department. He pushed the stuff back and said "your not speaking, now your trying too hard" he looked mad like he was hurt. Like seriously he act like the way he act towards me doesn't affect me, like I'm suppose to forget. I felt so much better not showing him any attention. I guess some of you guys are right Aquas like when someone doesn't pay them attention. I'm not going to play this tug a war game with him.
I think he wasn't taking me out because he didn't want me to get the idea that were dating/together. Basically I became a booty call hoping it would be something more. I'm 23 and he is 36 but looks and act younger than his age. I told a few friends of mine about the situation and they told me he should be taking me out to dinner, movies etc.They told me I should back off, he's obviously has someone or he's a player. As an Aries woman we know what we want, and don't like when people BS us. Just keep it real and don't play games. Yes were impatient, but we don't like to be left not knowing what's going on. I'm open to trying other Aquarius men but this one has me so mentally drained, I don't even know if I want to try it again.
NoyYourAverageAquarius, Good advice and it's definitely nothing wrong with wanting strong minded people who won't be at your feet. Obviously Aquas are attractive lol I think it's your magnetic personalities. I think I might be might be better off as friends with Aquas because the relationship thing is complicated.
NotYourAverageAquarius, Yea I'm going to cut it off with him. He's showing me he doesn't even want to be friends by how he acts at work. That's odd that Aquas like people who don't show them attention or fall at their every whim. What's wrong with someone admiring you and being nice?
Truecap, I know I messed up by getting involved with him without having him take me out on dates and getting an understanding.
Aquasnoz, basically all the red flags are there for me to see, this guy just isn't in to me. He will probably never be, which sucks because I liked him. He was a charmer at first and then turned cold. I guess he started treating me like all the other girls he mess around with without any commitment. I'm going to leave him alone and move on. He'll probably call me out of the blue but I'll try my best not answer it.
And yes I just want a normal friendship with him, after finding out he didn't want a serious relationship. But he's the one who wanted sex. I actually like talking to him on the phone and hanging out with him. I agree he only see me as a treetrunk buddy, sad but true. He doesn't want friendship, he already got his friends. He's also 12 years older than me, which he is stuck in his ways.
He didn't make it clear that we were FWB. The emotion thing I just associated with him being cold at work and the not text/call in long periods of time. If your friends with someone man or woman you'll call and talk to them or atleast see how they've been or send a simple text. Everytime we get off the phone he'll say I'll call you later, and never does. We also never hang out on the weekends. Obviously he got other priortys and I'm last on the list. We were in the getting know each other stage and suppose to be going on more dates but he doesn't seem interested. I've had other men call or text me everyday or every other day especially in the getting to know each other stage. This guy doesn't give a squat, but call me when he ready too. He just seems selfish and all bout himself to me. He probably got other chicks he's talking too, maybe that's why we can't hang out on weekends.
Your right all Aqua's are not like that, sorry but this just my first time dealing with one.
Aquasnoz, I'm not mad at that it's just he treated me way better before we got "involved". He doesn't have to flirt but atleast act normal and speak like before. He also don't want anyone at the job to know about us(which I agree). But like I said we haven't talked in a week and he canceled the date maybe he did think I'm trying to make him my bf. I'm just trying be friends with him, but he doesn't see it that way. He just want a booty call, when he's ready. I read other places Aquarius men are players and don't like emotion. After dealing with this guy I believe it.
I understood from the beginning he didn't want a relationship. I just didn't expect him to be so distant/cold towards me at work. I also didn't expect him to not call/text that much. I was a okay with FWB type relationship with him, but he's hard to understand and communicate with. I'm an aries woman and don't understand Aquarius men. This was the first(Aqua man) I was involved with and I'll tell you I want date another, their too into themselves for me.
Continued...He calls me out of the blue asking how Iv'e been and wanting to hang out again. This time he was very excited to hang out and event told me he was excited. It's very rare to see/hear emotion out of him, so I was shock. I was seriously going to leave him alone after how distant he's been acting. So I decided to go by his place, and we started to make out and grind on each other a little. I wanted to spend a night and cuddle but he never asked me. I left and went home I was a little disappointed because now I felt he was just using me. So before I left he set up another date for next week we were going get something to eat this time. So I called him towards the end of the week just to chat and see if we were still on for next week date. So before we got off the phone he told me he'll call me before then...he didn't call me and even called off the date the day of I texted him saying "are you up"? he replied: "yea but Im have take a rain check Im not feeling well" I said: "Okay, get well" he replied "thanks". So I was left feeling disappointed again, after I was anticipating the date. And he haven't called me in a week.