Signs that act fast ....saggitarius gemini aquarius ....bad juges
Signs that take their time ....cancer taurus virgo ...good ones usually ..
Signs that create too much fantasy ..libra...pisces..they always see the good in people
Are there any specific signs I work best with? I find that I do well with cu
Scorpio muddled with Cancer, dash of Gemini and garnished with Sagittarius.
As a Scorp I’d go for an Aquarius or a Leo before Pisces Cap or virgo. Not that I couldn’t enjoy a relationship with the last three. But experience wise I’m still more motivated by personalities that challenge me.
Cancer still always top candidate tho. If I don’t settle with a cancer, then either I’m too picky to ever be in a relationship or I get to meet the dopest member of another sign’s tribe.
Recently I've started to notice in the modern time, a lot of relationships and couple pairings that are deemed to be 'Not compatible' in terms of classic Astrology.
For example :-
Pisces x Gemini Scorpio x Aries Taurus x Libra Gemini x Taurus Capricorn x Libra Pisces x Aries (I had an Aries girlfriend in high school myself) Pisces x Aquarius Scorpio x Leo (My parents, married now for 24+ years) Cancer x Sagittarius Virgo x Sagittarius Leo x Pisces Aquarius x Scorpio And the list goes on...
What are your thoughts on this? Do you think that in the modern day zodiac sun-sign pairings that are deemed to be 'Incompatible' can actually work well?
Virgo sun Scorpio moon Leo Mercury/Ascendant Cancer Venus Libra Mars/Jupiter
emotionally and mentally abusive. very good at manipulating. gaslighting. anything negative- he did it. we were young, but it definitely damaged me. I never had healthy functional relationships until... 2016. That relationship had ended in 2011. It lasted from 2008-2011, because he would manipulate me back into the relationship by threatening suicide amongst other things. He once told me he stabbed himself in the stomach because I wanted to leave him. The next day I asked to see it, and he changed the subject. I knew it was a lie. He also was a pathological liar. He lied to me telling me his mom was dead as an example. Low and behold... not dead. Many other lies like this were told throughout the relationship. Once we broke up and he tried a new tactic and said to me that he hoped I’d get hit by a bus and die so he could go to my funeral drunk and laugh because I was pathetic and ugly. Good times. 3 years of that.
NEXT UP: Aquarius Sun/Mercury Capricorn Moon/Ascendant Aries Venus/Jupiter Sagittarius Mars
Used to think he was the love of my life. Just unhealthy for me. He was a user. Or at least he used me. I’d give him money. He was really... just a good hustler realistically. Overall he’s not a bad person. Just not good in relationships. Well... not good with me anyways. He had a weird power over me. My Sun conjunct his Pluto. It was definitely felt in this relationship. Not a good feeling. It can be a good feeling though. I have that aspect with my current boyfriend, and he doesn’t abuse it. Thankfully.
I added outer planets since he was significantly younger than me. Well... 4 years. He lied to me about his age. He had narcissistic tendencies. Definitely would gaslight me. If I was upset about something he’d make it about him. One time I talked about how I felt like he never wanted to hang out during the day and do weird, fun activities like I like to do. He told me I was trying to make him feel inferior and “how dare I.” I was the one who felt inferior. It was a mess. He made me feel bad once saying I didn’t check on him during a family emergency, and when I mentioned it to someone else they said “he didn’t have an emergency, it was a family event. Not an emergency.” So there was that. Also when I confronted him about that and his age he denied both. He made the lie bigger about his age actually and created a new string of lies. A couple of friends of mine got him to tell the truth though. This was after I had blocked him and cut him out of my life. There was a lot more to it than this, but it was two months of extreme emotional pain. I really liked him. But my Venus was square his Neptune. I definitely do NOT recommend this as a woman w a Man’s Neptune in hard aspect to my Venus. It might be easier the other way around, but it was an exact square for us... and very apparent. He was certainly the deceiver. I don’t think he meant it as bad as it turned out. I think his goal was to impress me with some of his lies. As for others it was just a test to see if i cared. He had Moon conjunct Pluto natally. He’s not a bad guy. Just not a good guy for me.
These are my most toxic relations/hookups. Whatever we want to call them. The Pisces was from April-June of 2018. It took months to get over that short period. i really liked him. It was... very painful.
Now I have my Gemini, and I love him. He is the light of my life