So, my Virgo girlfriend was there for the Columbine HS shooting and the anniversary is tomorrow 4/20... Then this crazy lady this week goes and makes threats to shoot up a school because she was obsessed with Columbine. My girl's son's school was shut dow
I met this virgo at work and he started lightly flirting, so I did it back, he's cute and seemed like a good guy. Everyday we started to talk, he would walk by my desk and smile and I would get the butterflies, and I'm like holy crap, he likes me. A
Two weeks ago i met a Scorpio man and the chemistry was on fire... be being a caprocron sun and moon in virgo while him a Scorpio sun, virgo moon and venus in Scorpio.
however there is a 3rd person in this person.... his other per
Been seeing an amazing Virgo woman for about 3 months now. We've been friends for 5-6 years until we started dating. She is a completely different person in a relationship, but I'm enjoying every new thing I learn about her. She just confuses the hell out
I don't know if this is just a Virgo thing or a player thing? Some women do this too I've noticed.
Anyway, this is why I try hard to avoid anyone who has like feelings for another person/other people. That is so like High School to me and such a time waste and feels so like pathetic and insecure to even try anything with that. I feel like you have your answer about him with this Jupiter Retrograde though. What else is there to question? It sucks that he led you on but as soon as he told you that he has a girlfriend that's when any kind of connection/friendship should have ended since you are invested in him.
Move on gorl. I feel like you will either way because you're a Scorpio and Pluto is joining in on this retrograde down the line. So is Saturn I believe. It all ends sometime in August! x
get up, spit that blood out of your mouth... and go spill theirs
I don't know how to flirt I'm pretty inept in that particular stage. But that whole situation isn't a virgo thing. Plenty ppl invest too early in one person and a better person comes along. To gamble or play it safe?
But to give you advice don't ever play second to anybody. A friendship with him isn't worth the emotional torture.
If you read all this and reply, I'd deeply appreciate you.
She is confusing me... We talk once in a while on Instagram.
Started going to the same lounge bar she goes for Latin party nights. I asked her if she was going too one night."I am going tonight, to defeat my mind" I told her because she knows I have trouble going in the dancefloor. She said "maybe", I replied with a thumbs up. I go and she shows up, and she surprises me with a hug greeting and kiss on cheek. I think probably because the previous day shared her post about her new dance classes she was starting. But tell me not to dance with her that night. She didnt come to dance. But she danced with other people who asked her. I know you can;t refuse when asked. I knew she didnt want to dance with me because I am not that good, yet. And it's ok. The whole night, she was coming over, (she was at a reserved table, I was at the bar), she was coming over chatting and giving me advise because I was not confident on dancing. Encouraging me to dance. She was all cheerful with me the whole night. And I walked her to her at the end of the night. She talked to me about that she liked lime, bitter stuff. not sweet food.
Next day I say "Thank you for the night" She said"Np, dance with your body, not in your mind"
Honestly the thank you was for her being so affectionate with me that night. She was close by, next to me and even she dance next to me alone, flipping her hair. I gave an few looks and smiled at her.
During the weekend, I asked her if she wanted to come to a park for a walk, she said I should go and she might go somewhere else. Told her that I could give her time alone even she came with me. She said, that if she decided to go somewhere to relax she'd be alone anway. Added a "dear" at the end. I replied "ok "
Thursday comes for the latin party, I felt asking her again if she'd go. Hoping to be a bit of the same night. This time she did not reply.
I go there. She shows up late. I was a the bar, she passes behind me the first time. After a while she passes behind me a second time, I wave her behind my back, she glimpses at me, and pretend to ignore me. She was distant that night. I got bit upset. I see her going to the area near the exit to check her self on the mirror. I go out to get some air and I touch her to greet her. She asked me why did I text her if she'd come? I shrugged my shoulders, I was stressed. Then she tells me, I don't have to come here, only whenever she comes. I nodded and told her I need to go out get some air.
Saw her dancing the night out. The party finishes, I go tell her am leaving, she asked me if I danced that night. Told her about 3 times. said "hm". And I I try to hug her good night. She said, "don't kiss me goodnight, I am sweaty" She was sweaty and she was wiping her self with tissues. But I tried that because wanted to be like the previous night where she was all hugs and chatty. totally different experience. Did not walked her to her car that night. Felt bit weird energy that night.
Did not text her during that week, thought the energy was weird and she didnt post anything on Instagram as she usually does.
Last night, she comes. We saw each other while I was dancing and I greeted her and she greeted me. We had reserved tables next to each other. I was siting with my group and she was in line of sight, she sees me looking at her and few seconds later she starts dancing alone, facing my way, but not looking. After my group leaves, she came and asked if my group left. After a while, she saw me looking at her while dancing with someone, and she comes by and tells me she doesn't like dancing with people that are off beat and leaves. She dances with a guy few times. And she hugged him and cheek kissed him couple of times. One time she walked on him, talked and gave him a kiss on cheek again. Danced a bit with him again and she saw me looking, she did that few times.
Then the bar starts closing. The dude leaves, she stays with the photographer to takes some pics. I stayed until she finished. Everyone left. She noticed and I think when the photographer took enough photos, she asked for bit more, with quite loud voice tone. Don;t know if she was testing me, I could be overthinking this.
Then she come pick her back and tells me to let's go in a commanding voice? She tells me "you stayed until I finished taking pictures?!" I didn't answer I just smiled. She went to get her coat, I waited for her while chatting with the photographer. We all 3 walk out. She sees the dude she danced with, hugs him and gives him a kiss on cheek chatted bit with him. She looks back and sees me chatting with the photographer.
Then I walked her to her car. We spent a good amount of time with her giving me advice on how to improve, that I should have a male teacher instead of female teacher to improve. She sits in car, starts the engine and I close the door for her and leave.
I don't know, I start overthinking. I am a Virgo! Want to tell her things but we dont really know each other. Just seen her 4 times in person. She was a classmate in primary school though. Seen her about 4 times that we chatted a bit at the bar. Mostly chat on instagram, when I comment on her stories sometimes.
So, my Virgo girlfriend was there for the Columbine HS shooting and the anniversary is tomorrow 4/20... Then this crazy lady this week goes and makes threats to shoot up a school because she was obsessed with Columbine. My girl's son's school was shut down and the lady was found not too far from where she lives, so I know it really has her shaken.
Anyway, I know she has anxiety every year around this time, but this year it is much worse. We don't live together, so it's hard for me to be there physically, esp when she is needing her alone time. I'm just wondering if there is something I could do for her to help ease her anxiety a little?
I don't ask her to talk about, at least not this time of year. I've been trying to keep her distracted and just let her know I'm here for her if she needs me. If I'm not there in person though, I can't always tell how anxious she really is. So I try to check in on her often, but not so often as to be annoying lol
She's a typical Virgo in how she handles her emotions (not that I'm an expert... Just learning about the Virgo aspect). I've been there as a friend for her in years past, but our romantic relationship is new and I think she is more afraid to be vulnerable with me now.