Posted by KnackSplash Posted by Whathaveidone Posted by Sagicorn
Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before
He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.
See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in butter that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.
I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullbutter started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:
1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLbutter that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.
2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullbutter and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.
The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.
You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.
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libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.
1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.
2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.
MysScorpVirgo
