Understand The Virgo Man Using Astrology

So .. there is this virgo man, that i met through a mutual friend... he is sweet and gorgeous but i never knew his intentions towards me... but our mutual friend came and told and told me that this guy is verrrry interested in you... but honestly i couldnt see it, cuz he takes a week to speak woth me again.. and never asked me out .... but i decided to be patient and give him his space and time ... he approaches me from time to time in a very un-understandable ways ever ... lol he says stuff like “ u know?.. i like the connection that we have... i think it is what excites us! / oooh and u r funny tooo/ u r so gorgeous / i feel like i’ve known u since forever/ etc ...

Then suddenly yesterday in the morning.. while we were texting.. he suddenly sent me a picture of rings and asked me which one would i like better? And i said the one on the right so he as asked “ with the letter R” ? And thats NOT my initial LOL ... i said oh thats a letter ... okay i dunno i think yeah... and then he re-asked tell me ur honest opinion.. and i was shocked lol that he approached me to ask me for a ring (bot a wedding ring) for another girl !!!! Wth ?!

I stayed calm for a hour then i decided to remove him from my social media and just delete his number .. but i saw that he tried ro text me again at night but realized i deleted him so i texted him instead and i expressed my true feelings and that i liked him and i think it was obvious and that i took the hint and pulled away because i like him more than accept being a normal friend in a way that he would take my opinion on his relationship with ither girls lol!!

He only replied with “ ohhh ! What a loss”

And i cant understand what he means so i dont know what to expect ! This is it? Or there is something else and what does he mean by saying this is it sarcasm or he means something lol ... i dunno

Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.

Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.

Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!

I have been with my Virgo man for 10 years. I have looked the other way at other men while in my relationship and I am ashamed for it. I cheated on him by going out with another man on dates, events, movies. I was so lost and couldn’t see the dark path I was going down until my Virgo man found out. He is completely done (due to my past) and wants to end things. It has finally taken me this time to realize he is the ONLY man I want in my life and I was too stupid and blind to see that before. It took me loosing him to realize this. I will do absolutely anything to try to repair this. I know he doesn’t want to but I want to try. I just have a couple questions.

1. What are the steps you should take after cheating to make the other person feel as comfortable as possible?
2. Contact or no contact? So far I have been reaching out to say I am sorry with long sincere apologies
3. How can I show him I want this and this is it for me. I don’t know if this is even possible but I want to try.

Any advice about the situation of cheating, or Virgo personalities in general would be super helpful and appreciated. Thank you. I know there is a slim chance but I do want to try.

/retrieves the Virgo man from the trash and dusts him off.

You probably met the Virgo a little sooner than was ideal, but that's life. Imperfect stuff happens. If you don't want to be with the Sag instead, and you're not just fooling yourself, I don't think there is a problem. If you truly care about someone, those feelings don't just vanish instantly. It takes time for them to fade into memories that instruct you. Just acknowledge the feeling and release it. Your feelings for the old partner will fade while feelings for the new one get stronger.

P.S. I don't advise telling the Virgo about those feelings. I'm normally for complete honesty, but past experience tells me that will torpedo the new relationship. If the feelings are enough of a problem that they distract you from the Virgo, you probably should reconsider whether you're ready for a new relationship. Okay, I done.

Posted by virgoOPPP
@saggurl88

rawness, matter-of-fact genuine i think is offered by virgo quincunx- aquarius and aries

Well you’ve dated an Aries. What about an Aquarius?


I’m different with every Virgo man I come across. It’s weird and I don’t understand why. Some are easier to talk to then others and there’s a better base understanding with no difficulties at all.