Understand The Virgo Man Using Astrology

Virgo's Can be Drawn to Taboo MattersVirgo men like contrasts. Michael Jackson was a Virgo. Virgo man likes to see dark skin against light skin, and prefers a mousy woman but will date the vampier types. They like voyeurism and watching these conflicting dynamics. At times, a male Virgo may find himself fighting inner impulses and will throw himself into a number of situations others may find taboo. As well, when entering and exiting relationships, the Virgo male may adopt an entirely new persona with each. A Virgo man can be compared to the entertainer, Madonna - completely reinventing himself each and every time.The Virgo male possesses a built in ability to keep a distance in relationships. At times, Virgo's skepticism may hold him back from taking the plunge in sexual matters. You must be spotless, the house must be spotless, the sheets must be spotless. If anything is out of place - forget it. In the more Virgo of these men, this can be so troublesome that the Virgo male tends to become the Virgin - the symbol of his sign. Virgoman feels as if he's ultimately lacking knowledge in this department as well, which doesn't help matters. A male Virgo sees sex as a way to "touch base" with his partner, but not necessarily as an act to take place just for fun or release. As a result, it may become somewhat ritualistic in nature and done only at certain times or for a certain purpose.What the Virgo male may not understand, however, is that he possess a white hot sexuality beneath all of his fears that may hold him back. Once he settles into his skin, his sexuality, and has worked out any instilled issues remaining from childhood by parents who may have taught him sex was bad, the Virgo male can prove to be a very good lover, indeed. He likes to be seen as a tool, providing his service once again, for his lover to reach heavenly heights. As a result of this, he'll tend to prefer the woman-on-top scenario or receiving oral sex. The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, by providing himself as a tool, he is taking all of the anxiety surrounding his performance, off of himself. Having revealed all of the inner workings of the mysterious Virgo male, please do not see our Virgo man as a figure to be avoided or to pity.Virgo's are an earth sign, and as a result, they will possess a love of the outdoors and gardening. They are a peaceful, stable bunch and are relatively docile by nature. They are tender, caring, and possess an outstanding ability to sympathize and empathize with others. Especially those less fortunate.Virgos are Extremely Hard Workers and Possess a TremendousWork EthicVirgo men are a responsible group who cares for and provides for the family unit as a whole. Being a mutable (changeable) sign, they are flexible by nature and can move and evolve with a relationship or changing scene, all the while, maintaining stability and offering themselves as a "rock" to others.The Virgo male will go to great lengths to please a lover or family members. Remember, he's driven by the need to provide a service to others. To assist, to excel, to propel and to love. He keeps everything moving forward, and in a state of perfection. Under all the masks a Virgo male wears, there is a loving, tender, caring person, indeed.He Will Achieve His Greatest Success Later in LifeWhen a Virgo man realizes his role and his value in personal relationships as a service oriented provider ~ he learns to accept himself and is freed to succeed.* * * * *

That Confounding Virgo MaleThe Virgo male can be a bit of mystery and a confounding character at times. An enigma so to speak. To the Virgo male, the world is an imperfect place, fraught with conflicts, crisis, and potential pitfalls of which he will always be on the lookout for.In astrology, he is a perfectionist by nature. He prefers each and every situation in life to be no less than "ideal." Having such a view of the world is what helps to perpetuate the Virgo males ever present sense of disillusionment with life. After all,we all know what happens when you only expect the absolute best all the time - you end up disappointed and feeling let down. Frustrated, angry, and feeling used.According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, the Virgo male masks his profound sensitivity and long list of emotional wounds with a barrier of cynicism. He projects a sense of being somewhat "unavailable," and at times can put people off. Virgo men are more likely to make a less-than-friendly first impression, more so than any other sign of the zodiac, and many that are more Virgoan by nature maintain a cool facade throughout life.The Virgo man is a master of disguises, a chameleon if you will, he may wear many different "hats" in life. He may put on different faces for different people, depending where he is and what group he's currently with. The Virgo male does not like for "his worlds to collide." In other words, he'll act a certain way at work, or with friends, and then he'll act completely different at home. He cannot mix these two worldscompletely, for fear that one group may realize that he isn't all that he's previously presented himself to be.The Virgo Male is an Enigma of SortsSecrets, mystery, and a cloak of darkness may seem as if theysurround him at all times - melancholy. It may be hard to get through to a Virgo male in order to truly understand him, and his preconceived notions of the world, as a world full of crisis and failures. Mercury is his ruling planet. This aura of uncertainty and disenfranchisement that surrounds the sign's planetary ruler is analogous to the Virgo male psychology. The Virgo male can simply go MIA when dealing with others - both physically and emotionally - making himself completely unavailable.Conflict is a dirty word to the Virgo male and it will be avoidedat all costs. Virgo is a mutable (changeable) earth (stable) sign. His sign quadrant is The Second Quadrant, which is that of the emotional environment. One where a persons feelings about the world are of prime concern. His number is 6, which is seen as the devil's number or, in contrast, the number of God's creation, as it took 6 days to create the earth, resting on the 7th.The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains that this association is also fitting of the Virgo males trouble with finding balance or happiness in life. He feels forever "caught in the middle" and Sextrology likens him to the Charlie Brownsof the world. The Virgo's associated age range is that of 35-42, a time when a man's so called "glory days" are gone. Asa result, he may suffer from many irrational fears such as disenfranchisement, phobias, hypochondria, and secret self-loathing.Virgo Male May Feel as if Life is Just One Big, Long, Mid-Life CrisisAlways seeking perfection, our Virgo males can be critical, judgemental, harsh, obsessive compulsive behavior and hypochondria - along with a myriad of other ailments that they'll convince themselves their forever suffering from. The Sextrology astrology horoscope considers the Virgo male "The Vehicle." Virgo man is here to serve and generate forward movement. A rather unfortunate side effect to his service orientation is that male Virgo's tend to be used, more so than any other sign in the zodiac, as a stepping stone of sorts by women. As someone whom they can propel themselves from.Fittingly because of this, Virgo male can fall prey to a numberof doubts, insecurities and fears instilled in him from an early age. He feels socially "cast out" and many Virgo males are born during a period of strife between the parental figures during a marriage. Thus, the ever-present Virgoan balancing act in life, again - caught in the middle - and unhappy with hisplace and achievements in life. In relationships, the Virgo malelikes wholesomeness in his partner. He doesn't wish for her to have a long line of lovers in her past, as he secretly considers himself less sexually knowledgeable than most of his partners.Don't get me wrong, Virgo men do enjoy sex, however, they feel they may lack the sexual passions and knowledge that arelearned through more serious, long term commitments. In light of that fact, however, it is because of his ever present feelings of lacking a true sexual education, that he brushes upon sexuality and things that make a woman "tick." And, again, being a service oriented sign, the Virgo male aims to please and will go to great lengths to do so. He seems to have an undeniable sense of a woman's inner workings.One particular side note regarding this, a Virgo male that tends to dwell too much on perfecting the act, performing it perfectly, may render himself useless in doing so. If a Virgo male tends to get "too in his head" regarding his performanceand perfecting it, he may fall short and be unable to completethe act. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Virgo male cynicism relates to his association with the 6th Astrological House of critical analysis and service. He adopts the role of a critic and sets himself towards perfecting the world. The Virgo man can be overly judgmental and harsh - even to his lovers. However, this is a service that Virgo male provides to you. It's a part of his horoscope mapping. He is pointing out your faults so that you may become a better person by him doing so.Our Virgo Male is Always "Perfecting" Everything Around HimThe Virgo man craves information, is very analytical in nature and adopts an air of expertise regarding certain matters. He likes order. He likes organization. He likes to make lists, he likes to read to educate himself, he likes tidbits of trivia and what some would call "useless knowledge."Virgo men insist on absolute cleanliness, perfect hygiene, holistic foods, and will be the first to notice a spot of dirt or a dust bunny in the corner of the bedroom. The Virgo man channels much energy into forming opinions of others. He likesto problem solve. If you find yourself venting to a Virgo male, you can almost hear the ticking of his mind beginning to develop a solution to your problem for you. Yet another Virgoan service he's providing to you.According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, in relationships, those Virgo males who seem to be a bit more Virgoan than others, tend to prefer a woman they can mold totheir certain specifications. Secretly, a Virgo man longs for a mousy type woman - a little house on the prairie type. However, most of them will fight that notion and find themselves drawn to older, more sexually experienced, vampier women, whom they feel they can learn a thing or two from.

That Confounding Virgo MaleThe Virgo male can be a bit of mystery and a confounding character at times. An enigma so to speak. To the Virgo male, the world is an imperfect place, fraught with conflicts, crisis, and potential pitfalls of which he will always be on the lookout for.In astrology, he is a perfectionist by nature. He prefers each and every situation in life to be no less than "ideal." Having such a view of the world is what helps to perpetuate the Virgo males ever present sense of disillusionment with life. After all,we all know what happens when you only expect the absolute best all the time - you end up disappointed and feeling let down. Frustrated, angry, and feeling used.According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, the Virgo male masks his profound sensitivity and long list of emotional wounds with a barrier of cynicism. He projects a sense of being somewhat "unavailable," and at times can put people off. Virgo men are more likely to make a less-than-friendly first impression, more so than any other sign of the zodiac, and many that are more Virgoan by nature maintain a cool facade throughout life.The Virgo man is a master of disguises, a chameleon if you will, he may wear many different "hats" in life. He may put on different faces for different people, depending where he is and what group he's currently with. The Virgo male does not like for "his worlds to collide." In other words, he'll act a certain way at work, or with friends, and then he'll act completely different at home. He cannot mix these two worldscompletely, for fear that one group may realize that he isn't all that he's previously presented himself to be.The Virgo Male is an Enigma of SortsSecrets, mystery, and a cloak of darkness may seem as if theysurround him at all times - melancholy. It may be hard to get through to a Virgo male in order to truly understand him, and his preconceived notions of the world, as a world full of crisis and failures. Mercury is his ruling planet. This aura of uncertainty and disenfranchisement that surrounds the sign's planetary ruler is analogous to the Virgo male psychology. The Virgo male can simply go MIA when dealing with others - both physically and emotionally - making himself completely unavailable.Conflict is a dirty word to the Virgo male and it will be avoidedat all costs. Virgo is a mutable (changeable) earth (stable) sign. His sign quadrant is The Second Quadrant, which is that of the emotional environment. One where a persons feelings about the world are of prime concern. His number is 6, which is seen as the devil's number or, in contrast, the number of God's creation, as it took 6 days to create the earth, resting on the 7th.The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains that this association is also fitting of the Virgo males trouble with finding balance or happiness in life. He feels forever "caught in the middle" and Sextrology likens him to the Charlie Brownsof the world. The Virgo's associated age range is that of 35-42, a time when a man's so called "glory days" are gone. Asa result, he may suffer from many irrational fears such as disenfranchisement, phobias, hypochondria, and secret self-loathing.Virgo Male May Feel as if Life is Just One Big, Long, Mid-Life CrisisAlways seeking perfection, our Virgo males can be critical, judgemental, harsh, obsessive compulsive behavior and hypochondria - along with a myriad of other ailments that they'll convince themselves their forever suffering from. The Sextrology astrology horoscope considers the Virgo male "The Vehicle." Virgo man is here to serve and generate forward movement. A rather unfortunate side effect to his service orientation is that male Virgo's tend to be used, more so than any other sign in the zodiac, as a stepping stone of sorts by women. As someone whom they can propel themselves from.Fittingly because of this, Virgo male can fall prey to a numberof doubts, insecurities and fears instilled in him from an early age. He feels socially "cast out" and many Virgo males are born during a period of strife between the parental figures during a marriage. Thus, the ever-present Virgoan balancing act in life, again - caught in the middle - and unhappy with hisplace and achievements in life. In relationships, the Virgo malelikes wholesomeness in his partner. He doesn't wish for her to have a long line of lovers in her past, as he secretly considers himself less sexually knowledgeable than most of his partners.Don't get me wrong, Virgo men do enjoy sex, however, they feel they may lack the sexual passions and knowledge that arelearned through more serious, long term commitments. In light of that fact, however, it is because of his ever present feelings of lacking a true sexual education, that he brushes upon sexuality and things that make a woman "tick." And, again, being a service oriented sign, the Virgo male aims to please and will go to great lengths to do so. He seems to have an undeniable sense of a woman's inner workings.One particular side note regarding this, a Virgo male that tends to dwell too much on perfecting the act, performing it perfectly, may render himself useless in doing so. If a Virgo male tends to get "too in his head" regarding his performanceand perfecting it, he may fall short and be unable to completethe act. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Virgo male cynicism relates to his association with the 6th Astrological House of critical analysis and service. He adopts the role of a critic and sets himself towards perfecting the world. The Virgo man can be overly judgmental and harsh - even to his lovers. However, this is a service that Virgo male provides to you. It's a part of his horoscope mapping. He is pointing out your faults so that you may become a better person by him doing so.Our Virgo Male is Always "Perfecting" Everything Around HimThe Virgo man craves information, is very analytical in nature and adopts an air of expertise regarding certain matters. He likes order. He likes organization. He likes to make lists, he likes to read to educate himself, he likes tidbits of trivia and what some would call "useless knowledge."Virgo men insist on absolute cleanliness, perfect hygiene, holistic foods, and will be the first to notice a spot of dirt or a dust bunny in the corner of the bedroom. The Virgo man channels much energy into forming opinions of others. He likesto problem solve. If you find yourself venting to a Virgo male, you can almost hear the ticking of his mind beginning to develop a solution to your problem for you. Yet another Virgoan service he's providing to you.According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, in relationships, those Virgo males who seem to be a bit more Virgoan than others, tend to prefer a woman they can mold totheir certain specifications. Secretly, a Virgo man longs for a mousy type woman - a little house on the prairie type. However, most of them will fight that notion and find themselves drawn to older, more sexually experienced, vampier women, whom they feel they can learn a thing or two from.

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Sagittarius F and Virgo M

I can’t stand being told what to do and he’s already told me that he can help me with life in general since he knows so much about lots of things.

He told me I need to let him help with stuff.

I don’t want to. I’m too independent and not some codependent broad.

So I let it go in one ear and out the other and he feels butt hurt.

I’m not sure what to do to remedy this.

I don’t even know what he wants to try and help with, but the answer will still be no 🤷‍♀️

He can help me plan a vacation, how bout dat. 💅🏽😏

tell him that

no idea what you'd ever want from a virgo man but that's your life

enjoy the whips and chains

until he finds a scorpio woman to be annoying with

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Why are you all talking about me when I was deleted from DXP for 6 months last year

I re-joined Late JULY

why am i even part of the discussion

It was January. You were here at this time. The part of the conversation missing was us discussing the pros of you being invited by everyone. The only part you received were the cons, and positive thing that were said about you were intentionally left out of the screenshots. In the end we went with the consensus. The only time we did not go with the consensus was with dazed, and oh what a mistake that was.

I feel like you’re a fair person and honest but I don’t think you understand why CC is so upset

She did not choose to participate, did not ask to join and was unknowingly judged, labeled and “decided on” by people she thought she was cool with.

It’s just degrading to a person, especially a sensitive soul. I’m not sure how anyone on here would feel if they found out their characters were put into question and deliberated on without permission or even knowledge of the situation

Spot on ^^^

CC and I have had our moments openly on the boards and neither of us had to humiliate the other.

This was just wrong.

Yeah, no one gets to "vote" on you as a person and determine whether or not you're "worthy" of joining something you never even asked to join in the first place ~

Oh my gosh can you imagine if there was like this social experiment and like people who you're acquaintances with sat around and discussed your traits, political views, etc and then determined whether you're "good enough" or "acceptable" enough to "join" them is like flat out lame asf tbqh

And I am pretty sure if anyone was critiqued like that by acquaintances and had to read their brutally honest thoughts, and not even all of them, with you having no idea and unable to defend yourself, you would be #mortified

Or most people would be, anyway

The situation you are referring to is commonplace.

Tried out for anything? Then you have been voted on? Been chosen or chose someone for accolades? You have been voted on and voted on some one. Gone to a job interview, had it? Same dynamic... How about shot your shot with a crush? For the crush they have a vote...and you voted for your crush.

Its more or less like that.

There is no shame to be had here, save that feelings were hurt...the conversation was necessary, the conversation was had.

Was the conversation really necessary and did she choose to be "voted on" or have her personal views dissected by acquaintances or did you guys make that choice for her?

I have no problem accepting people making mistakes, we ALL do

But no need to be stubborn and hard headed. If you hurt someone's feelings and she didn't deserve it, just apologize and move on

Most people would have NOT liked to be in her position

I will let you know then what Most people would say about this situation.

No need to let me know. I wasn't the one being degraded. lol! Don't gotta explain yourselves to me but please let's not pretend to be innocent because CC did not sign up for a wrestling class or the soccer team to put herself up for judgement and "examination," and even they get judged on their athletic abilities and not their potential personal beliefs.

Then I won't let you know. And she personally wasn't degraded, she was neither treated with contempt nor with disrespect. We did no character assassination, whatsoever no matter how folks are trying to characterize it. It seems you are seeking a statement of remorse from me, I have none to offer for having the conversation in question.

Her views (as everyone else who was recruited/invited) were judged upon their merits with respect to the facts as we understand them and as a result then and only then was she found wanting for the purposes of the group.

Considering that the context of our conversation had much to do with the nature of her commentary and not her character, and not for the purposes of propagating gossip or petty beefs I will not be offering an apology for the conversation occurring.

If you don't think having a holier than thou mindset and believing you and whoever have the right to judge and dissect someone's potential personal opinions and character that you do not even 100% factually know of since this person is only an acquaintance then I don't know what to say.

That ego is huge, that's really all I can say.

Take responsibility. No one cares. We all make mistakes.

I already have for my part in that discussion. In your position I would demonstrate my non-care, LF.

I have given my view and why regardless of what you perceive to be my ego massive or otherwise.

I am telling you explicitly I don't see it your way and your stance on this particular matter does not engender a mind change.

Your stance is noted though and I will review, if at a later date I think and feel differently I will take it up with her directly.

Not looking to change your mind. Just responding to your thoughts/views on the situation. I cannot not respond because I personally just do not feel like that was the right or the coolest thing to do and I honestly cannot understand the justification!

But thank you for reviewing my stance x

Tis what I do ole homie.

Lol I can tell! I remember talking with you. We have so many of the same house placements yet such different views on things. Like I am sooooo jealous in relationships and you are not. What kind of 8th House Sun and Mercury are you?!

Mercifully a calm one lol.

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Ugh, I hate Virgo men. You guys come off very stable and like "together" and never break.

Make me feel better and tell me your Mercury mind is going crazy and you just calm off calm?

I've always wanted to ask a Virgo man this