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VIRGO MAN + SCORPIO WOMAN
Virgo may feel that Scorpio sees something in him that escapes others’ vision. She may have her eye on Virgo for a while before swooping in and chatting him up with a clear message: She’s interested in knowing what makes him tick, as evidenced by what seems to take the form of an interview, even if just over a casual lunch. As he is his own favorite subject, the Virgo is forthcoming. It’s just as she suspected: There’s more to this man than meets the eye and, like an agent searching for talent, she’s quickly formulating ways in which he can repackage his ideas, indeed himself, and make moves toward achieving life goals. In signature Scorpion fashion, she’s pinpointing ways their goals might combine so she can come back with an offer he can’t refuse: to join forces, perhaps only professionally, but certainly as friends (and definitely more, or she wouldn’t be having this conversation) to maximize both their efforts. He is attracted to her, if not nervously excited (can you say: flop sweat?). She seems to look into his very soul and, he thinks, I think she likes what she sees. Her preliminary scan of his psyche tends to reveal a moral, if not misguided character she can easily put back on track. He’s convinced of her own upstanding nature and is confident he’s worthy of it.
Virgo has the sense he’s met his maker because indeed he has. As mentioned in her other chapters, Pluto-ruled Scorpio draws on the archetype of Persephone, the destroyer queen of the underworld, an emblem of death but more accurately the unknown and therefore one’s own unconscious to which this woman, Virgo feels, seems to have VIP access. She is particularly interested in helping Virgo mine the contents of his psyche so that he can experience life on a profound level and excavate such ideas that might constitute his fortune, the lucky or the financial kind. (Pluto is also associated with riches or rather buried treasure, like gems embedded in the éarth.) The sign of Scorpio rules Virgo’s cosmic 3rd house of communication. That house is associated with the god Mercury (namesake of Virgo’s ruler), who, if you know your mythology, was the only god who could come and go from the underworld. In this bond, Virgo is thus meant to open channels of communication between his unconscious and conscious, whether for the purposes of releasing repressions or tapping into latent creativity locked therein (or both). Scorpio’s presence in the Virgin’s life will access any number of mechanisms designed to release what lies beneath the surface of his psychology. Virgo in turn rules Scorpio’s 11th house of outward communication, on a global scale, and thus technologically advanced modes as well as progressive and humanitarian concerns. As it happens, personal issues that surface in the course of negotiating this bond or even in the process of child rearing, here, often trigger some sort of destiny calling for Scorpio, who will thus devote her life, in part, to pursuing or advancing such aims or causes, with which she intimately struggles, on a universal scale.
The unfolding of this relationship is characterized by each individual, in their own way, seeking to elevate the caliber of their personal lives, separately and together, as well as raising the bar, in social or cultural enclaves, as ubiquitously as they might. This can make them a bit smug, for starters, but it often also dovetails with the expression of some religious belief or ethical grandstanding. As such, sex may become a hot topic for this twosome, who can be privately or even publicly dogmatic. Not to say that they’re destined to be proponents of some moral minority, for instance; in fact they might be decidedly liberal; either way, their ideas or discourse tends to reach into bedrooms beyond their own, sex becoming something via which they take a political stance. In the confines of their own boudoir, they tend to be fairly traditional as a rule and procreation may top their list of sex “uses,” which from a biological standpoint is a difficult position to debate. Sex is a loving affair here and, from the first time they do it, there is a feeling of safety and comfort in each other’s embrace. As much as he lusts after her, he deeply respects her, and they tend to be pretty stodgy in the bedroom, though he might harbor a few kinks. She, of course, would want him to verbalize such desires, but that is not to say she would accommodate his requests. For all the soul-searching she is wont to inspire in Virgo, he will realize that, in the process, he doesn’t need to share every thought and feeling with her. That said, she typically has more sexual experience than he does, and she is naturally giving, especially orally, though she demands such favors be returned multifold. He is a definite ass man and access therein might be one of those requests that come back to him with an emphatic “denied.” Not that Scorpio wouldn’t consider engaging in said act, but she often has a painful physical problem in doing it, despite the fact that Virgo tends not to boast a monster member. Anyway, there is little need to stray beyond the obvious as these two tend to click quite nicely, getting into a steady groove, and staying there, perfecting the art of climaxing together, being so attuned. Maybe she’ll indulge his dominant fantasies, donning sexy lingerie or those nursey white shoes and stockings that so turn him on. And okay, perhaps she’ll even let him play doctor a bit, comforting herself with the notion it’s just a child’s game—though not the way he’s wont to play it. She’ll generally draw the line at bondage, wanting to stay very much in control here. Scorpio, it must be said, will indulge in different acts with different signs. But she targets specific men for the whole package. And if she’s set her sights on Virgo, she’s looking for a more vanilla experience than she might enjoy elsewhere. It all comes down to free will, remember. Astrology prescribes potentialities, but we always have choice. Here, both parties choose to respect the other’s firm sexual boundaries.