Understand The Virgo Man Using Astrology

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 CANCER WOMAN + VIRGO MAN
the cinch
CHEMISTRY
These two are wont to get up to no good. And they often meet in settings where they bond over being misfits of the mainstream. In truth, they are neither radical nor fringe characters, nor are they squares, a society of which constitute their social or professional networks. Still, they provide each other the promise of enough excitement to elevate them from the mire of same samey-ness, and they inspire each other to new heights or depths of sexual exploration. Meeting in the workplace, they must remain careful of being too overt in their flirting, presuming that theirs is a burgeoning secret affair. There is an element of danger here, no matter how invented, which these two seem to require from the time they hook up; otherwise they probably wouldn’t. Virgo is secretly attracted to histrionic women, wanting to play savior of sorts, and Cancer takes that cake. On the one hand he longs to pull her out of any situational quicksand; on the other he wants to jump in to sink along with her. She is foremost attracted to his intelligence. And when she realizes he doesn’t always use his noggin for good, she is even more intrigued. Virgo offers mentoring and Cancer plays student for a while, until such time as she comprehends: Those who teach don’t always act.

COMPATIBILITY
It is rare when this is a deeply emotional bond. This couple doesn’t often fall hard in love; so congratulations are in order when those of this combination make a successful go of it. Typically this bond is characterized by each of the individuals self-serving, on some level using the other as bait or ballast in their life. The flip side of Virgo’s proclivity for playing Henry Higgins is Cancer becoming so much the focus, ultimately stealing the show, status shifting drastically and continuing to do so unless the relationship finds a natural end. One is not a wholesome influence on the other, but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. For starters, they fuel each other’s curiosity to explore more sophisticated enclaves of society, which builds character. They also, rather gingerly, remove each other’s rose-colored glasses and become more cunning operators, a necessity in the world of business, especially, having negotiated the complex ins and outs of each other’s personality. If they can gain proper distance from the overly manipulative parts of the other’s, and especially their own, psychology, which tends to require some positive life-altering pursuits like saving whales or serious therapy, endeavors that inspire self-awareness, then they are an enviable pair. Knowing and karmically glowing, this couple often consciously sets themselves, in tandem, on some righteous path or another, but not before becoming immersed in a spate of decadent rapture. They should enjoy turning their inquisitive minds to becoming cultural giants, as they are natural critics and filters who put big-picture concepts into perspective, wee packages, for the rest of us, making sweeping issues palatable if not delectable. They can be addicting to others just as they were, originally, to each other.

CARNALITY
Virgo rules Cancer’s 3rd house of happenstance, and, indeed life with him provides the Crab with endless scenes and scenarios. It’s the house of intimate expression and communication, and Cancer finds she develops her own inner dialogue, Virgo thus inspiring her to engage more intimately and directly with the world, and its big issues. Cancer, in turn, governs Virgo’s utopian 11th house of impersonal relationships, and/or humanity as a whole. This astrological information not only puts the aforementioned points of the couple’s
COMPATIBILITY into context, it also frames their sexual experience: Particularly in her youth, Cancer can be a carnal loose cannon, sometimes wookin pa nub in all the wrong places, and Virgo helps the Crab get in touch with her often overwhelming feelings and create real and psychological pathways for their exploration. Virgo fears intimacy more than any man; and he has typically not only had his heart broken in an unforgettable manner, but he also tends to be sexualized at a young age, tampered with in some way, or predisposed to curiosity about sexual subcultures. It’s the combination of true-love-gone-bad and a rather decadent libido that tends to cut him off at the knees when entering into a loving commitment. But Cancer can provide him the dispassionate passion outlet he requires. She generally makes it crystal clear that she expects nothing from this man whom she’s never labeled her “type.” Here, Cancer enters as a consenting adult, ready and willing to hop on a psychosexual rollercoaster, side by side with Virgo, with whom she engineers a wild ride, spontaneously laying tracks before them, conscious of the fact that the bottom may fall out at any time—more reason not to invest emotion; the lack thereof is further impetus to explore life through a somewhat jaded lens. Which means both members of this couple can travel through most carnal landscapes, at least as itinerants or curious tourists, without feeling guilty for carting along the other. Virgo is the consummate voyeur, if not a cuckold, and an insatiable Crab may be willing to provide him with hours of viewing pleasure spent with a male third. Typically, it’s a form of titillation slash humiliation for the Virgo through which he might indulge his own latent bisexuality. Other couples are also on the menu for these two if and when they are in advanced-player mode. As well, Cancer may wax dominant and put the more groveling Virgo through his paces. When kink isn’t a factor, or interest in it wanes, their sex life might become perfunctory or eventually nonexistent, at least with each other. Cancer will always sort out a situation for herself, so she needn’t go without. Younger lovers especially appeal—she makes a great MILF—while Virgo works the hidden camera.

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 ARIES WOMAN + VIRGO MAN
the pact
CHEMISTRY
Virgo is a skeptic; and, as a trampler of rose-colored glasses herself, Aries gets a chuckle out of his signature sardonic skewerings. Though he’s oft drawn to malleable types he can make over, Aries is clearly not available to that. His initial attraction to her thus hinges on the promise of more casual or purely sexual contact. She, in turn, feels a near filial affinity, an inkling that she and this avuncular character are cut from the same cloth. He is guarded, enigmatic. She is defensive and removed. So they find comfort in the other’s exclusive, undemanding company. It’s ironic that a shared need to remain autonomous is what brings these two together. They are covetous of solitude, and it readily becomes clear that this particular bond would provide blissful coexistence with a surplus of literal and emotional space. Virgo rules Aries’ cosmic 6th house of work, and these two do oft meet on the job, or in having to relate on a creative, vocational level. Virgo man draws on the archetype of Hephaestus, the cuckolded tinker god, and Aries woman on armored Athena, the goddess of crafts as well as defenses. In yore, they shared a temple and were worshipped together. Virgo and Aries mightn’t see this as a sacred bond, at first, but as a bargain whose sides they still happily uphold.

COMPATIBILITY
Whether they realize it or not, this relationship does have a transformational effect on them both. Aries governs Virgo’s 8th “sex house,” which rules other mysteries like death (rebirth) and any such means of regeneration. Beyond this being a horny bond, its inception may also be associated with Virgo turning a new leaf in life. One thing is for certain: He will be utterly altered by Aries’ influence, the very thing he was so convinced wouldn’t happen. And it works both ways. That 6th house is also one of dependents, which is what these two become, one on the other, and just as Aries was seeking self-reliance. But that’s the paradoxical rub: These die-hard individuals remain precisely that, whilst also emerging a sort of third entity of we-ness, which surreptitiously morphs into being over time. Meanwhile, they are matter-of-fact about life together, to the naked eye behaving more like colleagues than lovebirds. The focus is on functionality. These tend to be arty, crafty, or handy folk whose home environment might recall the inner workings of a complex machine, filled with respective tools of their trade. But the term deconstructionist describes more than their home décor: Together, Aries and Virgo aren’t outwardly ambitious; and they’re certainly not acquisitive. They see success as a process of eliminating any impediment or distraction, which a strict focus on money-making can be. They’re self-made and kick it old school, leading a lean life that provides grass-roots inspiration, even if they’ve billions in the bank. As it mellows, their combined dispassion comes across as just plain cool. And as they, themselves, wax more kindred over time, they express increased kindness toward others. Theirs is a psychic connection with practical applications thereof.

CARNALITY
Virgo is an intricate sexual character, while they don’t come any less complicated than Aries woman. She is initially turned on by his signature rugged stature, for, as delicately tuned as Virgo is intellectually, he still ends up being a substantial hunk of a man. Emotionally, too, he prides himself on being something of a rock, if only by virtue of repressing his feelings in cement. Fine by her: Here, sex may seem that love’s got absolutely nothing to do with it, but that’s typically the way they like it. For starters, neither is the most affectionate character on the astrological block; and when it comes to sex, she specifically focuses on the physical aspect of the act. He, being more psychologically complicated, can be somewhat shut down emotionally, and often has specific requirements from sex if not outright kinks to work out. Unlike many men, Virgo appreciates a woman who’s been around the block and Aries makes no bones about her past, which is usually more prolific than most. He applauds her more aggressive moves, happy if she rides his lappy or otherwise takes the lead. In fact, a nod to that tinker god, he likes being used as a bit of a tool, fascinated by the visual effects that o’ertake the Aries as she gets her continued rocks off. He is a tactile creature and prefers to handle and finger a lover more than stimulate her orally. She won’t much complain as she’s not a big blower. Virgo is the zodiac’s primo voyeur, and Aries will oblige, flicking her bean for his peeping pleasure. He may enjoy buying the occasional toy for her to go to town on, or for him to administer. It had to be a Virgo who invented playing doctor as he has a notorious proclivity for puttering around a woman’s privates. In his expert hands, she soon gets the hang of such sex games as even his winning is characterized by her climaxing convulsively. Virgo enjoys taking the Aries, in particular, to the edge, thrilling at his ability to, in a sense, reduce so strong a woman to putty in his hands. He may also like being on the receiving end of such control, in the extreme, playing the male sexual slave to a Ram dominatrix. Of all the male signs in the zodiac, Virgo goes in most for humiliation. This can even take the form of cuckolding fantasies that, if acted upon, might entail watching the wanton Aries get it on with other guys, if not, shall we say, playing the role of sexual janitor, cleaning up afterward. Extreme fetishistic behavior aside, Virgo and Aries often come together with the understanding that the relationship will be, if not wide open, then, at the very least, slightly ajar. With Virgo, Aries can have her cake and eat it too, experiencing any number of other lovers while enjoying the stability this mostly unspoken arrangement provides. He receives the companionship he requires without having to bear the level of responsibility that often frightens him off other bonds. Perceived as shaky by others, for them, the bond can be the ultimate win-win.

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VIRGO MAN + SCORPIO WOMAN
the superiority
CHEMISTRY
Virgo may feel that Scorpio sees something in him that escapes others’ vision. She may have her eye on Virgo for a while before swooping in and chatting him up with a clear message: She’s interested in knowing what makes him tick, as evidenced by what seems to take the form of an interview, even if just over a casual lunch. As he is his own favorite subject, the Virgo is forthcoming. It’s just as she suspected: There’s more to this man than meets the eye and, like an agent searching for talent, she’s quickly formulating ways in which he can repackage his ideas, indeed himself, and make moves toward achieving life goals. In signature Scorpion fashion, she’s pinpointing ways their goals might combine so she can come back with an offer he can’t refuse: to join forces, perhaps only professionally, but certainly as friends (and definitely more, or she wouldn’t be having this conversation) to maximize both their efforts. He is attracted to her, if not nervously excited (can you say: flop sweat?). She seems to look into his very soul and, he thinks, I think she likes what she sees. Her preliminary scan of his psyche tends to reveal a moral, if not misguided character she can easily put back on track. He’s convinced of her own upstanding nature and is confident he’s worthy of it.

COMPATIBILITY
Virgo has the sense he’s met his maker because indeed he has. As mentioned in her other chapters, Pluto-ruled Scorpio draws on the archetype of Persephone, the destroyer queen of the underworld, an emblem of death but more accurately the unknown and therefore one’s own unconscious to which this woman, Virgo feels, seems to have VIP access. She is particularly interested in helping Virgo mine the contents of his psyche so that he can experience life on a profound level and excavate such ideas that might constitute his fortune, the lucky or the financial kind. (Pluto is also associated with riches or rather buried treasure, like gems embedded in the éarth.) The sign of Scorpio rules Virgo’s cosmic 3rd house of communication. That house is associated with the god Mercury (namesake of Virgo’s ruler), who, if you know your mythology, was the only god who could come and go from the underworld. In this bond, Virgo is thus meant to open channels of communication between his unconscious and conscious, whether for the purposes of releasing repressions or tapping into latent creativity locked therein (or both). Scorpio’s presence in the Virgin’s life will access any number of mechanisms designed to release what lies beneath the surface of his psychology. Virgo in turn rules Scorpio’s 11th house of outward communication, on a global scale, and thus technologically advanced modes as well as progressive and humanitarian concerns. As it happens, personal issues that surface in the course of negotiating this bond or even in the process of child rearing, here, often trigger some sort of destiny calling for Scorpio, who will thus devote her life, in part, to pursuing or advancing such aims or causes, with which she intimately struggles, on a universal scale.

CARNALITY
The unfolding of this relationship is characterized by each individual, in their own way, seeking to elevate the caliber of their personal lives, separately and together, as well as raising the bar, in social or cultural enclaves, as ubiquitously as they might. This can make them a bit smug, for starters, but it often also dovetails with the expression of some religious belief or ethical grandstanding. As such, sex may become a hot topic for this twosome, who can be privately or even publicly dogmatic. Not to say that they’re destined to be proponents of some moral minority, for instance; in fact they might be decidedly liberal; either way, their ideas or discourse tends to reach into bedrooms beyond their own, sex becoming something via which they take a political stance. In the confines of their own boudoir, they tend to be fairly traditional as a rule and procreation may top their list of sex “uses,” which from a biological standpoint is a difficult position to debate. Sex is a loving affair here and, from the first time they do it, there is a feeling of safety and comfort in each other’s embrace. As much as he lusts after her, he deeply respects her, and they tend to be pretty stodgy in the bedroom, though he might harbor a few kinks. She, of course, would want him to verbalize such desires, but that is not to say she would accommodate his requests. For all the soul-searching she is wont to inspire in Virgo, he will realize that, in the process, he doesn’t need to share every thought and feeling with her. That said, she typically has more sexual experience than he does, and she is naturally giving, especially orally, though she demands such favors be returned multifold. He is a definite ass man and access therein might be one of those requests that come back to him with an emphatic “denied.” Not that Scorpio wouldn’t consider engaging in said act, but she often has a painful physical problem in doing it, despite the fact that Virgo tends not to boast a monster member. Anyway, there is little need to stray beyond the obvious as these two tend to click quite nicely, getting into a steady groove, and staying there, perfecting the art of climaxing together, being so attuned. Maybe she’ll indulge his dominant fantasies, donning sexy lingerie or those nursey white shoes and stockings that so turn him on. And okay, perhaps she’ll even let him play doctor a bit, comforting herself with the notion it’s just a child’s game—though not the way he’s wont to play it. She’ll generally draw the line at bondage, wanting to stay very much in control here. Scorpio, it must be said, will indulge in different acts with different signs. But she targets specific men for the whole package. And if she’s set her sights on Virgo, she’s looking for a more vanilla experience than she might enjoy elsewhere. It all comes down to free will, remember. Astrology prescribes potentialities, but we always have choice. Here, both parties choose to respect the other’s firm sexual boundaries.

Wow... this was by far the most boring read for a Scorpio woman pairing.

But also the most inaccurate.

So far:
Scorpio M /Scorpio F pairing - most accurate
Virgo M / Scorpio F - least accurate.

And finally.... but not least, could I now get the Cap m / Scorp F pairing, please 😬🙃🙏🏻

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VIRGO MAN + SCORPIO WOMAN
the superiority
CHEMISTRY
Virgo may feel that Scorpio sees something in him that escapes others’ vision. She may have her eye on Virgo for a while before swooping in and chatting him up with a clear message: She’s interested in knowing what makes him tick, as evidenced by what seems to take the form of an interview, even if just over a casual lunch. As he is his own favorite subject, the Virgo is forthcoming. It’s just as she suspected: There’s more to this man than meets the eye and, like an agent searching for talent, she’s quickly formulating ways in which he can repackage his ideas, indeed himself, and make moves toward achieving life goals. In signature Scorpion fashion, she’s pinpointing ways their goals might combine so she can come back with an offer he can’t refuse: to join forces, perhaps only professionally, but certainly as friends (and definitely more, or she wouldn’t be having this conversation) to maximize both their efforts. He is attracted to her, if not nervously excited (can you say: flop sweat?). She seems to look into his very soul and, he thinks, I think she likes what she sees. Her preliminary scan of his psyche tends to reveal a moral, if not misguided character she can easily put back on track. He’s convinced of her own upstanding nature and is confident he’s worthy of it.

COMPATIBILITY
Virgo has the sense he’s met his maker because indeed he has. As mentioned in her other chapters, Pluto-ruled Scorpio draws on the archetype of Persephone, the destroyer queen of the underworld, an emblem of death but more accurately the unknown and therefore one’s own unconscious to which this woman, Virgo feels, seems to have VIP access. She is particularly interested in helping Virgo mine the contents of his psyche so that he can experience life on a profound level and excavate such ideas that might constitute his fortune, the lucky or the financial kind. (Pluto is also associated with riches or rather buried treasure, like gems embedded in the éarth.) The sign of Scorpio rules Virgo’s cosmic 3rd house of communication. That house is associated with the god Mercury (namesake of Virgo’s ruler), who, if you know your mythology, was the only god who could come and go from the underworld. In this bond, Virgo is thus meant to open channels of communication between his unconscious and conscious, whether for the purposes of releasing repressions or tapping into latent creativity locked therein (or both). Scorpio’s presence in the Virgin’s life will access any number of mechanisms designed to release what lies beneath the surface of his psychology. Virgo in turn rules Scorpio’s 11th house of outward communication, on a global scale, and thus technologically advanced modes as well as progressive and humanitarian concerns. As it happens, personal issues that surface in the course of negotiating this bond or even in the process of child rearing, here, often trigger some sort of destiny calling for Scorpio, who will thus devote her life, in part, to pursuing or advancing such aims or causes, with which she intimately struggles, on a universal scale.

CARNALITY
The unfolding of this relationship is characterized by each individual, in their own way, seeking to elevate the caliber of their personal lives, separately and together, as well as raising the bar, in social or cultural enclaves, as ubiquitously as they might. This can make them a bit smug, for starters, but it often also dovetails with the expression of some religious belief or ethical grandstanding. As such, sex may become a hot topic for this twosome, who can be privately or even publicly dogmatic. Not to say that they’re destined to be proponents of some moral minority, for instance; in fact they might be decidedly liberal; either way, their ideas or discourse tends to reach into bedrooms beyond their own, sex becoming something via which they take a political stance. In the confines of their own boudoir, they tend to be fairly traditional as a rule and procreation may top their list of sex “uses,” which from a biological standpoint is a difficult position to debate. Sex is a loving affair here and, from the first time they do it, there is a feeling of safety and comfort in each other’s embrace. As much as he lusts after her, he deeply respects her, and they tend to be pretty stodgy in the bedroom, though he might harbor a few kinks. She, of course, would want him to verbalize such desires, but that is not to say she would accommodate his requests. For all the soul-searching she is wont to inspire in Virgo, he will realize that, in the process, he doesn’t need to share every thought and feeling with her. That said, she typically has more sexual experience than he does, and she is naturally giving, especially orally, though she demands such favors be returned multifold. He is a definite ass man and access therein might be one of those requests that come back to him with an emphatic “denied.” Not that Scorpio wouldn’t consider engaging in said act, but she often has a painful physical problem in doing it, despite the fact that Virgo tends not to boast a monster member. Anyway, there is little need to stray beyond the obvious as these two tend to click quite nicely, getting into a steady groove, and staying there, perfecting the art of climaxing together, being so attuned. Maybe she’ll indulge his dominant fantasies, donning sexy lingerie or those nursey white shoes and stockings that so turn him on. And okay, perhaps she’ll even let him play doctor a bit, comforting herself with the notion it’s just a child’s game—though not the way he’s wont to play it. She’ll generally draw the line at bondage, wanting to stay very much in control here. Scorpio, it must be said, will indulge in different acts with different signs. But she targets specific men for the whole package. And if she’s set her sights on Virgo, she’s looking for a more vanilla experience than she might enjoy elsewhere. It all comes down to free will, remember. Astrology prescribes potentialities, but we always have choice. Here, both parties choose to respect the other’s firm sexual boundaries.