Understanding Uranus in Virgo using Astrology

LibraSupreme is this what you mean:Rising Sign is in 21 Degrees Cancer
Very sensitive by nature, you prefer to be in your own familiar surroundings. Cautious and conservative, you make changes in your life only very slowly, if at all. You do not open up easily to strangers. Friendships are made for life, however -- once given, your trust is forever. Your mother, your home as a child and your early family life in general are very important to you. You are also very sentimental. When you feel self- confident, you are gentle, giving and protective of the needs of others. But when you feel insecure or threatened, you become overly sensitive to criticism, shy, withdrawn and moody. You have a strong need for security -- in the sense that you are being loved, nourished and protected.

Sun is in 11 Degrees Pisces.
Extremely sensitive and emotional, you absorb the emotions of others (whether positive or negative) like a sponge. Emotionally vulnerable, you are easily upset and tend to cry readily. You are at your best when you can structure your environment in such a way that you are surrounded by positive, upbeat people. You are very helpful and understanding of the needs of others. Indeed, at times this can be a disadvantage, because you can be a sucker for anyone who needs help. Shy, dreamy, romantic in nature, you delight in retreating into your private fantasy world. Just be careful that you do not get lost in it! Trust your intuitions -- you may be quite psychic.

Moon is in 12 Degrees Cancer.
For the most part, you are very strong and secure emotionally. You intuitively know what to do to make others feel comfortable, loved, accepted and needed. You naturally enjoy feeding and taking care of others. Be careful that your mothering does not turn into smothering. At times, you tend to feel that those to whom you are attached can never do anything without your assistance and support. Extremely sensitive by nature, it hurts you deeply whenever anyone criticizes you. You have an almost desperate need to be loved and wanted and needed by everyone with whom you come into contact, and you go out of your way to be accommodating to them.

Mercury is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Your ideas and thought processes do not come to you in an orderly, logical fashion. Instead, you think with your feelings or with images produced by your rich and fertile imagination. A very subjective person, your dreams and fantasies are very important to you. You trust your intuitions and tend to reject ideas that are based solely on logic. Very impressionable, you are sensitive to the moods and emotional states of those with whom you come into contact.

Venus is in 02 Degrees Aquarius.
You are a friendly and outgoing individual, but close relationships are difficult for you to maintain due to your fear that they will cause you to lose your freedom. You attract friends and associates who are exciting, different and sometimes a bit odd. You are popular with others and enjoy working within a group toward group goals.

Mars is in 24 Degrees Pisces.
Very sensitive and vulnerable, it is difficult for you to assert yourself. At times, you feel quite tired and you will require a lot of sleep in order to maintain your health and your strength. You are at your best when you act without your ego being important. You can be very unselfish and considerate of the needs of others. You get the most satisfaction by giving to others when you expect nothing in return. Beware of a tendency to want always to work behind the scenes or to become overly deceptive by doing things behind others' backs.

Jupiter is in 21 Degrees Gemini.
You have a logical, detached, objective view of most things. Your interests are wide-ranging and you are an avid student, with expertise in many different areas. You love to work things out in your mind -- everything you do is reduced to an exercise in logic and reason. You have the ability to grasp abstractions and to deal successfully with the larger issues of life. Your overemphasis on developing your powerful intellect can cause your emotional and intuitive abilities to atrophy unless you consciously choose to exercise them.

Saturn is in 18 Degrees Pisces.
Your tendency to think that your life is out of control is based on an unreasonable fear, probably connected with an unfortunate experience with the person who filled the father figure role in your early life. Learn to take responsibility here and now for your own life. Try to stop having unrealistic expectations about guide figures. Remember that they are merely human, with all the same faults and self-doubts that you have. When you get confused or uncertain, try to simplify your life style -- things will then become easier to bear.

Uranus is in 17 Degrees Virgo.
You, and all your peers, will be known for the degree of intensity with which you dislike normal everyday routines and chores. You will go out of your way to invent innovative, unique and timesaving ways to perform the various mundane routines and duties of living. You will be attracted to all manner of practical and useful gadgets -- anything that will make your daily life more exciting.

Neptune is in 22 Degrees Scorpio.
You, and your entire generation, are extremely interested in anything deep and mysterious. You will explore and idealize the benefits that can accrue from the study of the occult, healing and psychology. You are willing to experiment with substances like drugs in order to push your understanding of your inner being to the extreme.

Pluto is in 17 Degrees Virgo.
For your entire generation, this will be a time when profound changes in society's attitude toward work, duty and responsibility will be initiated. Radical changes in attitudes toward personal health and general nutrition will be promulgated and gain wide acceptance and practice.

N. Node is in 28 Degrees Taurus.
It's not in your nature to seek out many casual acquaintances in your daily round of activities. You feel much more comfortable with a small, close-knit group of people -- those with whom you can relax and work toward known and clearly defined goals. Your loyalty to a person or group, once given, is forever -- you'll expend all of your quite considerable energy in seeing that the group stays together and prospers. You choose your partners and relationships so carefully that you're bound to gain certain advantages from them, including those of a material nature. Be careful though not to let mere self-service be your motivation in establishing your connections -- make sure that there's an even give-and-take!

So I'm unfortunately revisiting the Leo-Scorpio match after having had a bad taste of it years ago which prompted me to join DXP, lmao... Any insight on this match or this Scorpio himself would be appreciated and I will try to get the Scorpio's TOB in the meantime to get his exact chart. But, these are his placements:

Sun Scorpio
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Libra
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Aries
Uranus Aquarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Sag
NN Libra
Chiron Libra

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Posted by pisceswoman123
My style is mostly rock but classy for everyday and work. I wear good stuff but not flashy.

Then for night parties I dress up a bit more depending the occasion.

Make up and hair is pretty natural. I don’t normally wear foundation.

Aries Venus Virgo asc

Ooo nice simple with a bit of edge I think your Uranus in the 1st house really shows in your style . 👍🏼

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Haha my Virgo asc want to be classy and clean but my Uranus in 1st rebels to it and want a more messy out of bed look 😄

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Curious about your chart, what are your placements incl ASC?

My birth time might be wrong, i could have a virgo rising, but it's most likely scorpio, my mom told me i was born in the afternoon

Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Cancer 15°56' Ascendant Scorpio 8°20'
Moon Leo 19°10' II Sagittarius 7°37'
Mercury Leo 8°54' III Capricorn 7°05'
Venus Leo 25°51' IV Aquarius 7°33'
Mars Virgo 13°48' V Pisces 9°08'
Jupiter Cancer 17°23' VI Aries 10°03'
Saturn Leo 27°59' VII Taurus 8°20'
Uranus Scorpio 12°23' R VIII Gemini 7°37'
Neptune Sagittarius 16°10' R IX Cancer 7°05'
Pluto Libra 13°59' Midheaven Leo 7°33'
Lilith Cancer 19°10' XI Virgo 9°08'
Asc node Virgo 29°48' XII Libra 10°03'

hiii, i am needing some clarity about this fire dom virgo ive been casually seeing...

he is
virgo sun 3rd house
sag moon 5th house
libra merc 4th house
leo venus 1st house
aries mars retrograde 9th house
leo rising
if i recall correctly, he is uranus & leo dominant. all looks kinda scary lol!

this may get a lil TL: DR so sorry in advance! if you bear w/ me, i’ll be forever indebted lol! my merc in saggy likes to overcommunicate hehehe

anyway... we had been hanging out once a week for 2 months before we started intimate hang outs (sleep overs) a month ago. we hang out about 3-4 times a week w/ sleep overs maybe twice a week. he initiates most of the hangs - i’ll ask if he wants to hang 1 out of every 5 times...

it is clear to me that we are both emotionally unavailable & have intimacy issues. he is sexually submissive ( like at one point even had a male dom) & i am generally sexually dominant but can only express that when i am comfortable. we both really like each other but i think we are both sensitive & cagey when it comes to sex.

when we are getting hot & heavy, he is always asking me what i want. but bc i am guarded & cagey... not entirely comfy yet, i cant ever really get the nerve to fully express what i want him to do. i have been trying to be more open & two times now i’ve just blatantly said “i want you to treetrunk me”. we have engaged in penetrative sex twice but it ALWAYS ends quickly & abruptly!!!

the first time he stopped 2 minutes in & expressed that he didnt want me to just have sex w/ him & never see him again. that he wanted to take me on a real date before we had sex. i told him it was ok & we didnt have to continue & reassured him that i am down to wait & be patient.

the 2nd time, we were having a really great fun time but he stopped very abruptly bc he went into his own head... which i think is very common for him. i held him & said it was ok & we def dont have to continue. i got really insecure that it was something i did & he reassured that it was his brain overthinking everything that made him stop. he said he really really likes me & when he thinks of me, it’s in more ways than just sexual. he said in his dream world we would just hang out & kiss & cuddle until we are both comfy w/ being sexual. the way he said “in my dream world” gave me the impression that in reality, it was going to be different.

the next morning, i pushed him to talk about our night. the convo made him a little frustrated & overwhelmed, as he is someone who needs some time to process things & too many questions coming at him can really overwork his brain. i made sure to tell him that it was ok, & he doesnt have to answer the questions now but maybe some food for thought. i know he didnt like being pressured to talk but i needed some sort of clarity, even if we didnt come to conclusions. i even suggested we not continue a sexual relationship & he said that he did want one but his sex drive runs hot & cold & he doesnt really have control over it.

so after that, we end up taking a nap. he was very cuddly. in fact, i’d say he was more cuddly than usual. LOL there is that other thread on here about sleeping positions w/ partners & we are always sleeping in the “enmeshed” position. face to face w/ arms & legs intertwined.

when he left, he was keeping it very playful & light, which i was treetrunking thrilled about tbh. i dont want intense loaded convos bc ultimately, it’s casual... no expectations... but we really like each other. there are times i feel like he wants to date me but his sag moon wants it free of labels... which i am very chill with. before he left he said, “i’ll text you later & see how you are feeling” and left w/ “miss you already!!!”

he has stated he doesnt know what he wants & he never knows wtf is going on. it’s fine for me bc i am really busy & have my own thing going on so i dont even really know what i want. i am capable of having a casual thing w/ someone but dont really shy away from putting in effort to make something run smoother if i really like someones company. i mostly have intimate friendships so understanding how people work helps me in navigating my relationships w/ them.

he doesnt like feeling any amount of pressure but will start putting self imposed pressure on himself when he thinks he hasnt acted right w/ me. he does, however, start projecting his anxiety onto me & on 2 occasions i have had to call him out on it. he always admits & agrees that it is him putting pressure on himself & not me.
and he always asks me to call him out on his butter.

i just want to hang out w/ a cool person who seems thoughtful & interesting. he is very busy w/ his own thing & that is super attractive to me. he always finds time in the week to hang out w/ me. i am always open to the natural progression of things & i do act like a mirror. i can manage my expectations & keep myself busy so i dont get too caught up.

virgos - wtf is going on in this dudes head??? does he really like me but he’s scared? is he observing me so he can make the right next move? is he being a messy lil cookiemonster & mind treetrunking me?? clearly he isnt using me for sex so... wth?!!? ive never treetrunked around w/ y’all so i have no clue what you all are like...

any clarity or insight on a freedom loving, cagey, virgo would be so appreciated!

if it helps, my placements are:

scorpio sun 9th house
libra moon 8th house
sag merc 10th house (which is part of a stellium w/ uranus & neptune)
cap venus 11th house
aqua mars 12th house
aqua rising

i am fire dom & some sites say i am aquarius (or scorpio) dominant. i feel mostly aqua dom. pluto rules my chart.