Understanding Venus in Virgo using Astrology

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  • Posted by Mujer_latina
    Posted by Lalalo
    Posted by Mujer_latina
    Posted by DonnaLibra
    Aries is best matched with Virgo.


    aries is best matched with taurus. we want venus and that's that


    And you speak for everyone when you say this?


    well, they did speak for everyone when they said aries was best matched with virgo

    but you are truly in denial if you think mars × venus can be topped. nothing comes close
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    Yeah, I don’t agree with the virgo statement, either

    In general, I don’t think that aries is best paired with earth signs. And I’m too rough around the edges for venus. Good for friendship, though
  • Posted by Lalalo
    Posted by Mujer_latina
    Posted by DonnaLibra
    Aries is best matched with Virgo.


    aries is best matched with taurus. we want venus and that's that


    And you speak for everyone when you say this?
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    well, they did speak for everyone when they said aries was best matched with virgo

    but you are truly in denial if you think mars × venus can be topped. nothing comes close
  • Ixion
    In Magnums We Thrust.
    Posted by Ariqua
    Okay, so I already have a problem with the title lol. Supporting her glow up? Because she needs to improve something?

    If someone told me they wanted to help support my glow up I would think 🤔 fool I am already glow’d as I’m gonna get.

    But I’m also glad you brought this topic to the table.

    I experienced something recently that annoyed me. A good male friend commented about me needing to shave my legs. Now, I have dark and coarse hair, even when I shave as close as possible you can still see the hair under the skin in some spots. Nevertheless it wasn’t like I hadn’t shaved in days. And even if I hadn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

    The problem I have is that he is hairy af. Hair on his chest, back, neck...just hairy.

    Why is there such a huge disparity in men and women’s confidence that a man who is completely ungroomed feels it’s his place to tell a woman how she should be groomed?

    I have more to say but I’m at work. Be back later 😁


    The glow-up is more than just physical its holistic and its support because its something she was already trying to do prior to.

    I'm a virgo...and I have a Leo Venus... by the time you are with me I've already decided you are "worthy" in my eyes.
  • I'm a cancer with venus in virgo and unless I care and feel you're capable of taking care of it, then I'll back off and check up once in a while. Unless stuff goes downhill, then I'm back to checking up frequently. I think it just boils down to trust
  • nanobot
    earthy gem 🌱💎
    Posted by Lalalo
    Posted by nanobot
    Posted by Lalalo
    Posted by nanobot
    For me, there are really zero problems up until about a year or two. First to second year is heaven and the happiness is superficial, and it is fleeting. Reality takes a year+ to set in. That's when I start overthinking and picking things apart.

    I always wonder how wrong people are for each other to not make it to that year mark, because that should be the most effortless and enjoyable time together. Same for the second year, in many cases.

    The 3rd year and beyond is when you really have to start working on your butter together. His snores ain't cute anymore. His farts make you want to literally stab him. Is the distance worth it? Does he still want this? Do I still want this? Can I do this for the rest of my life? Etc etc


    Not a gemini, but as an aries who’s only ever dated other cardinals (cap and cancer): if we’re not a very good match, then the relationship will fall apart faster than that. I guess we (cardinals) won’t stick around for long if we’re not crazy in love with our partner and think it has a real future. We just end up fighting all the time, and it’s just not worth it to me. We’d rather break up and find someone else, even if we’ve only been together for a few months.

    So this other perspective/experience was interesting for me to read. I’m currently chasing a gemini man that I’ve known for years and years, and it’s just a whole other ball game. You geminis build up a good and stable friendship before you enter into a relationship with the person, is my experience, so it doesn’t burn out as quickly and the relationship probably has a better chance at surviving because of this imo.


    If we aren't a good match, then I don't even consider taking the leap and getting into a relationship with someone! I am 29 years old, and I've had 3 long term relationships only (5 years, 3 years, and 3 years counting), and I'm still in the third one. You are right when you say geminis need to make sure the relationship is stable - well for me anyway. We are pretty hard to pin down, and when we do, it's not with just anyone.

    There are always exceptions like the women who jump from one relationship to the next, those that find themselves in them as much as they get into their jeans.

    For me though, once I do decide to officially be in a relationship with someone, you're gonna be stuck with me for awhile. Because that commitment means something to me.

    Meanwhile, if I am just dating? All bets are off. I feel as if I can do whatever I want and not take things seriously at all. Or take them as serious as I want. I am bound by no rules or expectations and if I date someone who has expectations of me, he will likely find himself very disappointed.


    I fall in love too easily, and if the attraction is there, I’m usually willing to give it a chance... But it can burn out just as quick. I’ve only been in two relationships, though, but they were both short lived. I’m 26. I probably prefer being single at the end of the day, unless it’s something really worth fighting for.

    I think it’s nice that you take your commitments so serious. I find it easier to trust geminis because of that. I notice it with my gemini friends, actually - it took a while before they really let me in, but now they’re pretty much attached to the hip. What’s your moon and venus?

    Haha, yeah, I’ve noticed gems doesn’t take the whole dating thing very seriously in the beginning. You kinda have to convince them first and be consistent - and of course bring a lot of mental stimulation to the table
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    I talk myself out of settling into a relationship from pretty much every possible angle, even if I really like the guy. All of my relationships became "official" for quite a while after we had been talking constantly every day and experiencing the chemistry. I just over rationalize it and try to avoid it all costs. It's not until waaaay later that I acknowledge my feelings and think "okay okay, I really like him and he wants to be with me, so I'm willing to give this a shot". But the push thing doesn't end there, because as stated in the OP, I'm still trying to convince myself that I will rather be single and a relationship isn't in my best interests at the time.

    My venus is in gemini and my moon is in capricorn. I also have 11th house and 6th house 4-planet stelliums (gem and cap), so I have a lot of aquarius and virgo energy too.

    And yea! Most of our treetrunkboy gemini stories here on the gem board are about gemini men or women in the dating phases. It's hard to explain our behaviors to people who aren't us, and won't understand that we are not that serious about 1 or 2 dates. Esp without looking like an marker LOL.