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curious visitor
9/1/2010 10:12:14 AM | IP

28 years old female from tampa area, florida  usa  

Posted by tall dark and aries
^^^Speaking of which, a particular Virgo friend of mine has the social finesse to know how to not piss me off, despite him being 6'5" weighing ~250 lbs, me only being 5'11" 190-200 lbs. Tried to make himself useful as well, and that's what I like best about Virgs. Cool as hell, when they aren't bugging out about small stuff at least. My Scorpio brother gets annoyed by him rather easily though, which is odd that he does and I don't. I guess it's my Taurus Rising.


i'm a libra. super short fuse. i usually keep a cool exterior, but i can blow up something fierce. then i usually chill out again pretty fast, after i get it out. but my dislike will continue to simmer against a person.

anyways, my first cue that someone might be a virgo is that they just don't piss me off. like they can even do things that would piss me off if somebody else did them, and i just don't care. it's actually a little weird. and the things they do that piss off or annoy other people, i find endearing. snarky comment? oh, you're so cute, virgo. gets all high strung about some ocd neat freak thing? how adorable.

i think it's because they tend to be very sincere and genuine and lacking in bullbutter.
AA
9/1/2010 8:40:55 PM | IP

Posted by beachkisses
this question goes out to all aries men and women
how do you deal with anger ? how do you control your temper, if you can that is ? how would you like a loved one to deal with you when you're angry at him/her ?
recently, a loved one got angry with me over something very small, he became really frustrated, completely shut off and didn't want to communicate. the next day he was totally fine, he knew it over nothing but didn't want to admit that , so it's done and over with. in the moment, i just acted calm and left him alone. i'd like to know what's the best way to deal with an aries temper next time, what do you love and prefer ?

someone else probaly alread said this, but a calm and reasonable aproach i would say.
my dad has a terrible temper. very very scary.
so do i at times, but i deal with it internally
Alucroas
9/5/2010 12:20:11 PM | IP

I have yet to meet a Virgo that wasn't an insecure, hypocritical, closed-minded prick. Every Virgo I've come across has tried to bully me in some capacity or another, which doesn't end well, because they're too stupid to know when to quit, and I usually end up having no choice but, to completely humiliate them, or rip them a new marker. They also love guilt-tripping, calling everything a person does that they don't approve of "rude", (regardless of whether or not it even has anything to do with manners), and have a strong bullying streak, especially toward other Aries, I've noticed.

Even in the Greek myths, Athena was a cookiemonster in disguise, constantly foiling Ares' plans every time she got the chance, never fought fair, and always had to use underminded tactics to beat him, such as throwing a boulder at him, or having the other gods come with, because she was incapable of overpowering or besting him in a fight.

I do agree that Sagittarius doesn't know when to shut their big mouths though, but, I have Sagittarius as my decante, so I can't really get too harsh. I have a couple Sagittarius friends, who I've strangled, and punched in the shoulder/arms hard enough to get the point across. And, sadly, as much as I don't like hurting my friends, it really is one of the only ways to get a Sagittarius to stop talking. You don't have to give them a black eye, or anything, just a good firm punch on the shoulder, or pretend that you're going to hurt them really badly.
ScorpSuperior
9/7/2010 2:53:00 AM | IP
ScorpSuperior

female

Sun: Scorpio, house 4

^LOL! You're awesome.

 

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