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vibs
6/27/2012 5:46:25 AM | IP

how many agree with it
Astroduck
6/27/2012 6:01:14 AM | IP

female

I am an aries women. I don't agree but I can see how our behaviour can sometimes be perceived as such.

In the case of for example a one-sided relationship, of an aries and someone who really want to be this aries' friend or lover while the aries has absolutely no interest in this:

Ever heard of the expression 'cruel to be kind'm which I read as staying nice and kind in order not to hurt someone while what you actually want to tell them is most certainly going to hurt them (for example that you don't want to be with them)? Therefore what you end up saying is something vague and leaves the other party without closure and with hope that something might still be. That I find cruel, but us aries would never be guilty of it. The reverse is also true though (and certainly more applicable to aries people), sometimes it's in fact kind and necessary to be cruel. To be harsh, and maybe cruel, to have those who keep coming back understand that there is no hope for more. Kind words don't always get the message across, keep people hoping and wondering. Sometimes it's best to be outright mean and have them stop liking you, only this way it will be possible for them to move on.

But that's just how i see it
DMV
6/27/2012 7:58:31 AM | IP
DMV

31 years old

anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S

no i dont agree with that statement. too broad
iwin32
6/27/2012 10:22:19 AM | IP
iwin32

26 years old male from Cancerland, U.S.A  

I'm a Cancer male. ===

If you let them.
ElusiveSoul
6/27/2012 11:19:00 AM | IP
ElusiveSoul

36 years old female

Sun Pisces 0.34 Ascendant Taurus 1.3

I don’t think they are necessarily cruel.

My mother is an aries and speaking from personal experience, well, she most certainly is bold and lacks tact with people in general. Can come across as egocentric and selfish,…sometimes downright child-like in her demands and expectations of others …doesn’t take s**t from anyone…..

But on the flip side of the coin, for those she cares for, there is no mountain unmoved, no stone unturned …..she would go to the end of the world and back to provide for you. I know so many family members who have actually taken advantage of her and she forgave them time over and over again, to the point where it started peeing ME off.
She may not know how to show her emotional side, but over the years now, I have come to suspect that she is even more emotional then I am.

So NO…I don’t think they are crule….just strong !!!!!
ElusiveSoul
6/27/2012 11:28:13 AM | IP
ElusiveSoul

36 years old female

Sun Pisces 0.34 Ascendant Taurus 1.3

Ohhh…and what I love the most about Aries people, tho I find them very argumentative, taking almost everything so personally ( like I don’t lol) ….It’s their zest for life. That fire that is burning inside is incredible. Draws me to them like a moth to the flame ( then again my venus is in aries so yeahh ) . They may fall on their nose, but they will jump right back up, ready to tackle the life arain…

Oh dang, now I’m getting all emo missing my mom….
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
6/27/2012 5:42:30 PM | IP
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

My mother is aries, used to beat me mercilessly as a child and other horrid stuff.

I wouldn't bruise a grape.....up to you to choose who you want to use as an example.


Plenty of bad cruel people in the world - not all of them are Aries and not all of them are women.
Wings
6/27/2012 10:30:06 PM | IP
Wings

I have known a few aries women and they were real sweethearts. Of course, a sample size of 3 is hardly credible for a generalization, but I haven't met any yet that were anything but nice women.
wgamador2
6/28/2012 12:35:37 AM | IP
wgamador2

male

Sun 24°39' Virgo ---- 3rd Decan

Posted by Astroduck
Sometimes it's best to be outright mean and have them stop liking you, only this way it will be possible for them to move on.



Let me get this straight.

Treat people like butter, humiliate them to the point where they despise you since you wont ever give a butter about them ever again, who gives a treetrunk, right? I mean, they are basically useless at that point.

Wow, i hope you cold-hearted aries realize that there will be no mercy or compassion for you when you need it most.
Just saying.
I got that treatment from an Aries girl, once. Too bad. Little did she know that I would become the kind of man who would have been there not only for her, but for her entire family. I had so much love for her that even if i had remained just an old friend, I would have sat in a nursing home with her mother or father keeping them company, making sure they and the staff knew someone was there for them and I would be happy to dedicate part of my days to them because I would have always appreciated them for raising and taking care of their daughter, the one I loved.

But im sure you will all marry great men with integrity and compassion, you have nothing to worry about.
Its kind of pretentious of you aries to think that the only way to get rid of someone who loved you is to be mean so they dont have hope. But again what im saying is not just limited to Aries. Humans are programmed to have faith that we will find love. Trust me, some of us dont need humiliation to get over you. Thats treetrunking absurd. Time forgets, no matter how deeply you were loved.
Then again, maybe your experiences have been with butterty-boyfriends who cheated or lied, etc....then if thats the case, be mean all you treetrunking want, they had it coming.

But in the small chance you actually had someone genuine, remember to treat them the way you would have liked to be treated, even if you find their behavoir odd cause you wouldnt have done the things they did in the end when there was only one of you left holding love or a fascimile of it, as in my case.

The truth. Thats closure.
Not some bullbutter beating-around-the-bush or waiting till the last minute when you are all eager to begin your new relationship and now have to deal with getting rid of the old 'garbage'. Cant expect all of us to go quietly at that point when now we are being treated like butter in a dixie cup.








Astroduck
6/28/2012 1:49:40 AM | IP

female

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Astroduck
6/28/2012 1:59:34 AM | IP

female

Okay, in my preview the quotes didn't work out, admittedly I am not the most technical person so I am gonna do it like this

"Let me get this straight.

Treat people like butter, humiliate them to the point where they despise you since you wont ever give a butter about them ever again, who gives a treetrunk, right? I mean, they are basically useless at that point."

Dear Wgamador2, you didn't get it straight at all. I don't treat people like butter but sometimes they are hurt by the truth, the kind of truth that they don't really want to hear.

Right, I don't know what that aries girl said or did to you, but I'm not sure we mean the same thing here. If I honestly tell you that no matter how you may have interpreted my former behaviour, I don't like you, never will, and have no interest in your everlasting love. Because no matter how well you mean it, I will not be able to receive it and repay it the way you deserve.

If I say this to people I am just genuinely not interested in, and never will be, I am told I am harsh and mean (note, before I resort to this 'cruelty' I have tried more subtle and friendly ways to make clear to them I am not interested in spending time with them, but those didn't work out).

"I got that treatment from an Aries girl, once. Too bad. Little did she know that I would become the kind of man who would have been there not only for her, but for her entire family. I had so much love for her that even if i had remained just an old friend, I would have sat in a nursing home with her mother or father keeping them company, making sure they and the staff knew someone was there for them and I would be happy to dedicate part of my days to them because I would have always appreciated them for raising and taking care of their daughter, the one I loved."

I bet she knew that you would be that kind of guy, but because she didn't love you the same way, she didn't want to use your love or have you stringing along. Maybe she didn't want you at her mother's bedside or whatever. She wanted you to move on without her and give your generous love to someone more deserving of it, i.e. someone who loved you the same way in return. This was the only way to make that happen in her eyes ( I have no idea what she did though, so obviously I can't judge on how cruel in context it was)

I am in a relationship now, and I always want him to be as honest to me as I would be to him if I didn't feel the same anymore. And so there have been moments when he was
AquaPhoenix92
6/28/2012 2:43:49 AM | IP
AquaPhoenix92

20 years old from United States  

Aqua means Water WaterPhoenix (Scorpio)

No. My Aries sister may be bad and have emotional issues sometimes, but who doesn't? She just have her own way of expressing it. She's a great sister. Independent, cares for her family and friends, doesn't take crap from anybody, and a survivor. We may have our differences sometimes, but I'll never want to replace her as my sister.

Whoever you may have problems with must have problems they need to deal with. You are just being broad saying that ALL Aries woman are cruel and bad.
wgamador2
6/28/2012 8:53:14 AM | IP
wgamador2

male

Sun 24°39' Virgo ---- 3rd Decan

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wgamador2
6/28/2012 8:56:43 AM | IP
wgamador2

male

Sun 24°39' Virgo ---- 3rd Decan

Posted by Astroduck
Okay, in my preview the quotes didn't work out, admittedly I am not the most technical person so I am gonna do it like this

"Let me get this straight.

Treat people like butter, humiliate them to the point where they despise you since you wont ever give a butter about them ever again, who gives a treetrunk, right? I mean, they are basically useless at that point."

Dear Wgamador2, you didn't get it straight at all. I don't treat people like butter but sometimes they are hurt by the truth, the kind of truth that they don't really want to hear......



Some people hate the truth. Well that aint me. Funny thing is, im with an Aries and she doesnt like the truth.
We argue over the fact that i dont tailor my answers to fit her needs. I dont bullbutter.
She seems to ignore the other side of the coin, so to speak. Im not going to say all Aries women are bad or mean but will say that they sure are damn good at exercising hypocrisy.

"She wanted you to move on without her and give your generous love to someone more deserving of it, i.e. someone who loved you the same way in return."
Thats cool. But she never considered the opposite effect could take place, where I wouldnt want someone to get that close to me ever again. I have passed up love because i figured id be made into a fool in the end or not worth all the trouble.
I wish I knew what makes me so loyal. Because if i knew, id print it on t-shirts and ask women to wear them, so I would know who has the potential to feel what i do. And not attract some temporary love who is going to be Cruel to Be Kind to benefit me.
Dont do us any favors, in that case.

Anyways, I hope you dont think im attacking you or anything and im definately not judging you or generalizing aries women. I find that when you are geniuine and devoted, you are pretty sparkle motion awesome. There is a special place in my soul for Aries women, despite it all.
DMV
6/28/2012 9:13:25 AM | IP
DMV

31 years old

anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S

now my aries bff is cruel to service workers. i.e. waiters

 

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