LOL, wow, the part about working up the energy to set up a meal for a guy and then when he gets there I'm just not that into it anymore...that's me! I've done that my whole life with everyone, at the time things sound like a good idea and then when it comes time for it I would rather stay home by myself. Also, the part about the guilt trip on the phone and then hanging up and going on my merry way, I do that to my husband quite frequently...poor guy! LOL