Cancer man...is this you?

VirgoVixxxen
Hey all, was on here a few days ago. Some of you cancers were nice, one or two rude, but I'm not giving up on you sweet cancer men. Please read below and tell me if this is how you guys really are? Just trying to learn....MUAH!


The Cancerian man is home-loving, gentel and sincere. He responds deeply to life and to every change in emotion or feelings around him. His goodness far excels his weaker, depressive side which can get unbearable and drown an affair in melancholy. His moods can be touchy, he can be as snappy as an alligator and he takes everything too personally, fearing rejection. Yet on the surface he will play the extrovert, be flirtatious, the lunatic every one loves at the all-night party.

A crab man is overtly sentimental. He will take a long time to pluck up enough courage to phone you, until he is sure in his crab-like way he can move in for love. He might seem mildly indifferent: playing guessing games about his true motives with you when he first takes you out to dinner.

He loves food and if you offer him breakfast in bed he might just agree to scrambling the eggs himself. This man needs smothering with affection, and sexually can be languid and lazy when it suits him, especially once he feels secure in a relationship. Typical of water signs, he feeds on gentle rythms, quiet arousal and delicate love-making.

Don't ever mention your past boyfriends because he will see vivid mental movies about where you have been, and who you have been with. Cancerians are very possessive, and if you mention ex-partners, he wil wallow in self-pity for days.

Don't ever look at anyone once you're married. You are collected, part of his acquisitions and his very personal private collection.
LunarLady720
Yep, sounds like my husband! Spot on!
mr.crabby
Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Don't ever mention your past boyfriends because he will see vivid mental movies about where you have been, and who you have been with. Cancerians are very possessive, and if you mention ex-partners, he wil wallow in self-pity for days.
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lol, if I know who they are, it won't work.
VirgoVixxxen
Posted by CancerLeoCam
Very close to the mark.


Thanks CancerLeoCam.
VirgoVixxxen
Posted by LunarLady720
Yep, sounds like my husband! Spot on!


Really now? Ha!
VirgoVixxxen
Posted by mr.crabby
Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Don't ever mention your past boyfriends because he will see vivid mental movies about where you have been, and who you have been with. Cancerians are very possessive, and if you mention ex-partners, he wil wallow in self-pity for days.
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lol, if I know who they are, it won't work.


Hmmm...figured that much with you, mr. crabby.
VirgoVixxxen
Here's the second part...



Cancer men hide out in the dark corners of pubs, or at the edge of the in-crowd. If they use their extrovert shell to cover up their weaker personality they can be akward to spot. Sometimes they hover in the wings, hiding from possible failure, appearing as confident and convincing as any fire sign. But around the full moon you can usually spot them when they become touchy and moody, not at all like any fire sign!

He is easily flattered, and often gullible in the face of a strong protective woman. He has a cheeky, little-boy-lost appeal that he takes to parties in his search for the perfect soul-mate, and he needs one desperately for all his apparent self-confidence and arrogant manner. It's misleading. Beneath that gregarious shell is a soft heart. There will only ever be one woman at a time for a cancerian man-at least you can be assured of that.

cheeky14u
I haven't been on theses boards from sometime.....I am interested in a cancer man...and have been chatting to him for the past 3 weeks....I have tried to learn from past mistakes with this type of man and need a bit of advice....I may email him 3 times and get one response....and thats ok as I know how busy he is....just wondering how to move along to a actually face to face meeting....I hinted about coffee but really got nowhere except in several messages he said he needed a second coffee? after that I hinted and nothing......

Right now I am just trying to keep the communication going....any suggestions on how to get him to open up?????
VirgoVixxxen
Posted by CancerLeoCam
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Here's the second part...



Cancer men hide out in the dark corners of pubs, or at the edge of the in-crowd. If they use their extrovert shell to cover up their weaker personality they can be akward to spot. Sometimes they hover in the wings, hiding from possible failure, appearing as confident and convincing as any fire sign. But around the full moon you can usually spot them when they become touchy and moody, not at all like any fire sign!

He is easily flattered, and often gullible in the face of a strong protective woman. He has a cheeky, little-boy-lost appeal that he takes to parties in his search for the perfect soul-mate, and he needs one desperately for all his apparent self-confidence and arrogant manner. It's misleading. Beneath that gregarious shell is a soft heart. There will only ever be one woman at a time for a cancerian man-at least you can be assured of that.



Much of this is true. My vertex says I should be on the look out for an Aries woman. I kind agree but we'll see. I detest drama.

There has always been one woman on my mind-never cheated ever. Didn't want it done to me. As a Cancer, I do conserve my resources and do my best to be sure that my investment in resources is well placed. Once secure, then I'm on board. Kinda all or nothing -but shouldn't it be? Otherwise,why be in a relationship with one-foot out the door?

in dating, we test the waters with our love interests and if it isn't warm, receptive and positive we disappear-at least I do.


Wow, thanks for your insight CancerLeoCam, it is much appreciated. So, you are one of those loyal ones eh? I heard that cancer men can be players...well the not so loyal ones at least. ;o)

Yes, I've also heard about the testing of the waters thing too. Hmmm...what a cautious lot. Well, I understand because we virgos are the same.

Same with the money thing. Cancers seem to have a good knack for saving (IRA'S, 401'S, insurance policies...ha!) and they usually make good investors.
cancerguy
Posted by VirgoVixxxen


I heard that cancer men can be players...well the not so loyal ones at least. ;o)

Yes, I've also heard about the testing of the waters thing too. Hmmm...what a cautious lot. Well, I understand because we virgos are the same.

Same with the money thing. Cancers seem to have a good knack for saving (IRA'S, 401'S, insurance policies...ha!) and they usually make good investors.


I don't really think that cancer men are always players, I think that some of them simply haven't found what they're looking for, whatever it is. In the mind of the cancer man who might be a player to you, in many cases he might not see that his actions are making him a "player" at all. Inner turmoil and conflict can lead to indecisive behavior, i.e. being a player. Just steer clear of these guys until they're more mature, the rest of us are usually very loyal and caring.

I think there are more Virgo billionaires than any other sign. I bet we're not too far behind, but who knows, I bet we dominate in the millionaires category :-P We do have a business sense that others don't, I think our intuition helps guide us along, we make the right decisions based on what we "feel" the market wants(business) or which way we "feel" the market is turning (investing).
VirgoVixxxen
Posted by cancerguy
Posted by VirgoVixxxen


I heard that cancer men can be players...well the not so loyal ones at least. ;o)

Yes, I've also heard about the testing of the waters thing too. Hmmm...what a cautious lot. Well, I understand because we virgos are the same.

Same with the money thing. Cancers seem to have a good knack for saving (IRA'S, 401'S, insurance policies...ha!) and they usually make good investors.


I don't really think that cancer men are always players, I think that some of them simply haven't found what they're looking for, whatever it is. In the mind of the cancer man who might be a player to you, in many cases he might not see that his actions are making him a "player" at all. Inner turmoil and conflict can lead to indecisive behavior, i.e. being a player. Just steer clear of these guys until they're more mature, the rest of us are usually very loyal and caring.

I think there are more Virgo billionaires than any other sign. I bet we're not too far behind, but who knows, I bet we dominate in the millionaires category :-P We do have a business sense that others don't, I think our intuition helps guide us along, we make the right decisions based on what we "feel" the market wants(business) or which way we "feel" the market is turning (investing).


cancerguy,

Thanks so much for this bit of this information and I will steer clear and be extremely cautious because most of the ones I've seen so far, all had a 'roving eye'. I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes.

Cosign on the virgo billionaire thing. LOL. Can you say Warren Buffett?

I have to say that cancer men are highly tactical and shrewd in all forms of business. Not to mention, your intuition works as a powerful accessory in 'feeling' people and situations out. In my opinion, the intuition is a gift.

PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."

Cancerguy, Cam, is this true??????????????

VirgoVixxxen
Posted by PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."

Cancerguy, Cam, is this true??????????????



Awww..PiscesArgie, I hope that I didn't frighten you. You're love is a cancer man? Try not to worry too much about what I posted. This is something I read and was asking the advice of cancer dudes here.
PiscesArgie
Oh dear, its Ok,Im just as curious to know as you are...!!!
let the Crabs illuminate us on this!!
yeah I love a Crab
shellshocker



I have to say that cancer men are highly tactical and shrewd in all forms of business.



So are cancer gals...

Posted by PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."

Cancerguy, Cam, is this true??????????????



PiscesArgie

My bro is a Cancer and I also have a great Cancer bud. Both are flirts in that "what? i'm just being friendly" Cancer way, but are true and loyal to their women.
My brother has been with his wife for 11 years. He's uber Cancer man and I really don't see how she puts up with him.

Must be love... she's a Pisces too!
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