Cancer men and Loyalty

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4/12/2009 3:34:49 PM | More
Diora_Capri

female from Rio de Janeiro

Sun: Capricorn Moon: Taurus Asc: Leo




how loyal are cancer men with their women? How can we tell if they only want you and only you? lol any special signs?
4/12/2009 7:09:25 PM | More
lou.m

female






Cancer men are all different really in that regard.


Try talking about it!!:-)



4/13/2009 1:39:21 PM | More
sucha_d0ll

32 years old female from bay area, ca  

I believe that it depends on how comitted the relationship is. If it's equally serious, Cancers tend to be very loyal. Almost to a fault.
4/17/2009 7:35:19 AM | More
Diora_Capri

female from Rio de Janeiro

Sun: Capricorn Moon: Taurus Asc: Leo

Posted by sucha_d0ll
I believe that it depends on how comitted the relationship is. If it's equally serious, Cancers tend to be very loyal. Almost to a fault.


Lol really? do tell
4/17/2009 10:14:46 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Oh! So you chose the Cancer Diora? Cool
4/17/2009 12:55:12 PM | More
Smiles24

from Nirvana  

Plain and Simple : Cancer

Well being a cancerian man myself I would say that depending on how fast the relationship goes will definitely determine if he will be loyal or not. If you move too fast or make it easy for him, than in his eyes the ultimate prize was just way too simple to achieve; and thus go look for a better challenge else where. But if you draw it out with the cancer than he'll become more interested in trying to win your affection, thus him being loyal to you.

It may sound a little bad but some cancer men look at a relationship as a sport to see how long it can take for the one they're after to cave.

So I agree with how lou says all cancer men are different. I myself require equal reciprocation like what doll was getting at to be serious in a relationship and be loyal to the end!

4/17/2009 12:57:36 PM | More
Smiles24

from Nirvana  

Plain and Simple : Cancer

So if you want the cancer to be loyal got to be will to TAKE and GIVE as well.
4/18/2009 9:34:10 AM | More
Diora_Capri

female from Rio de Janeiro

Sun: Capricorn Moon: Taurus Asc: Leo



Yes cappysweetie, he's yummiest of em all =)

Oh you lot, he keeps professing his loyalty time and time again..in fact he did so again last night...it was weird i mean, does he need constant reassurance? It amazes me that as confident as he comes (and i suspect as most cancer men do), underneath all that exterior, he still is this sensitive cancer man...he said, im not oging to break you heart, not planning to; more likely you'll be the one to break my heart..

which boosted my ego but at the same time..reminded me how I became the cap with so many xs...


out of topic..out of topic....


anyway, smiles24, i thought we were going too fast for my cappy pace, and he thought its alright and he likes having to fgure me out - that i dont give in too easily to him - so i think you are right in that sense.
4/18/2009 5:51:35 PM | More
Smiles24

from Nirvana  

Plain and Simple : Cancer

It's good and natural for him to be interested and fascinated in you diora; after all capricorns are the natural opposites of us cancers.

So we like to see how the other side lives, if that makes sense at all lol.
4/20/2009 9:17:40 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Posted by Smiles24
It's good and natural for him to be interested and fascinated in you diora; after all capricorns are the natural opposites of us cancers.

So we like to see how the other side lives, if that makes sense at all lol.



It makes sense to me lol. Honestly, I think I will end up with a cancer guy. It just seems to be the direction I will go into. I will end up with a cancer guy ... whether I like it or not, I'm sure he won't care LOL!
4/20/2009 9:19:11 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Yes cappysweetie, he's yummiest of em all =)

I am happy for you Diora Cancer men are awesome once they put things in perpective. Yes, they are really cool and loving too. Not just caring, but loving. Yes, they are sensitive, but once you get past that, its fine

6/19/2011 9:45:30 PM | More
pr_princess

Interesting. I think at the end IF a guy is interested, whether you wait or give it up sooner than later IF a guy wants you he will be with you. I've heard so many times from guys that a guy will measure up a girl the second he meets her. He knows whether this girl will be his just for sex, a gf to try, or a wife. One of my coworkers told me, and I've met these girls, both of whom slept with the guy on the 1st date, and second one within a week. Both Cancer guys both now married to them.

What do you think Cancer boys? How do you know a Cancer guy wants you or just sex.
6/20/2011 11:42:44 PM | More
roxyfalcon2006

25 years old female

Posted by wineaux
i can answer that...and that's just having been with one. they will never share with you. they will never let you penetrate that shell. they will never show that childish coy sparkle they have when they're around the one they have feelings for. they will never catch you off guard and say the sweetest thing that will have your heart in a puddle. you won't wake up in their arms while they're staring at you. you won't get to see them fall asleep with that saccharine smile they have because you are next to them. you won't get to feel them breathe in the same rhythm as you. they will never tell you they feel safe when they are with you. they will flirt and always be in control...because that's what they do when their feelings aren't below the surface.


hm wineaux, I usually agree with everything you have to say about cancers but here I'll kind of disagree, at least with my experience. mine's really shy and i'm still just getting to know him (he's FINALLY coming home from 2,000 miles away after his father passed away last week) but even though i hardly know him, he's already done some of this stuff.

first off, everytime i'm in the mood to "hook up" (not sex though) he's always the one who wants to take it slow and wait. one time i called him a tease and when he left he said "goodnight my vixen" like WHO says that nowadays?? it was so weird but like so cute/sexy at the same time haha!

also, I've woken up the next morning wrapped in his arms, he's fallen asleep on the couch with his arms around me while watching movies (snoring away REALLY LOUDLY.. haha) he said he missed me while he's been gone these two weeks, and he was the one who asked if i wanted to "pursue something" my second night after moving to his town-to which i replied "maybe". so...don't think they're all so stuffed in their shells.. mine's super shy but he's still managed to come out of it numerous times :-)
6/20/2011 11:47:41 PM | More
pr_princess

How long did you wait? Well this guy like wants it with me every time we're together. BUT he has taken me out. He has told me he likes me, ... is that just a "talk " to get laid? I find him to be so confident on the outside but SO insecure or shy when we get close. Haven't had sex yet. It's been a month. How do I find out?

6/21/2011 12:01:18 AM | More
roxyfalcon2006

25 years old female

Posted by pr_princess
How long did you wait? Well this guy like wants it with me every time we're together. BUT he has taken me out. He has told me he likes me, ... is that just a "talk " to get laid? I find him to be so confident on the outside but SO insecure or shy when we get close. Haven't had sex yet. It's been a month. How do I find out?



Well, I'm still a virgin, and we're not "officially" dating yet.. long story-met on a cruise in February, lived 3 hrs away.. visited twice between then and June, I decided to move there to find a better job because the economy sucks where I live.. so I just moved there June 5th and then he had to fly 2,000 miles away 5 days later because his dad died and he won't be back til tomorrow SO we really haven't done that much. I don't plan on having sex with him for A LONG time, considering I dated my last ex for a year and a half and we didn't do it. I figured since I'm 22 and I've waited this long I might as well make it very special, I at least want to be in love and I'm still getting to know this guy.

His friend told me that his last gf was a virgin and he didn't know it and they had sex and he took her virginity and was planning on breaking up with her before that so he was really upset because he didn't realize he took her virginity and didn't want to look like an ass by breaking up with her after. He's almost 25 and only slept with 2 girls though, so I don't think he's just holding out because he wants to get laid.

His friend (a girl) and I joke that he's EXACTLY like edward cullen because well.. he is. Quiet, protective, broading, and the willpower of a freaking priest, I swear to god. sometimes I just want to jump him and he is so....gentlemanly. haha
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