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beautiful69
11/17/2006 11:14:45 AM | IP

29 years old female from New York City

Well guys this just may be the end of my relationship. Things are just not the same anymore. Our relationship is a routine, and it works around his schedule only. I haven't seen him in 5 days, and we haven't spoke on the phone in 3 days. The last I seen him I tried expressing to him how I felt. And he didn't have much to say, and the things he did say confused the hell out of me. It hurts me though, because I put so much work, time, and effort just for things to end up this way. I asked him what he wants and besides saying that he wants me he doesn't know. He says he wants to work things out but doesn't know I have no idea what I should do now.
7evin
11/17/2006 4:43:57 PM | IP
7evin

27 years old male

Born 07 Jul 1985 at 02:35 GMT Sun 1

i dont think he's interested anymore
cuppamilo
2/26/2007 7:11:51 PM | IP

Hi there everyone!
WEll I have just been reading some of the messages here and I am so hoping someone will be able to help me!

I am in love with a cancer man who is 10 yrs younger than me. I dont know what to do, Im going out of my mind, he wont open up to me and I dont mind that so much, but I do mind that he gives off signals he likes me yet wont say anything! We had two encounters recently and Im not the kind to sleep around. I didnt think he was either. Wonder why he is affectionate one minute and cold the next? How do I bring him close to me and how can I get close to his heart?

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3/13/2007 10:27:05 PM | IP

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applemint_fv
7/28/2011 3:33:41 AM | IP
applemint_fv

29 years old female

Asian.virgo with virgo

When he introduces u to his mom!
SophiaGem
11/3/2012 9:59:44 AM | IP

I hope you can help me understand my Cancer man...............

I'm confused and I know that does'nt come as much of a surprise to you as Cancerians are notoriously 'confusing' in the matter of relationships

OK here goes, met this guy (Cancer) great chemistry, etc., sweet nothings etc., then he told me he did'nt think it would work out between us .............. I was very upset at this outcome as I assumed that we had gelled quite well he told me he had never been drawn to or liked someone so instantly as he had with me I was one of the most likeable, interesting people he had ever met ........... confusing signals. We had had sex (which was entirely against my own rules) but hey ho so double whammy for me.

So I am now not only hurt but feeling quite cheap as well!!

Couple of days later he contacts me by text to ask if I am OK - I said GREAT how are you?? He said he had the blues but did'nt want to talk about it ........ would I like contact I said OK however I kept the conversation on a 'friendzone' level as did he - however as I liked him so much my feelings were developing even more over this period of time.
More confusion - he called me everyday - he responded to my text within seconds - however I was concerned he was just stringing me (he is a loner) and I was just someone to talk to. After much introspection and during our telephone conversation I said to him ' I don't know what it is you want from me' ............... he said he did'nt know either he is confused ........... and did'nt want to hurt me again - so I told him I could'nt be his friend, which upset him as he said he loves talking to me but I felt strong enough to say that I was'nt prepared to hang around whilst he sought 'clarity' as I valued myself too much and I had other offers on the table and he was holding me in a place. Finished the call by saying I maybe would call him when I was next in town !!

Few days later feeling sad and sorry 'AGAIN' I texted him to said I missed him terribly and I hoped he was OK ?? ........... he responded by saying he was missing me too but he was so stressed he can't think straight (workload) and probably would be like this until he returns from his business trip which is couple of weeks away - he finished text by saying he Hoped I was OK ??

WTF is going on here - what should I do ???
Move on (which is not what I want to do) I want him, and I want to love and care for him but I have to get some clarity (we live at a distance from
SophiaGem
11/3/2012 10:00:04 AM | IP

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lovenotforgotten
11/3/2012 1:16:43 PM | IP

Posted by beautiful69
I thought being a cancer woman I would be able to understand my cancer boyfriend, however we seem different. He's very closed in, even now almost a year being together he still doesn't express himself to me. I am the expressive one in the relationship while he sits there his response is "oh okay". When he doesn't respond when I pour out my feelings to him, I feel so silly and wish I could be reserved like him with this "I don't Care" attitude. How would I know if my cancer man is serious about me. What are the signs when a cancer man is in love. The most he has said to me is that he cares about me, and that I am a total sweetheart. Ok and? How can I help him to open up to me, I need to know what he's feeling that's the part that drives me crazy because you never know what's going on with him, what's on his mind. When I ask questions, he says I ask to many questions, but how else am I suppose to know it's not like he comes out and tells me anything. Please help!


I wouldn't know since I went through the same. I left the Cancer because of it, and I sensed some resentment from him after.

 

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