| Yep 3 months is your answer... You can't keep a man away from a woman he adores... Sorry if he hasn't reached out or made effort to keep in contact...it's time to find someone who wants you as you want them... It does...not ..take a water sign 3 months to *find* or sort their feelings for someone...they either have them or they don't...they're not stupid they know what they feel and usually it's not what you think it is... Unfortunately waters signs...particularly...Cancers and Pisces...will bail out quietly...they will slowly stop communication and too many women see that as *scared* of their feelings...no the truth is they already know what you feel and cannot offer you the same feelings in return... Cancers have no problems telling you how they feel if they know you feel the same...so if your feelings have been said and he still is *sound of crickets* please believe the crickets is telling you something... |
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I'm a Cancer male. ===
Posted by rudescorpscorp I would only ask the first question, but only when I'm 110% sure about her feelings towards me and yes, I would do it to make her feel especial, but the main reason is because I feel it and I expect the same from her. That way I know I won't the "wtf?" look or feel awkward. lol About the second question. No, I don't believe in marriage, but that's a different story. |
| rudescorp.. you must be young If any man, regardless of sign is telling you things like "where have you been all my life" and "i want to marry you" within 1-2 months of knowing you.. *RED FLAG* You should learn this now because you may hear it from men of all ages throughout your life. I'm sure tiki could articulate this much better than I but... when a boy/man does that, he is trying to get you to feel emotions for him, and way too quickly. The sooner he gets you caught up, the more control he will have over you and the relationship. It seems the fixed signs get taken in by this BS easier than others because they see things in black and white. Either you love me or you don't... It is, or it isn't...FIXED Mind you, Taurus is cautious and slow so they don't get dupped so easy but Virgos dream of perfection and want to believe it so bad, they can get carried away... |
female
| Rudescorp.....he is GONE. Meaning, not in your life. Let go...or be dragged by the memories. IF he comes back, then run back here and ask for help on what to do. Live your life...not your past. |
female
Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on
| Rudescorp but don't you see how you are making up "excuses" for him because you are afraid to let him go, you are the one afraid of rejection because if you truly loved yourself, cared about yourself you would never even entertain the thought of allowing this man to string you along nor would you entertain the idea of stringing your own self along trying to re-raise a man that's grown (he has a mama) and his insecurities are HIS TO OWN, you can't own his insecurities and then use your precious life making excuses for his insecurities, trying to control him by loving his insecurities away so he'll love you back, NO it doesn't work that way. You let him in and he vanished, let's be real okay, that b*tter hurts and to avoid the hurt you are now using a huge amount of your energy trying to avoid this altogether and flying into a I must save him from himself or heal his insecurities through your love. Do you sorta see how ridiculous that is? You're not ridiculous but your behavior comes across that way. Being ready for when he comes around makes no sense really because there is nothing to be ready for, there is nothing you can say or do to make him stay, reassuring him you will be there no matter what (ride or die) will just allow him to have his cake and eat it too, to constantly come into your life and drop out of your life when he feel like it so see no matter what you will probably feel confused and frustrated by this man. Take care of yourself and you do that by not allowing anyone to disrupt your life in such a way that you are NOT ALLOWING ANYONE to come into your life and hurt you intentionally or not. |
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Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on
| If he's a man/boy well that's his problem not yours, if he's a good guy that has bad behavior well that's his problem not yours because you can't try to fix a man without him feeling you are being controlling, pushy, needy, desperate and obnoxious, so you see you won't be TURNING HIM ON but rather you'll be TURNING HIM OFF so at some point you have to make the right choice. I can tell you what I feel the right choice is but I'm not you and so you'll have to at some point stop all the excuse making and tell the truth...He's gone, he may or may not come back and even if he comes back he'll be gone again and the reality is he'll hurt you with his behavior and you can't trust a man that comes in and out of your life with your heart, you can't trust a man that behaves this way with you. Let him go so you can BE FREE to pursue a relationship with someone that actually want to be in your life, if you entangle your heart up with a man that has no interest in BEING IN YOUR LIFE then you are losing yourself, losing your self esteem, losing YOU, a man may leave you but YOU will never leave you so that makes you way more important than him. Letting him go doesn't mean you lose all your feelings for him it just means you are not allowing him to be more relevant than you, you are placing higher value on yourself and moving on to someone who will place high value on you as well, when men value you they don't leave, they don't drop off the face of the earth but when a man places low value on you it's because he doesn't deem you as someone he'll drop everything for to be with, he won't show up when you need him and he's not available for emotional support, maybe he'll show up for sex depending on what's going on in his life but that's probably the most he may or may not show up for. |
Eat it biAtches. Cancer Sun
| Okay, I've read this and I am once again putting in my two cents. For what that's worth haha Rude, there are a couple of things that struck me from your most recent posts. First, I want you to just think about something. Clear out your mind, and read my words and just answer to yourself. My bestie is a Scorp, love her to death. When she gets stuck on something she refuses to listen all the while she says she is. But she isn't. She's too concentrated on what she thinks and what she wants that she cannot open her mind to other possibilities or that someone else may be right. She cannot handle for anyone to point out when she is not listening, being rude, out of line, hard to handle, judgmental, anything. She feels she can say and do whatever she wants to whomever and if you don't like it, it's your problem not hers. She's hurtful to people, and laughs at them. Even when they tell her that, she'll tell them to toughen up or make excuses for herself. Second, this guy is being a guy. There is nothing you can do to change him. Men do not want to be changed, they want to be accepted for who they . Accepted and loved. Oh, and appreciated  That's it. They will change if THEY want to, no matter how much begging, crabbing, or crying us women do. And generally they will do the opposite if they think we're telling them what to do.Third, as a Cancer you really have no idea how hard you are coming across. Controlling. Pushy. I'd be ignoring you too, I would  I told you that in my first post, what his answer to you was: YOU ARE TOO INTENSE. Way too intense. He told you himself. He doesn't want to deal with you, because you are probably in his face about things...whether it's he doesn't text enough, call enough, open up enough, or whatever. Cool down. YOU CANNOT CONTROL HIM. The more you TRY to CONTROL him the more he is going to tell you to take a lloooooonnnnnnnngggggggggg walk off a very short dock.Fourth, his insecurities do not make him a boy. They are true and real. I can about guarantee you that your saying that here was picked up by him in your conversations with him. I would take great offense, and I'm sure he did. You don't need to tell him that, he picked up on that you don't take it seriously. I can tell you I deal with the very same thing from your sign. The very same thing. As pissed off as I get at the one Scorp? Never once did I call him a boy because of his insecurities. Never once. |
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