| Recently I joined a dating website and have been trying hard to get a new girlfriend (no success yet, though!) As a Virgo guy I tend to find Cancer women irresistible so was particularly pleased when a very friendly and attractive-looking Cancer woman contacted me out of the blue and we had a really friendly online chat. Then after that I didn't hear from her for quite a few weeks then when she contacted me again she said she had been ill. I was very pleased that she had got back in touch and we started chatting again, but then I seemed to offend her big-time and I still don't know why (and she won't contact me any more). What happened was that I was just asking about her family background etc: I asked her if her parents were still alive and she said no. Then what seemed to cause the offence was that I asked her what her father used to do for a living - for some reason she didn't seem to like that question at all and for some reason that seems to be what has caused the rift between us! I mean, perhaps her father was a criminal or something like that, but even if he was firstly I wasn't to know that and secondly that's not her fault. So I really don't get this. I wonder if she might have some kind of general reluctance to talk or think about her father because it seems to me that Cancer women have often been sexually abused by their fathers (and so trust only their mothers!) Do you think it could be that? |
Why did this Cancer woman take offence?
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male from United Kingdom
Virgo male interested in (western) astro
30 years old female
Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon
| Whatevs. Move on. If she's gonna get her panties in a twist over that question, imagine what it'll be like later on. Sheesh. |
male from United Kingdom
Virgo male interested in (western) astro
| In reply to MoonMan, I know it's speculation on my part at the end but that's just something I have come to realise over the years as have been interested in astrology since the age of about 12! If not sexual abuse often alcoholism or something like that that has made the father seem weak/untrustworthy/shameful. Unfortunately this lady lives 150 miles away from me and anyway as I say she seems to have gone into a big Cancerian sulk now for some (or for no) reason, so I guess I can't get her out of her shell but the thing is that I often seem to have this trouble with Cancer women: everything seems to be going great, then suddenly I unknowingly cross some invisible "red line" and that somehow seems to blow everything out of the water and I will not be forgiven for whatever it is that I have done! :-( |
from Texas
I am all things complicated and fabulous
| Well...I'm creeped out reading your first post because of you jumping to that sexual abuse conclusion. Maybe that came across in your written conversations. |
female from the fire Moon
July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer
| The first time I agree with MoonMan. Best to stay clear of internet dating, too many weirdos and a long distance internet romance just isn't healthy. I've tried and it was entirely dissatisfying. Try a real woman. I know as a Cancer woman I don't like people asking me a question and if I don't answer it right away or to their liking they start making assumptions and answering the question for me in a snide rude manner. Not saying this is what you did but it could have been taken that way. If she doesn't want to discuss her fathers career why did you not change the subject and talk about something else? I had a similar issue with a Taurus I was asking about his siblings, how many and he shut down on me saying it was complicated. I didn't push it because from what I got out of it, some of his siblings came from an affair and some died young. This is tough for some people to talk about. Not all Cancer women are this touchy. |
male from United Kingdom
Virgo male interested in (western) astro
| I did try to change the subject but it was too late and she has hardly had any contact with me since (and none at all recently): I don't suppose she will again (?) |
Posted by virgodog58 I think she just got a whiff of this^^^^^ your "observations". 2 posts and I already think you're a bit of a whack job |
male from United Kingdom
Virgo male interested in (western) astro
| I don't know why you say that: as I say I have been interested in astrology for many years and I have come to observe certain patterns applying to certain signs, even if it doesn't say it in the books. You people seem to think that I said or insinuated something to her about my suspicions but I can assure you that I did not so it wasn't that. I guess you are all just defending "one of your own" here! |
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| I think he may have overcharmed her quite possibly ? |
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| Lol, you make it sound so romantic there ! |
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| I think some of the stuff he's put is pretty cruel but something leads me to believe you're being tongue-in-cheek here, yes ? |
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