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oxlostxo
12/17/2011 7:12:27 PM | IP
oxlostxo

from Aries in Wonderland  

oxlostxo
12/17/2011 7:30:06 PM | IP
oxlostxo

from Aries in Wonderland  

Mr Cappy and I went to a dancing concert yesterday, after all the performances were finished, it was free dancing time. So a band was playing music and everyone got on the dance floor (latin dancing), me and mr cappy were standing watching everyone and then he said are you gonna be dancing, I was like "yeah do u wanna dance?", and he was like "nah, later maybe when it is less crowded", after a bit there were slightly less people on the floor, he didnt ask me to dance with him though, and after few minutes a girl that knows him (from his dance class) pops up and starts chit chatting and then was insisting on a dance with him, he goes and taps me on the shoulder saying that he will be back in a minute. I stand there watching them dancing and I felt upset, I wasn't upset because he was dancing with another girl, I was upset because he said no to me but not this girl, plus he left me alone when I don't know anyone there. So I was getting a bit teary, went and got myself something to drink and stood somewhere where I really can't watch him. I had a couple of peeks and he was dancing with some other girl. He was dancing for like 10 or 15 minutes but it felt like forever. I was just standing there like a loner sipping my drink and leaning against the wall, I was really thinking of taking a cab home and leaving him to dance as he wish. After he finished dancing he came to look for me and he was like "why are u standing here", I just pointed at my drink, it was obvious that I was upset, i just walked away and stood like 2 meters away, he looked all awkward and was standing the way I was standing while he danced, just leaning against the wall and doesn't know what to do. There was another performance and then that was it. He walked to me and asked me if I wanted to dance, and I said "no, but you can dance if you want, dont worry about me" (I was million miles away from being in the mood to dance by then). He was like "do u wanna go home then?", I was like "if you want", so yeah we left. We didn't talk all the way back home, when we reached my place, I was gonna say goodnight and go, but then I was thinking it wouldn't be a good idea to part while I am mad at him, so I asked him if he wants a drink (I was feeling thirsty so I thought he would be too). So yeah he came in, still awkward and all, and then he tried to cheer me up and asked me if I wanted to play video games with him. He kissed me and gave me a hug but I still feel upsest with him, am I being silly?
TaurGuy
12/17/2011 7:30:34 PM | IP
TaurGuy

30 years old male

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BigGirlPanties
12/17/2011 8:02:32 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

female

Wall of text.

Please use paragraphs. *cookiemonster slap*
oxlostxo
12/17/2011 8:29:57 PM | IP
oxlostxo

from Aries in Wonderland  

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oxlostxo
12/17/2011 8:31:45 PM | IP
oxlostxo

from Aries in Wonderland  

@PGP

waste of space ... please don't reply to my posts
lnana04
12/17/2011 8:33:55 PM | IP

I personally don't think you are being silly at all.
M
12/17/2011 8:58:49 PM | IP
M

male from Capritude  

I don't think you;re silly, but it also doesnt surprise me. Remember he's the type to do as he pleases.

I've had times where I drew a line thinking "I'm not not going to do this. And if I did, *name* would be the first person I'd go tap on the shoulder". Well then someone else comes and pokes me, inquires and pushes, and won't let it go. To be obliging and because I can't really find a valid reason to stay in my former mindset I make a concession. Hindsight stinks because I still would value my original thoughts more, but outwardly it looks like I value any result the same.

So I can see how he'd be coerced into changing his mind. That part I don't think was intended as personal, just a bit thoughtless. And knowing some of your past posts, he's often doing that.

*However*
It should be clear to him...given the time you two have come to know each other's mindsets... that obviously he just contradicted himself (doubly evident upon approaching you after lol) and rectified the moment. Even if it was dancing with ya to no music :p
BigGirlPanties
12/17/2011 9:07:16 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

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BigGirlPanties
12/17/2011 9:08:40 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

female

"wahhhhh, Im tearyyyyyy...."
tiki33
12/17/2011 9:10:11 PM | IP
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

XO Why are you making this man responsible for your happiness? I'm curious as to why you didn't go out and have some fun! It was a great opportunity to dance with other people instead of sitting on the sidelines "waiting" on him to dance with you.

Silly no, a doormat...yes

M
12/17/2011 9:12:39 PM | IP
M

male from Capritude  

Maybe she wanted to dance with him.
Elaborate "doormat"
M
12/17/2011 9:12:49 PM | IP
M

male from Capritude  

*on
ellessque
12/17/2011 9:35:58 PM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

Posted by tiki33
XO Why are you making this man responsible for your happiness? I'm curious as to why you didn't go out and have some fun! It was a great opportunity to dance with other people instead of sitting on the sidelines "waiting" on him to dance with you.

Silly no, a doormat...yes



+1

I have to agree with this.

In fact, if he wouldn't have accepted my initial invitation....i would have found someone else to dance with.

You let yourself be in that situation. You aren't being silly but you did let insecurities and doubt take over your being at that very moment. Stop doing that *slaps hands softly*
M
12/17/2011 9:37:26 PM | IP
M

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