Are Capricorn men affectionate?

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5/11/2009 11:12:14 AM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

I am asking because I notice that it’s not everyday my cappy man is affectionate.
Like this weekend, on Friday, he was kissing me alot and touching etc, yet this Saturday night and Sunday, no kissing. Just light touches.
And if no one is around (not even my daughter) Lol, I just won’t go there. (No sex yet. And we did actually talk about it. He wants to, but says it’s been 4 yrs since so he needs a little time, so I’m patient, but anxious.)

When we are asleep it’s a diff story. He is such a friggin cuddler! And oh man do I love it. He wraps both of his arms around me, and I fall asleep like a baby. Not to mention he is naturally hot-blooded.

But then I noticed another thing . . He doesn’t do PDA too often lol.
He’s not into holding hands much, or the whole kissy we’re in love PDA action.
Like, when we were in the store, but he actually did kiss me, but it was quick lol. Other times than that, no kissing, just leaning on me or a one-arm hug around me.

Just wanted to gush . .He can be so perfect in one instance, then makes me wanna pull my hair out in the next.
5/11/2009 8:17:03 PM | More
BeoWulf


But then I noticed another thing . . He doesn’t do PDA too often lol.

They're controlled by the strictest, harshest planet in the Solar Sytem, Saturn :- the cold planet of discipline, self-restrain & no affection


Just wanted to gush . .He can be so perfect in one instance, then makes me wanna pull my hair out in the next.

Folks forget that Caps are actually dual-natured--- Mer-Goats (half-fish, half-goat, ie, half-Earth (all solid & stable) half-Water (emotional, passionate, loving). Hence your man's different temperaments. But be truthful: isn't it his unpredictability that keeps you hooked? Wouldn't you be bored with a man who was all soft & constantly gushing & dripping with romance (like some Libras ). It might seem great at first but the novelty gets old soon & then you get bored.

5/12/2009 9:36:20 AM | More
warholian



i contain multitudes: Ascendant in Ar

To answer your question: yes and no.
5/12/2009 12:33:05 PM | More
CapTaur

It's been 4 years and he needs more time? Interesting. My Cap guy pounced on me as soon as he realized I was ready and willing.


5/12/2009 4:21:14 PM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

Lol CapTaur, i wish i could say the same!
He seems very controlled and cautious.
im ready to blow!
5/12/2009 4:22:15 PM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

4 years since "the deed"

he does all the other stuff
just not the 'ACTUAL' stuff

5/12/2009 4:48:44 PM | More
CapTaur

I wonder why he's so cautious ... It's really none of my business, so don't feel as if you have to respond to my curiosity, but I'm wondering why he's holding back ...

To answer your initial question: My Cap guy is affectionate when it's just the two of us in private. In public his affection is expressed by introducing me to his friends or just by being seen with me (I'm with her in public = I'm proud to be with her in public = the best compliment I could give her without having to express it). Behind closed doors he's okay with being close and being affectionate (touching, snuggling). And when it comes to gettin' down ... well. Damn.
5/13/2009 8:53:24 AM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

Hmm . . I don't know the real reason as to why . . but I do know with each passing day that we spend together, he's becoming a bit more open about it and displaying that he is open about it.

That's the same thing with my cappy man. In private, he's fine with me kissing on him and snuggling him and holding on to him but in public, not so much the same thing. I guess it's the same. Being seen with me would merit a PDA move, and that's a big one for him.

I think i am falling in love with him . .oh boy . .
5/13/2009 9:35:32 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Hi Shaiessence, I remember you
5/13/2009 11:12:40 AM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

Cappysweetie!

Wow . . I still have your last message in my inbox too!

It's been quite a while . . How have you been? How is everything with you?
5/13/2009 2:43:27 PM | More
lou.m

female

My cappie guy was affectionate.

IT sounds like he is becoming more comfortable with you and responding to that.

Sounds like things are going great ..CONGRATS!

IT sounds like he is beoming more comfident about expressing his feelings.

ITs good he has the balance of showing affection without blubbering I think it sounds as if as things go on he will open up even more and become more comfortable with it naturally!

I dont know ??

My capi was totally threw caution to the wind.

Capies can be a little eratic expecially the men but their feelings remain the same they are very loyal..mine was

Sounds like its going well!

SOunds likeyou have captures his heart hun!!

BY THE WAY ERM...

I may be totally naive but what is PDA what does it stand for.. never heard of the abreviation???LOL!!!?????

5/13/2009 2:48:05 PM | More
CapTaur

lou.m: You can find a definition of "PDA" here: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=PDA
5/14/2009 2:57:03 PM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

PDA = Public Display of Affection
5/14/2009 3:04:25 PM | More
shaiessence

25 years old from Dallas, Texas.  

He said the sexiest thing last night

"Come get me, I need your touch"

Hmm hmm hmm. Sorry. just gushing.
5/14/2009 5:18:58 PM | More
lou.m

female

Posted by shaiessence
PDA = Public Display of Affection


AAh ty:-)
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