BROKEN UP 7 MONTHS ANY CHANCE STILL??
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male from Capritude
| May I ask why you would want to chase someone like that? |
39 years old female
Sun Gemini As
| I think you should have stopped after the second text. It's hard, but it's best to let go of a dude who totally ignores you. If a man wants a woman he will make it happen. He is not making it happen, so why do you hang around like a door mat? |
female from LDN
Cap Sun//Sag Moon//Gem Rising.
Posted by libra_lis What was the situation that made him think you cheated? What happened? I always step back a bit when the evidence isn't conclusively damning (and I'm pretty black and white about most things), and, as you didn't cheat, it won't be conclusively damning. There's got to be something here to grab on to and work with; to show him or tell him you've not been unfaithful. You mention a lot about how he's jealous; many people (myself included) get that from time to time, but if it's constant, it's perhaps more of a psychological issue (borne of previous experiences/fear of abandonment etc perhaps) than what his sun sign can enlighten. (As an aside, please, I hope there'll be no more DUIs! A cab fair costs waaay less than your's or someone else's life or body parts! Even a few thousand miles is cheaper than a body part. Sorry for the preach, but I have raw nerves there.) |
female
| He is so used to your chasing him with texts, Imagine what he'd do if you stopped? hmmm..maybe chase YOU? |
female from LDN
Cap Sun//Sag Moon//Gem Rising.
Posted by BigGirlPanties At this point, yes... Honestly, OP, don't keep sending him texts with bugger all positive response (or any response, period). Not only does it fluff his ego, but maybe it's continuining to fuel his belief that you were unfaithful (and are just trying to win him back for your own ends). He also may feed off it a bit (see my end paragraph). I'm sorry, but it's just "I still need you" fluff if you're not cutting to and sorting out why you broke up IMHO (ie, his belief you cheated on him). You need a two-way conversation about this! If he's "too angry" to discuss it with you face-to-face and won't cite what made him believe you were unfaithful, then I'd be inclined to think he's looking for a get-out excuse (this isn't conclusive BTW, but, if it were me, I'd think it extremely shady if he wasn't prepared to state what happened to make him believe this and call him on it). BigGirlPanties is right; the texts he receives but doesn't answer are likely to be fuelling his silence at this point. I know (and am not proud) that texts I still get regularly from ex friends and lovers whom I've cut out either irritate me or simply make me smirk at this point. I'd never change my number though... treetrunk them, it's my number, not theirs. |
from Hell-adelphia, PA US
Capricorn Sun Cancer Moon Capric
Posted by libra_lis i think that's your answer right there. you'd know if he was interested, trust me. don't set yourself up to be hurt. |
