Capricorn men and Depression

CutieGirl
The day before Thanksgiving my journey with my Cap came to an abrupt end. It was just the day before that he told me he loved me. Things were great for a moment, he was waiting for a clean bill of health and thankfully he was OK, but then things got worse because he suddenly became depressed. Nothing I said or did was ever right. Nothing I tried would cheer him up. So when he abruptly said he thought he is too old and gets too tired physically for us to be together, I didn't have the energy anymore to try to talk him out of it. I reassured him countless times that I accepted him for him. All I could think was that he doesn't love me anymore and I just don't know why. He seemed to be completely hopeless about everything. He said he wasn't even sure why he was feeling this way, but he thought it was best.

I didn't cry or pout, I didn't even speak. I just collected his things and said good-bye. At that point I was so emotionally drained I couldn't think of anything more to say.

A day or so later, I text him I would still be a friend to him if he needed me and that I'd be praying for him that he sorts things out and finds happiness.

I know he's depressed about life, and that maybe he's just not thinking correctly right now, but it's really hard to know what to do to help. I feel really badly for him. I miss him a lot, I even thought I would marry him one day for sure, but he feels he wanted to break-up, so I let go.

I've heard that Cap men DO have the capacity to come back after break-ups.
I'll try to move on, but do depressed Caps eventually come out of their sadness and come back to you?
Do you just have to leave them alone?
Does their depression cause them to forget/lose the love they professed for their significant others?
CutieGirl
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS M!!!

My emotions are all over the place right now, but I think in time I'll be OK. I didn't realize that maybe I needed some space too.

Anyway, I've already lined up lots of activities to keep me busy so I can re-focus on healing. I loved him without reservation or regret so I at least tried to honor him in that regard. I'll keep praying for him that he'll be OK and come out of his depression soon.
CutieGirl
Posted by 88NPISCES
Posted by CutieGirl
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS M!!!

My emotions are all over the place right now, but I think in time I'll be OK. I didn't realize that maybe I needed some space too.

Anyway, I've already lined up lots of activities to keep me busy so I can re-focus on healing. I loved him without reservation or regret so I at least tried to honor him in that regard. I'll keep praying for him that he'll be OK and come out of his depression soon.


Hi lady, are you alright?
I have something to share with you that will make you happy. :-), well that is if you are more pisces than Aqua. lol


HEEEEEY 88NPISCES!!!!

Well....I'm hanging in there. Each day brings new feelings to deal with - Acceptance, Peace, Anger, Bitterness, etc, etc.
Please know that anything you have to share will be greatly anticipated and even more appreciated, so please share away.
CutieGirl
tears... Thank you!

Love you Girl!!!!





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