How to tell if Gemini Guy likes you

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11/12/2010 2:22:57 PM | More
little_sparrow

female from the sparrow tree

Five planets of Libra

LOL!

Okay. Now that I have seriously freaked myself out, how can you tell if a Gemini guy likes you?
11/12/2010 4:27:49 PM | More
little_sparrow

female from the sparrow tree

Five planets of Libra

He has never showered a day in his life. It must be love!
11/14/2010 12:44:27 AM | More
candi3bb

28 years old female from Los Angeles, California  

Pie is Good.

lol....what does that have to deal with anything
11/14/2010 6:14:46 PM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

Wise Old Owl:"If you are playing games or being dishonest then you will get nothing more then tricks from him."

Unfortunately being honest and NOT playing games does not entitle one to the same treatment back from the Gemini.

WOO: "So if your vibe is sincere you will get the good twin treatment if your vibe is evil you will get the evil twin treatment. It is at your own choosing, we do not pick or decide YOU DO. Which twin do you want, the good a treat or the bad a trick? This is why we are often called two faced or players."

If I am sincere and honest and absolutely not into games of any kind, why would I get the evil twin treatment?

A Gemini Girlfriend just caught me crying at my desk (I HATE being caught crying) and I had to admit it was becuase Gemboy doesn't love me. She gave me a massive hug and said "how could he NOT love you?" What does a Gemgirl see that a Gemboy can't?

Sooooo disappointed in myself for giving my heart to another selfish nasty hateful Gemini user.
You all say you want someone genuine with honesty/no games/space to be youself... so someone gives you all that and you butter all over them.

What do you REALLY want?

And yes, I know I should not have gotten involved with another Gemini, so don't tell me I should have known better.
I know that, but my stupid idiot heart thought maybe this one was a Real Man and not just a User.


11/14/2010 7:34:18 PM | More
oxlostxo

from Aries in Wonderland  

He'll try to kiss you, pretend that your his girfriend even though you not .. And of course annoy the hell out of you (personal experience) . And sorry I am no fan of geminis both genders
11/14/2010 7:42:37 PM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

Oh Wise, thankyou...

I doubt that even Jules Verne could imagine that I was playing games.
I am not that.I am into honesty, loyalty, great sex and unwavering support of my SO. Obviously distasteful to the Gemini male.
yes, I have tried to explain my side of the coin to him calmly, politely and pleasantly. No reply.
I hate that I have to get onto the internet to try to find out what goes on inside his head.
For someone born under the "communication sign" I find it odd that he can't just tell me whatzup. Why not be honest with me?

Doesn't really help me move forward if I don't know what I've done wrong, does it?

Believe me, I am the one who is hurt and overwhelmed. This is a person that is/was so dear to me I cannot tell you and I would never have done anything to hurt him. He seems quite comfortable hurting me though. Feels a bit unfair, but my feelings don't matter, do they?????

Sorry if any of this sounds like I am having a go at you - I am not - I am just so shattered and confused.




11/14/2010 9:06:22 PM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

*HUGS* back you Owly Old thing.

Not meant as an outrage, more a confused/depressed thing. Feel like such an idiot for putting my heart out there.

Shoulda been the best thing ever. Maybe there's no such thing.

Does 1)caring about and being supportive of someone who ACTS like they care about me and then 2)being hurt and confused when they suddenly disappear into their fox hole with no explanation make me highly strung and emotional?

If so, so be it.. but I feel like I am entitled to an honest answer for behaviour like this - you say a Gem does not do this for no reason.
As I said, it would break my heart to hurt him so I think I would know if I had done something awful to him. It would gut me severely.

Maybe some chick buttered on him before so he thought he better get in and do it to me first??? Who would know?
Just have to try be a Gemini about out I guess.. feel nothing, move on and hurt the next person who doesn't deserve it.

Thanks for your patience everyone - I will really try to man up and not care now.
hope everyone else is having a rockin day.x


11/14/2010 9:27:25 PM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

edited for bad spelling, sorry, it's my weirdo accent...

Just have to try be a Gemini about IT I guess.. feel nothing, move on and hurt the next person who doesn't deserve it.
11/15/2010 1:59:33 PM | More
candi3bb

28 years old female from Los Angeles, California  

Pie is Good.

im dating a gemini

he is everything i want in a man and more. Who he wants to become and the man he already is. I can honestly say i see the transitions from "whatever" to great and it is exactly what wiseoldowl stated. it all depends on how he views you and whether or not he is consistent with you.
11/15/2010 6:11:20 PM | More
little_sparrow

female from the sparrow tree

Five planets of Libra

ReallyNiceAries

I know very little about the Gem guy, but I am an air sign through and through. We air signs are a tricky lot. We aren't really playing any games but it is hard for us begotten. It is hard to hold the wind. When someone latches on, we run through their fingers and vanish.

I suspect that us air signs need a mental connection more so than an emotional connection. We need our thinky time. Emotions kind of confuse the crap out of us, so we need to go experience life without you, so that we know how much we truly value life with you. I think the key is emotional detachment with a mental connection.

I am truly sorry you are hurting. I know I don't do well with other people's emotions. We really get overwhelmed by them. They confuse us. If you can spend a couple of days not thinking about it, it may give him enough room to realize he misses you.
11/15/2010 6:19:28 PM | More
little_sparrow

female from the sparrow tree

Five planets of Libra

Posted by WiseOldOwl


Until we have made it official with you it is fair game to speak and do as we please with others. We do not see it as we are in a relationship, although others often mistakenly perceive it as such. If he has not stated that you are his girlfriend then the two of you have no commitment and all things are fair. That means talking to others, flirting, dating, and so forth. You will only get faithfulness from him after you become an item until then all bets are off and all things fair game.


I have no problem with this. Although I like him, I feel like I don't know him well enough to give up all potential partners. I would really like to get to know him better.

It is weird. Sometimes we get along great. Other times not so much. I really wish there was more ease in the relationship. I suspect the fact that I am burning the candle at both ends and in the middle has something to do with it. I'm more irritable and argumentative than normal. I would like to get to know him better, on a more personal level, but am not sure how to do it.

Who knows? Maybe he likes the fact I am not always 100% into it. lol.

Anyhow, until there is more ease and comfort in the relationship, I am not prepared to foresake all others. Although I do really like him and hope that the ease and comfort comes.

11/16/2010 12:40:48 AM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

Thanks Little Sparrow, but it's all my fault - should not have slept with the guy before we were married. Then I guess he might have felt we were in a "relationship" of some kind. Naughty Aries!

Very interested in Wise Old Owl's comments that although Gems are the communication sign but this does not extend to communicating feelings. Does this extend to all Air people or peculiar to Gems?

I love the feeling knowing that my friends can call on me for anything at anytime and I love making them feel special and important and cared about because friends ARE special and important and precious (to me anyway) and I have always thought it was a nice to let them know how special they are, not a bad thing. I am not sure if I should change that.

I guess if a guy is hurt because I care about him he wasn't the great guy I thought he was.(Incidentally it was HE who latched onto me - I was the Ice Queen, had had my heart broken before and was not going THERE again but he wore me down and look where I landed!!!)

I do hope your guy sorts it all out for himself (and for you!)
Personally I feel it shouldn't be a problem to forsake all others if it is love. I have no problem forsaking all others (and it obviously wasn't even love, was it?) This may be an Aries thing tho - the devotion/loyalty thing. I understand (I have seen) some Air signs have a more flexible attitude in this department.
11/16/2010 1:27:58 AM | More
Kleo

29 years old from Planet Earth  

Love child

I have to go with WiseOwl's initial post. You will know if he likes you, it will be hard for him to hide unless he is shy. A stimulating mental connection and deep conversations are key. There will be a softness to him and he may get lazy or off doing his own thing when things settle.
11/16/2010 11:19:45 AM | More
little_sparrow

female from the sparrow tree

Five planets of Libra

Alas, it is not love at least not yet. It is a good thing and I am hoping we can bridge that gap. It could be love but we are too far apart right now. I suspect we like each other and are attracted to each other but are both not especially skilled at emotional intimacy. I also think I am a lot more affectionate by nature. He is more cautious. If love is to happen here, it will be a slow unravel not a quick jerk.
11/16/2010 3:34:38 PM | More
i love ewe

31 years old

sun: aries ascendant: gemini moon:

CURIOSITY! gemini's are the most curious people on the face of the earth and when somebody is new that they are interested in, they want to learn as much about you as possible...everything ranging from what you did this weekend, who you were with, hobbies, favorite candy, literally ANYTHING they can get haha

a gemini that likes you will also find any excuse to talk/text/call/email you. i remember when i met my boyfriend he used to email me every night after class to ask what the homework assignment was because he "forgot" to write it down. on the days we didn't have class he would email me while at work to tell me jokes from the cap of the snapple he had at lunch. i love gemini guys so much, they're always so light hearted and easy going and silly
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