I'm a Gemini man in love with a Pisces woman

10/31/2010 12:50:48 PM | More
Judicious

from New York  

it was love at first sight, like cupid's arrows.

I met her and felt this intense connection and then I looked up Susan Miller's October forecast and many of the days and predictions coincided with this girl. Not only that, I've lost interest in other girls, even turning down guaranteed sex two days ago from a different girl because I wasn't feeling it. Every move I make concerning this girl seems to be validated through little signals and coincidences from life concerning her.

Problem is while we were getting to know each other she neglected to tell me she has a long distance boyfriend she hadn't broken up with yet, so when I found out she said we should move on until she figures this situation out. This was two weeks ago. I tried to give her her space, but I slipped and sent two texts in the two week span. Then two days ago I got her roses and a ticket to a bruno mars concert and left them at her apartment. She texted me the next day saying I wasn't listening to what she asked me and that she didn't find it charming but inconsiderate.

I have no idea what is going on, she just pulled away completely in the blink of an eye. I know she has the situation with her boyfriend, but her body language says she wants me badly, but her actions have me confused, I have no idea if to just move on, or wait it out. I bought her those flowers to cheer her up and she called me inconsiderate for it.

I got angry and texted her to throw them away or give them to someone who will appeciate them, and that's the last I've texted her and she never responded. I don't know where I stand at all,and I'm afraid to try to find out since making contact with her is apparently taboo. Yet she won't cut me loose, its as easy as telling me she is staying with her boyfriend, but she won't do that either. She is keeping me in limbo, yet I'm the inconsiderate one?

What do I do? She triggered something in me that no woman has triggered in a very long time, I know she is special, but how do I balance my desire for her with the space that she requires? As a Gemini patience is not a virtue I have, her not contacting me makes me feel like she isn't interested which in turn messes with my confidence. Its no fun.

Any advice as to how to proceed? Any similar experiences? Any astrological forecasts that might give some insight?

My bday: June 12th, 1988 NYC
Hers: May 11, 1989,WI
10/31/2010 1:57:38 PM | More
Judicious

from New York  

I meant March 11th, my ex ironically enough is May 11th though, ha ha, maybe that is where I got confused.

And I know I have to back away, its just hard to repress these feelings, I wish I had her ability to do it.

and here are the basic charts, if they help any...are we compatible? I'm pretty new at this stuff,it just makes dealing with it easier.

Me:

Sun Gemini 21.35
Moon Taurus 26.39
Mercury Gemini 22.49 R
Venus Gemini 22.37 R
Mars Pisces 13.03
Jupiter Taurus 22.05
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio 10.09
Lilith Virgo 3.13
Asc node Pisces 18.24





Her:

Sun Pisces 20.39
Moon Taurus 9.32
Mercury Pisces 0.46
Venus Pisces 14.25
Mars Taurus 29.56
Jupiter Gemini 0.01
Saturn Capricorn 12.28
Uranus Capricorn 4.58
Neptune Capricorn 12.05
Pluto Scorpio 15.03 R
Lilith Libra 3.30
Asc node Pisces
10/31/2010 4:22:32 PM | More
GeminiMind

male from The South Siiide!!

My Planets & Houses

Watch out for head-up-the-ass syndrome from the fishy. Be wary of the emotional blackmail. And pay especially close attention to your energy levels. They can be extremely draining energetically. They won't admit it, but I've been with a Piscean woman for close to 4 years now. She has air and fire in key placements though, so it works great. But, you in are in for a helluva weird ride my friend. Be careful!

~GM
10/31/2010 6:50:58 PM | More
Judicious

from New York  

Posted by GeminiMind
Watch out for head-up-the-ass syndrome from the fishy. Be wary of the emotional blackmail. And pay especially close attention to your energy levels. They can be extremely draining energetically. They won't admit it, but I've been with a Piscean woman for close to 4 years now. She has air and fire in key placements though, so it works great. But, you in are in for a helluva weird ride my friend. Be careful!

~GM


Could you elaborate a bit? What do the charts say and what sort of things should I be careful for?
11/2/2010 6:42:07 AM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

Pisces can be v moody bad tempered spoilt brat types.
Don't put yourself through it
11/2/2010 7:00:55 AM | More
Judicious

from New York  

My mother is a Pisces and I've dealt with her just fine for 23 years. If anything Pisces should be the one female sign I have the most "experience" with

11/2/2010 7:43:06 AM | More
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

whoops! sorry - meant no disrepect to the Mother!

Was interested in your post re how a Gem guy behaves when he loves someone. I have been on here for ages trying to find out how y'all work. Shoulda come straight to you.

I find it troubling that she "won't cut you loose". That is not fair.
You deserve to be a priority, not just an option.
11/3/2010 12:42:32 AM | More
Judicious

from New York  

Thank you and I agree with you 100%. Now that I've sat back and thought about it I can see her perspective of the situation. Its just difficult for me a person who discusses every thing to be left in the dark. Communication to me is the best part of attraction, and not being communicated with messes with my ego. But I've calmed down, eased off, and haven't texted her yet. I'll give her time, I figure every time I push I just end up delaying the process temporarily or permanently anyways. Should have listened to my dad's advice, look at the situation like chess, you can't make a move until your opponent does.
11/3/2010 12:46:31 AM | More
Judicious

from New York  

Thank you and I agree with you 100%. Now that I've sat back and thought about it I can see her perspective of the situation. Its just difficult for me a person who discusses every thing to be left in the dark. Communication to me is the best part of attraction, and not being communicated with messes with my ego. But I've calmed down, eased off, and haven't texted her yet. I'll give her time, I figure every time I push I just end up delaying the process temporarily or permanently anyways. Should have listened to my dad's advice, look at the situation like chess, you can't make a move until your opponent does.

and something interesting, the Pisces/Gemini combo has dominated my life. There are 5 people in my house hold and two puppies, a boy and a girl. The split is 3 men and 2 women. All 3 men are Gemini including myself, my mother is pisces, the other female is Gemini, my oldest dog Brooklyn (9 months) is Pisces, and our youngest puppy (5 months) is Gemini as well.

interesting split imo
11/5/2010 7:28:08 PM | More
Judicious

from New York  

At the same time, I forgot to mention this before.

Still no word from her, but I feel it in my gut this weekend is it, I feel it in my heart, and pit of my stomach.

But when we first started hanging out she told me she wasn't ready to be involved with anyone at the moment and she would let me know when she was. We didn't talk for a week and then on a Friday night she went to the club she knew I was going to be at to find me, and she completely forgot about her "space" request

the flowers were my version of that, instead not as sneaky
11/5/2010 8:15:31 PM | More
nats

Not to kill your post with negativity BUT I had a BAD experience with a pisces (well they were all men), and I've had like 3 other pisces i've dated and they were all great in the begining, but then the emotional blackmail started. I think once they knew how deeply I felt for them (I dropped the 'I love you' to one of them) they changed and became super manipulative, cry babys, obsessive, MASSIVE attention seekers. It just wasnt fun at all.

What I do love about pisces though is that they can teach you how to really FEEL. A reason why I was sooo attached to my pisces ex is because I just FELT FELT FELT. It was just the way he was, it rubbed off on me I guess.

But yes definately be careful. THEY definately have two sides and believe me, the evil one is VERY evil!

11/5/2010 9:17:04 PM | More
GeminiMind

male from The South Siiide!!

My Planets & Houses

Posted by Judicious
At the same time, I forgot to mention this before.

Still no word from her, but I feel it in my gut this weekend is it, I feel it in my heart, and pit of my stomach.

But when we first started hanging out she told me she wasn't ready to be involved with anyone at the moment and she would let me know when she was. We didn't talk for a week and then on a Friday night she went to the club she knew I was going to be at to find me, and she completely forgot about her "space" request

the flowers were my version of that, instead not as sneaky


Run away! I recognize this emotional game from far away. This is what they do. See, the one thing that treetrunks with a Gemini is when communications are cut off. Me having a Taurus moon and Venus in Taurus, I will hold my position and will be quite prepared to fly and build a new nest.

The fish are mainly conduits for all sorts of energies that are out there. Read my previous post. It's just an emotional roller-coaster ride that doesn't benefit anyone, especially them. Piscean women they say are hard to keep. I disagree, they are almost impossible to get rid of. At least if you're a Gemini. Gemini's and Pisces are like the Muslim's and the Jews. Really, that's the best way to describe it. They are attracted to us like moths to a flame.

But, I digress. Based on the placements in her charts, get the treetrunk out now! It will only get worse. When you see her 20 years from now, she will have had 20 different relationships because the fish wants the imposible, which is to be in a ltr with 'true' love. Trust me, it ain't happening captain.

I just buried my Grandmother who was the Matriarch of my family. She energetically sucked the life out of the whole family. It is my conclusion that since Piscean's are the conduits of the zodiac, that kinda by default makes them the Vampires of the zodiac as well. They are oblivious to truth because it's not them speaking anyway, it's whatever energies that are around them at the time. To the untrained eye, it makes them seem nuts. They are, but, not nuts in the traditional sense.

Trust me, she'll be contacting you. Give her time. Don't show call her, you'll regret it. Yes, I can pontificate my positions on this sign. Had a lot of experience.

Furthermore, her inability to keep up with your mind will eventually wear very thin. You know what happens then......GEMINI RAGE! B
11/5/2010 9:23:58 PM | More
GeminiMind

male from The South Siiide!!

My Planets & Houses

Believe me, it takes years and years for a Pisces to get over a Gemini. Maybe days or weeks for us to get over them. I'm about to send my Piscean gf to New York this summer. But, believe me, it wasn't easy since she had her fangs in my heart. I gotta tough heart.

I do have somewhat of an advantage because of me being a Gemini and am willing to get the information in order to tackle a problem. Which to a Pisces makes me very dangerous.

Again, run!

Much love and respect!
~GM

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