It's hard to tell when Gemini's like you!?

7/1/2010 11:23:53 PM | More
woundedARIESego

female

How do you know when a Gemini man like's you more than a friend? This guy flirts with me constantly but he has a girlfriend so I don't know if he's flirting just because he's flirting and that’s what Gemini’s do or if he still likes me. He practically chased me down when he was single but I never gave into him, and just when I finally want to I find out he has a girlfriend. But what gets me confused is he still flirts with me a lot when we message each other?

7/1/2010 11:26:28 PM | More
woundedARIESego

female

And when we see each other in person he hugs me tight, and put's his arms around my waist. Is he just being his natural flirty self? I didn't know Gemini's were this flirty.
7/2/2010 6:36:57 AM | More
zenalchemy

^ lol.. yea, good theory

Besides you want him and looks like he knows that... so I'm kinda confused now
if he is continuously flirting when you message back, he is getting a response that encourages the flirting to continue?

ps: Geminis I know in a committed relationship do not behave like that.

7/2/2010 11:37:47 AM | More
i love ewe

31 years old

sun: aries ascendant: gemini moon:

^^^i agree with Zen

the gemini guys i know like new people so they tend to give them more attention at first, but since you arent technically new it's probably because you didn't give him attention before and you are now. or maybe this guy is just douchy and likes to flirt with all the girls in which case, be glad you are not his girlfriend.
7/2/2010 11:48:38 AM | More
james tate

47 years old male from Llandrindod wells, Powys  Wales  

Most Gems lov me they leave me little note they are like little kids in gradeschool when they lov you they hit you to show there lov.
7/2/2010 4:52:00 PM | More
woundedARIESego

female

saywha

not nessacarily.

I have to admit I do sometimes want what I can't have BUT... We are friends, and it will stay like that untill he's single,and If i am single, then maybe we can work something out.
I am just confused by his words and behaviour around me.

But I think I'll just take it as he is just a flirty person, nothing else.

7/2/2010 9:13:05 PM | More
zenalchemy

We are friends, and it will stay like that untill he's single,and If i am single, then maybe we can work something out.
I am just confused by his words and behaviour around me.


UNTIL HE IS SINGLE?!!!

OK, seriously, it's not like you have taken it in that he is dating or taking his dating seriously and this may be reflected in your attitude with him subconsciously... dating could lead to forever, so he may never break up with her.
It's looking like he hasn't realised this either.

Also, just think, if he was in a relationship with you, he will be flirting with another lady that way?

You 2 are playing around me thinks...

I'm not trying to judge here, but arent aries notorious for wanting someone affter they become unavailable?
7/3/2010 2:51:20 AM | More
woundedARIESego

female

zenalchemy
First off, I said until he's single because frankly I don't see his relationship with his girlfriend lasting very long. I've seen the way he behaved in past relationships and he did not act this way while in those relationships (especially in settings where his girlfriend was NOT around) It just seems to me like he is not taking his relationship with his girlfriend too seriously.

You said it yourself "ps: Geminis I know in a committed relationship do not behave like that"


Secondly here we go with the whole “Aries wanting what's unavailable bit”

If you micro scoped into my first post the way you just did my last you would of noticed that I said when I finally considered dating him , I found out he had a girlfriend.

Nowhere did I say that I knew he had a girlfriend and decided to try and date him anyway. I never knew because he never told me. I've never seen him with his girlfriend until recently. And when I did realize he had one I took a step back recollected myself and decided to be his friend as I always was.



So hey zenalchemy, stop trying to microscope into everything I’m treetrunking posting.

7/3/2010 11:17:35 AM | More
zenalchemy

Posted by woundedARIESego
zenalchemy
First off, I said until he's single because frankly I don't see his relationship with his girlfriend lasting very long. I've seen the way he behaved in past relationships and he did not act this way while in those relationships (especially in settings where his girlfriend was NOT around) It just seems to me like he is not taking his relationship with his girlfriend too seriously.

You said it yourself "ps: Geminis I know in a committed relationship do not behave like that"


Secondly here we go with the whole “Aries wanting what's unavailable bit”

If you micro scoped into my first post the way you just did my last you would of noticed that I said when I finally considered dating him , I found out he had a girlfriend.

Nowhere did I say that I knew he had a girlfriend and decided to try and date him anyway. I never knew because he never told me. I've never seen him with his girlfriend until recently. And when I did realize he had one I took a step back recollected myself and decided to be his friend as I always was.



So hey zenalchemy, stop trying to microscope into everything I’m treetrunking posting.



lol!
good luck
7/3/2010 10:54:39 PM | More
woundedARIESego

female

Thanks for your advice lauren89 !
7/7/2010 6:44:58 PM | More
woundedARIESego

female

Posted by MoonBunny
If a Gem likes you, they'd have no issues going after you first and asking questions later. They will show affections in public (unless it's bi/gay relationship where you do have sth to hide). Gems are serial daters in the Zodiac. They'll move from lover to lover and they can maintain multiple relationships at the same time. But if they're REALLY serious they will decide to be with you and be obligated morally to break up with their current lover/s.


Thanks for your insight! I think I just learned something new!


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