my imput is, to each their own. honestly, my meaming of sex hasn't changed over the years... i would say that the meaning for me is still the same, but with maturity the meaning expands. i.e. it's still sacred, but i also know that it can be many different things. such as, an exchange of love between 2 ppl, a way to relieve stress, a way to relieve built up hormones, reproducing and just for fun. i don't need multiple partners for this, as i can get all of that from one partner. 🙂
i think it's just one of those things where what once was a taboo loses its novalty with time. if you want to keep it sacred, then you should. i won't let others influence what i think about sex. especially, if i'm not sharing the sheets with them. :}
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and what it used to mean to you when it was sacred??