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Am I a Crutch? Or is this Leo into Me?

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Ariescorpisces
3/27/2012 7:57:03 PM | IP

So a Leo I went to highschool with has recently got in touch with me. We've shared mutual friends, but never actually hung out together. He started hitting me up on chat and then eventually started emailing/ texting me stuff on the daily. After that it went to calling me. We talk about 2-3 hours every night and communicate everyday. He is always the one to initiate and call me. He's in another state and currently went there to get clean off of a bout of doing substances and ending his engagement with his fiance. Before he came down i gues he was also living with a rebound for 5 months .. anyway is this Leo into me or is he just using me to pass the time? He mentions moving back up to my area where I live.. but also says it wouldn't be anytime soon because he wants to save money where he's at. He'll subtley make passes implying he thinks I'm good looking, but that's as far as it goes. He just shows enthusiam that he wants to hang out. My question is: Is he using me as a distraction/crutch? Or is he hunting me?
sheathedclaws
3/27/2012 8:19:30 PM | IP
sheathedclaws



Click me (pretty please with madeleines

You sound too good for him, and he's the crutch.
Artemis
3/27/2012 8:54:55 PM | IP
Artemis

You're basically his new potential booty call that he's trying to line up. Drop him IMMEDIATELY.
Ariescorpisces
3/27/2012 9:32:03 PM | IP

Why would you want a booty call in Pennsylvania when you're in Flordia? You'd have to spend some serious dough to come out and visit. Also, why spend 2-4 hours talking on the phone every night?
luckystar007
3/27/2012 10:28:56 PM | IP
luckystar007

female

Sun-Sag / Moon-Sag / Jupiter-Sag ... + m

I think he treats you just like a "normal" friend...nothing special.

If he really loves you, he would treat you like a "queen"...make you feel special...then you need NOT ask such a question.
sheathedclaws
3/27/2012 10:46:01 PM | IP
sheathedclaws



Click me (pretty please with madeleines

Posted by Ariescorpisces
Why would you want a booty call in Pennsylvania when you're in Flordia? You'd have to spend some serious dough to come out and visit. Also, why spend 2-4 hours talking on the phone every night?


He just wants attention.

Why would you even waste your time on him?
Ariescorpisces
3/28/2012 12:45:35 AM | IP

you're right. treetrunk it.
celticlioness
3/28/2012 5:30:07 AM | IP
celticlioness

female from Wicklow, Ireland  

Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo

Why do you need to ask these questions, can you not just enjoy your newly found friendship with him? leo's love to have friends and to be in touch and communicate with them, I don't see anything sinister in this. Just enjoy it for what it is.
celticlioness
3/28/2012 5:31:22 AM | IP
celticlioness

female from Wicklow, Ireland  

Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo

Oh and compliments just roll off our tongues - but they are sincere, so if he's telling you he thinks you're good looking then he thinks you are, so therefore you should be told
sheathedclaws
3/28/2012 8:42:08 AM | IP
sheathedclaws



Click me (pretty please with madeleines

Posted by Ariescorpisces
you're right. treetrunk it.


omfg this makes me love you.

you go girl!!!! you deserve to be wooed by a dreadfully handsome gentleman who you can hold.
Ariescorpisces
4/22/2012 11:20:29 AM | IP

so it's been 7 weeks and this Leo guy continues to text me all day long, and call me every other night for 3-4 hours. He has to dig me right? I mean he's doing all this for attention? He's working this hard for a booty call over 1,000 miles away? this just doesn't make sense. He's scheduled a trip up here to see his friends and me at the end of May. I think I actually really connect with this Leo, I just don't want to risk being played. So perhaps I won't give up the goods and just play it by ear. SO you leos really think this leo, is doing all this work, for a bootycall.. ?? or mere attention.. ?? why not talk to someone down there? why invest so much of your personal time?
lotuslily
4/22/2012 12:10:02 PM | IP
lotuslily

34 years old

Aries sun, Leo moon, Scorpio rising.

Maybe you're the only one whose not tired of listening to him talk about himself for four hours. Haha
No seriously... How much of the convo is about you and how soon after you try and talk about yourself does it turn back to 'all about him'?
sheathedclaws
4/22/2012 3:03:53 PM | IP
sheathedclaws



Click me (pretty please with madeleines

Lotuslily raises a good question for you to ask yourself. Keep tabs of that next time you two talk.
Ariescorpisces
4/22/2012 5:34:28 PM | IP

He actually talks about ME a lot. we talk about both of us- in fact sometimes I have to stop cause I find myself talking too much. Do you think he really just wants someone to ramble on to for hours every night??? this puzzles me. I know I wouldn't call a guy THAT treetrunking much just to talk about myself? WHAT A WASTE OF TIME?
tiki33
4/22/2012 9:39:15 PM | IP
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

He has a history of substance abuse, lost his fiance and I don't want to hear he dumped her, BULLbutter, she dumped his ass for being a drug addict and lord only knows what else he did to get dumped, now he's with a rebound for 5 months and you really have to ask us what's his motivation?

He's unstable and talking 3/4 hours is equivalent to being brainwashed before he unleashes all of his demons out onto you..Please leave this joker alone. He's looking for his NEXT FRESH TARGET, someone who doesn't KNOW all of his treetrunked up ways and the best way to get you hooked is to INSERT HIMSELF INTO YOUR DAILY ROUTINE, that is what the talking 3/4 hours a night is, it's the GROOMING PROCESS TO GET YOU HOOKED LIKE A CRACKHEAD and then he'll be able to unleash all the crazy and you'll most likely stay way longer than you should and he KNOW THIS already.

 

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