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12/18/2010 12:18:56 PM | More
theleoman

Posted by SweetLibra

he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.

Leos take a while to move on , we leave a window open and we will wait to see if you come back and we hope you do of course it depends on what you did but leos are extremely forgiving which give you a good chance just make sure you explain to him that you know you were wrong

Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...


Forgot to tell you how the breakup happened -

I knew he was dealing with some personal stuff and that had him preoccupied. He had been running kind of hot and cold periodically. Maybe because of the personal stuff maybe not. I made myself available to him whenever he needed me, but I was starting to feel that he wasn't doing the same for me by disappearing when he wanted to. Anyway, he messages me one night wanting to see me and I said no (because I wanted to let him know that I needed more of him in order to stay in the relationship). He immediately called me to find out what was wrong and I was so frustrated with him, I told him I no longer wanted to be in a one sided relationship and that if he didn't want me than what was the point. I wasn't looking for a fling with him. I thought he was going to be the main character in my love story and that I finally found my happy ending. I didn't say it exactly like that, but I made sure he understood that I was too old for games if that was what he was doing. He still would not say the words I wanted to hear, but he did try to convince me that I was overreacting and to come over to his place to talk. Well it was around 2 in the a.m., so I know he didn't want to "talk". I declined and said that I was done. We hung up and haven't spoken since. That was our break up. He hasn't called me. Does he even care, did he even care? Or is it up to me to reach out to him since technically I broke up with him? Help Mr. Leoman! This guy is under my skin!

of course its up to you, he reached out several times and now dont you wish you had sex with him that night , we all allow our emotions to block what we really want at the time and with a clear head im sure you wish you had different choice but its okay , you need to
12/18/2010 12:19:35 PM | More
theleoman

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12/18/2010 12:19:51 PM | More
theleoman

Posted by SweetLibra

he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.


I knew he was dealing with some personal stuff and that had him preoccupied. He had been running kind of hot and cold periodically. Maybe because of the personal stuff maybe not. I made myself available to him whenever he needed me, but I was starting to feel that he wasn't doing the same for me by disappearing when he wanted to. Anyway, he messages me one !

of course its up to you, he reached out several times and now dont you wish you had sex with him that night , we all allow our emotions to block what we really want at the time and with a clear head im sure you wish you had different choice but its okay , you need to let him know you dont know what you were thinking that night and you made a big mistake , tell him you need his love his hugs and his warmth it will never happen again ( leos are really forgiving they can forgive you for the worst things on earth) we know people make mistakes just own up to it

don't bother trying to explain or point out his faults right now,you do that and in his mind he will be like well why are you trying to get back to me if you dont like me you want him to change when he does a call tell him you love hearing that phone ring and its him on the other end, just be sure to compliment when he does something you like, he will do it more and more

12/18/2010 1:38:06 PM | More
rocktressa

female from NU ORLEANZ, Louisiana dirrty south  AMORICA.............. the beautifully broken  

sensual beast,rocker girl, temptress.,ma

Posted by theleoman
Posted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou??? once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...

YOUR COMPLIMENTS ROCK MY BOAT LOL
OH LEOMAN ........I must say that I relish in your most adequit answers in your replys to these finnicky KATS ... anways to follow up on my leo love soap opera...after he texted me the other night (after not hearing from him for two weeks)...he texted saying he saw me bartending that night through the window after driving down my street ..he said he was gonna stop by but traffic was really bad down in the quarter and no place to park.... so then he texted again asking what I was doing that night I texted back saying I was at home chilin and I had made 130 in tips (I know he likes to hear of me making good money so thats y I threw that in there).After hearing your advise on not telling him boring stuff I wish Id of thought to tell him I was out doing something fun that night when he asked (But leoman I am nothing but real and can only be honest so I told him I was home chilin).So probably (he thought that was boring) I waited about two more hours to reply to invite him to go have a drink...... SIGH!!!!!! he text back an hour later saying "yeah maybe"....after that no further reply .... so I reffered back to your spot on advice and texted him saying that Id love to see him and that we could just meet up and catch up on how we been doing....... FRUSTRATION MOUNTING DEEPLY!!!! NO REPLY .... I am getting pissed which is a hard feat coming from me because unlike leos I am very slow to anger, but he is testing me to my limits now . I am a bartender down in the fench quarter and I get hit on all the time but, I find myself constantly declining guys... I swear I cant seem to shake this leo heartbreaker from under my skin ... why did he text me out of the blue to just shake me up again to ignore me??? I just dont get it and wish I knew what to do to snap his neck back in my direction and to have him all up in my koolaid again.Im pretty sure that if we got into bed together again I would be full of such frustration and unadultrated passion for him that he would think he la
12/18/2010 1:54:19 PM | More
rocktressa

female from NU ORLEANZ, Louisiana dirrty south  AMORICA.............. the beautifully broken  

sensual beast,rocker girl, temptress.,ma

blaaaa got cut of ..as I was saying that if and when we landed in bed together again ,I am full of such frustration and unadulterated passion for him that he would think he landed in the depths of a volcano from the fire and earth hot lava eruption we create... As a taurus when I so desire something I will simply wait and wait and wait with love and persistence till he is mine ... in the meantime I think ill go visit Marie Laveaus tombstone (using my third eye) with an offering and seek guidance on this most pressing issue. If that didnt throw you off then of course I am still waiting patiently (NOT) for your most diplomatic answers to my most problematic questions . Thanks be to you LEOMAN for you are the star of this show
12/18/2010 2:20:05 PM | More
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12/18/2010 2:39:14 PM | More
rocktressa

female from NU ORLEANZ, Louisiana dirrty south  AMORICA.............. the beautifully broken  

sensual beast,rocker girl, temptress.,ma

Posted by SweetLibra
Posted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou??? once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...




LOL. That beaming sunshine and their statuesque presence is exactly why I can't shake this Leo from my mind or my heart. Loved that comment RT
yes yes I feel your pain girl a good pain though I suspect lol
12/18/2010 2:42:48 PM | More
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12/18/2010 6:05:49 PM | More
maryjane

34 years old female

...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?

Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?

God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.

Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).

So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.
12/18/2010 6:17:01 PM | More
theleoman

Posted by maryjane
...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?

Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?

God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.

Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).

So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.


well before i continue.. you said you "I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;"

3 times a week thats a good thing and thats a lot , with weekends thats 4 days 5 max you have a good opportunity to build on that
if this is is what you meant, no offensive but i think you have to start looking at yourself at this point your complaining and at average see him 3 times a week ? hes giving you the time of day here
12/18/2010 6:27:54 PM | More
maryjane

34 years old female

Posted by theleoman
Posted by maryjane
...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?

Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?

God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.

Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).

So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.


well before i continue.. you said you "I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;"

3 times a week thats a good thing and thats a lot , with weekends thats 4 days 5 max you have a good opportunity to build on that
if this is is what you meant, no offensive but i think you have to start looking at yourself at this point your complaining and at average see him 3 times a week ? hes giving you the time of day here


Hi Leoman,
Yes, that's correct. 3 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. It depends, but usually 3 days don't pass without us seeing each other. But bear in mind that:
- he doesn't consider me his girlfriend;
- the 'being together' means me going to his place and sleep there. It doesn't mean going out and do things the 2 of us. That he leaves to his friends.

It just feels all he wants is some occasionally company and sex.
Correct me if I am wrong, but if I don't do anything, why w

12/18/2010 6:30:49 PM | More
maryjane

34 years old female

Correct me if I am wrong, but if I don't do anything, why would he ever change, if this way he can be with me when he wants, have great sex and then feel completely free to ignore me when he feels like?
It's not even the ignoring, it is more treating me in a cold way, not being romantic and caring..
12/19/2010 9:39:09 AM | More
ezahria

female

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hey, theleoman! thanks for sharing your thoughts about ur sun sign. now, i've got an idea about you, guys. next time, that i will encounter another leo, then i know what i will or must do. have a nice day. *hugs*
12/19/2010 1:49:51 PM | More
Luckyy_Libra

Leo Man ...


I hope you didn't forget about me and my advice. I would love to know what you think.
12/20/2010 2:33:25 AM | More
Mistery

female

Girls, you are half of the equation in the 'problem'. You forgive a cheater, you ignore that he's not that into you by not responding/distancing himself & yet this isn't enough for you to see where you stand? Do you think there is a magical solution here? It's not Leos, he's a guy and he'll take what you offer.
Look after your own heart and do what is right for you. Don't put it all on him. He's not responsible for your happiness.

Whatever happened to dating? Taking things slowly, not jumping into bed so soon? I think this is the problem. You had sex so now you expect girlfriend status. He doesn't owe you anything. You are adults so take responsibility for your actions & your happiness. If he's not emotionally invested in you & never promised anything then how can you believe you can get some advice that will turn him into your Prince Charming?

Leos in love are not like this and this is not typical of a normal, healthy relationship between two well-adjusted adults.
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