Leo woman, please give some advice here...
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| Ya know, my experience indicates that male Leos are much shyer and quieter than female Leos. We're much more blabber mouths than they are :-) Then again...maybe it IS the end of July Leo thing going on. I'm not an astrology expert like some of the folks around here. Anyway, I like the idea of agreeing to disagree :-) No problem regarding our project Nala. I know that you've got stuff going on. |
Posted by Nala13 I'm a July Leo, i feel like a failed leo most of the time |
| ^^^^^^ I am a August Leo-( 10th Aug ) and I am also very shy and to some extent inhibited and despite being hot-tempered (as Celtic said rightly) I do not like to roar or whatever until pushed beyond tolerance. I think it's a horribly distorted stereotypical image of a Leo woman that we are some sort of man-eating/using egomaniacs who are ready to put out at the single drop of attention being paid to us. |
37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me
Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c
| Thanks guys. I was a fat kid...who am I kidding I was a fat teenager and a fat adult. I still am a little on the thick side. It's ok I make it work ! Anyway, as a fat kid I learned that if you are funny no one cares about anything else. I was the class clown. Not easy to do in Catholic School. Its strange because I can also be the most serious person in times of crisis. Yup you most definately want me in your foxhole. We are comin home If I ever offend any one of you let me know. I will most certainly apologize. Step 10 |
Posted by Nala13 Naa, Nala you did not offend us, you are part of this forum as much as we are, with all the right to express your individual opinion and to assert your own individuality. We all do understand and empathize with each other---at least I would like to think so. I was just trying to say that some images/ preconceived notions do not apply equally.And I did admit that I went on an obnoxiously extravagant shopping spree on my wedding; now I really feel bad for wasting my beloved father's money, but it did not stop me at that time when my heart was fixed on all that glitz and useless stuff. And yes I do want to be a seductively assertive Leo woman, but I am not simply born that way. Had always been painfully self-conscious and felt gawky among other stylish girls of my nunnery. ha |
| Just curious...what is everyones b day? Im August 15th,,... and Im not a timid lioness...I've stood up to my 2 nasty ass bosses twice this week....assertiveness is my strong point. |
Posted by BigGirlPanties August 10, 1990 I am also not timid, I just prefer to keep myself to myself.I just know where I lack Where are your panties, girl---i like them |
37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me
Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c
| August 13th. I am not timid. I am not assertive either. I am somewhere in between. I try not to get angry because when I do...Hell hath no fury. It will take me days to calm down and it is an all out war. I mean you might as well be dead. My anger is off the charts. Usually people don't take me there though. I have mastered the art of walking away. With a "STUPID COOKIEMONSTER" uttered under my breath. |
| Nala, in the first place, i am a person who is very patient, and I analyze first of what i see and then i write. The opinion you have about me and this girl is based on what you read, without any background. Never judge before you know more. I am not at all ashamed to stand up and fight when i need to, believe me. I am... Not only August Leo's will do so. I am for truth, when something really pisses me off, after a LOT of patience, people will and can tell, and i will tell the truth, no matter what. Now, for your info, why expensive gifts or being aggressive doesn't work with this girl... And as i knew it. I need to be careful with this girl. I mean in a good way careful. She had a bad experience last year and was almost married to a wrong guy. She is kinda damaged because of that wrong guy and not treated well, and she had a really good year of healing up, but still. She has her guard that comes up, and that is what it is, i have to be assertive, not aggressive, and this is just why she is acting this way when men are coming to close. Now i know why she is acting that way. The reason, a friend of me told me, and he is dating her roommate, haha, so now i know, he told me that when she is giving in too much, automatically her guard will come up the next day. Well, that is exactly what has happened and spot on i was right. I told him the stories and he said it confirms totally how he knows her. So now i know the story behind it and why she is acting the way she does. He told me, the only thing is, be there, be available, and press on when it is possible, be consistent, when she gives her borders, don't go any further. Just every single day, never cross her borders, keep slowly gaining her trust. So, buying (expensive) gifts are NOT going to help me at this point. Further on, if i knew her better, i could, but i would now only on special occasions, and then i would go more crazy and buy something extra special. Not just randomly. It will close her off and it will scare her off. She needs consistency and she needs slow steps approaching her, when she lets me. Hope that gives you a good look on the reality of the situations. Possibly what you say would normally works that way, i don't know, but not with this girl, sorry..! I know the story behind it and now i understand why she is acting this way! |
37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me
Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c
| okay Leolover, Sounds like you have it all figured out or NOT. Anyway, good luck. I'm not going to debate you about your life...it is afterall....YOUR LIFE. July 26..huh...yea I figured. No disrespect of course. And for the record, I did not say an expensive gift. I said a gift. |
Posted by Nala13 Nala, don't just shove all Leos into a hole! Quiet doesn't mean shy - but rather.. being a strategist. I'm quite reserved myself. |
| August 16. A bit rough around the edges. A little *too* honest. But dreadfully magnificent, witty, breathtaking, etc etc... -goes off into a giggle fit- |
37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me
Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c
| Hey Twin, I was not implying that all Leos are the same. In fact, I think quite the opposite. I was also not implying that timid is the same as shy or quiet. I am quiet. I am not timid however. There is a difference, in my opinion. This is what bothers me. The key word here is me. If I share personal details of my life with someone close to me ,lets says a roommate and then the roommate tells her boyfriend. Then the boyfriend tells this guy who has a crush on me and he is using this information as a guide on how to tailor his approach to me, I would be furious. First, You know details about me that you should not know. Second, you were discussing me behind my back. Third, you are treating me like some fragile "thing" I could continue but I think you get where I am going with this. I prefer people who are very open with their intentions. I like straight up no chaser kind of people. The what you see is what you get kind. So, while his Leo is certainly not me...I would prefer a simple rose with a hey "would u like to go out on Friday". Stop all this psycho analyzing me and my previous relationships and STOP discussing me with other people. This may have little to do with my Sun sign or my Moon sign. It just might be a ME sign thing. |
Posted by Nala13 OH! I appreciate you clarifying that - and so concisely too I would be similar in that regard - especially because my complete past has been shared with absolutely nobody. I will probably always remain that way. I dread the day that I am held by my lover and in the back of his mind he'd know that I was contaminated of soul and but a fractured mirror image of myself. No! I refuse to let that happen. I'll hold a mix of traits a la Mae West, Audrey Hepburn, Mary Tyler Moore, and with some Steven Tyler attitude thrown in there! Posted by Nala13 Are you a 3rd Decan Leo as well? I find 3rd Decans to usually maintain and find an ideal with the 'open and honest no frills attached' approach from others. |


