Why do Leo women like you one day and ignore next?

leoloverleo
I do not understand this. First she acts very interested and smiles at me which is far from fake, looks at me every time, shows interest, gives her cell number finally etc. and the next day gives me a cold shoulder by completely ignoring me when seeing her again. However she did not talk to any guy barely tho that day. But nothing on my side happened as far as i know. Even saying hi took her 3 times to pass me. Is she just scared that she gave away too much hints? I am s Leo and she is a Leo. My guts says she is interested and i dated a Leo girl before and it happened before. Is this Leo woman behavior maybe? :-) or just shy and insecurity? Or is it they are so afraid to lose control and act the opposite to cover up?

This is how she gave me her number: we sit next to each other, she had an excuse she needed to sing and did not trying to talk that much but she said everything very softly to everyone and he sat very close to me and hands me her phone to put my cell in there. I received a text right after that from her asking something that she could have known because she is smart enough and she could have whispered. Now i got her number. And this happened friday, and she did not text anyone but just talked softly to everyone...

The looking at me was the past few months many times. I did not do anything with it than since two weeks ago one of these days she was sitting next to me all the time, and last week she was sitting next to me all the time, and not just sitting but it was no accident as there were many places to sit. And looking at me every time. Every time we pass by she smiles and greets me enthusiastic. No deep real conversation yet tho.

Last week she looked at me and gave me such a smile that i was like, holy cow.. And i just felt and knew there was a chemistry going on. It is a gut feeling. And most of the times i am spot on with my gut feeling.

Anyways, yesterday, monday, i had not texted her at all since that friday, she texted me yesterday if I wanted to come out to the surprise party she organizing for her roommate. I know her, but i would not have been invited if she did not texted me probably..! However, the only thing we said was hi and bye... Nothing else... So, what is this... How do i get her attention? What should i do?!
R1g0rM0rT1s
you're a leo with a strong gut instinct about this girl and you aren't actively chasing her??? she's giving you all the signs for goodness sakes but she's a lady! it's not our job to chase YOU....it's our job to give you signals that you can chase US.

all the leo guys i know believe 100% in their gut instinct...one i was seeing said...you can tell me to treetrunk off if you like but i know i'm right about you cos i'm always right...and my goodness, he WAS right, LOL!!

so stop beating about the bush...you're king of the jungle!!
celticlioness
Hunt her Mufasa - we'll show you and then wait regally for you to show you're worthy - you won't be if you delay.
SyntheticAnesthetic
What if the male Leo tells the female (not a Leo) to take control, to go for it, go for what she wants...what's that mean?
ShahBano
Posted by SyntheticAnesthetic
What if the male Leo tells the female (not a Leo) to take control, to go for it, go for what she wants...what's that mean?


Don't fall for it ; he is going against his natural instincts and he is likely to get lazy ans start taking you for-granted--after a while.
leoloverleo
Thanks! But a few complications R1g0rM0rT1s:

1. Age difference, she is 10 years younger however i look 4-5 years younger than i am tho.
2. She is a student, i work for an affiliated company of the school, not faculty or official staff tho.
3. But I also work with her.

So that are complications i need to keep in mind, too. I have to be careful. Anyways, i do what i can, but it doesn't help for a leo like me when she is ignoring me, we leo people hate that, and she is a leo herself even, lol!
ShahBano
I can't say anything about other aspects of the complications, but age won't be a problem. I know this through my own experience.

It's not ignoring you, it's sort of inviting you in her leonine way--come get me, if you can--sort of thing.
sheathedclaws
Sweeping generations are extremely unattractive. Statements like the title of this thread are enough to turn most Lionesses off.
leoloverleo
What do you mean sheathedclaws???

And, today i was smart enough i think... I texted her about a book she was reading 2 months ago and underlining stuff. So, what she said 2 months ago is like that I should read it, it is really good book. So, now two months later i now texted her about a book she was reading and i mentioned the situation but not the title nor the book itself, and I asked what the title was and if i could borrow it. We had a cookout tonight, so she knew we would see each other tonight. So she did not answer my text. When i arrived she smiled, we danced around each other the whole time tho by not talking to each other. Finally we made some comments back and forth, one time ignoring, one time smiling, and a few small talk conversations with a little smile. So, then all of a sudden she took her phone out of her pocket and checked it, and she said to me out of the blue: "Yes you sure can borrow the book!" like if she was reading the text now, while i already had seen her checking her phone several times lol. That was the ice breaker, asked her about finals, and then we were absorbed in another conversation. But now and then we had a small talk. But I felt highly "uncomfortable" as i do not have the control on the situation, as this makes me insecure and maybe her, too? I don't know. She thanked me for coming tonight and all that, some small talk and that was it. Not so much.. However, once we have eye contact sometimes there is a smile and one time, while we already had greet each other in beginning she greeted me again halfway the cookout with a smile and waiving at me little bit, and quickly looked away and got into conversation etc. Oh and that was the same conversation we were in when she checked her phone, that was after that.

She acts confident with others but with me there is definitely tension there but i don't know she is not the type to fake smile at all so i def know it is meant. I think she definitely knows... I can't hide it with my silly behavior and being nervous... I just run out of words while i am normally so confident...
sheathedclaws
'Why do Leo women like you one day and ignore next?' That is what I'm referring to.

Some Leos like to make their prey squirm a bit before going in for the kill. Some will just bat the prey around and lose interest if it's been doing the same thing without any change. Personally, I've just always enjoyed the knowledge I'm being watched by something that is anticipating the chase to occur at any given moment.

What are your placements? If you two are both Leos, you sound to be very different breeds of Lion. Not a bad thing - don't assume that if you are to. Just a curious observation.

If you know her chart as well, that would be good to take note of. I have a feeling she holds a few Air placements.
leoloverleo
I inboxed you the birthdays sheathedclaws

I have no clue how that works haha!
leoloverleo
I inboxed you the birthdays sheathedclaws

I have no clue how that works haha!
leoloverleo
Well... This is the same for me and for her, i looked up birth charts, this is just a small part but explains why I see myself in this pattern... We do exactly the same thing...:

If Venus is part of your natal chart's planetary dominants, in astrology, you are said to be a Venusian: you are a sensual and emotional person particularly receptive to the natural likes and dislikes aroused by your contact with people. You are prone to frequent instinctive aversions and true passions which are exclusively driven by the feeling of love. The heart has its reasons which Reason knows nothing of... Your balance is based on the richness of your affective life. Without love, the Venusian is resourceless, lost, and deprived of any reason for living. You have an obvious and strong will to charm and to arouse the attachments without which you cannot properly function. Every area of your life is thus marked by your affectivity. The danger is that you may "be taken in" by charm. In such cases, you would prefer to keep your emotions under better control. Thus, hyper-sensitivity has its own inconveniences. Nevertheless, better than anyone else, you know how to play with feelings and attractions. Although you are sometimes caught in the traps of an over sensitive emotionalism, feelings remain your best assets in many circumstances. There is another aspect to the Venusian dominant. According to the Tradition, this planet rules the Arts, and you are endowed with some degree of artistic dispositions, ranging from good to excellent.

I did read my entire birth chart and my gosh how accurate was that, it freaked me out!!

And about the ability to just sense, intuitiveness, haha it said i am very very well in this, so yes, my gut feeling is 100% right most of the times :-)
sheathedclaws
I'll look up both of your charts and message you them back with some websites that are good calculation/chart reference and breakdown. I'll leave it up to you to post any pieces of the charts at your own discretion I'll respond to it inna bit.
leoloverleo
Wow... This is her...: Mercury describes your relations, your communication skills and the way you relate to the external world. However, other astrological elements also influence these areas. The sign Mercury occupies is significant only if Mercury is part of your planetary dominantes. In your chart, Mercury is in Virgo. Communication is discreet and balanced. It is important that you properly understand the limits of your knowledge and your contacts. Assimilating information is fine. But for you, organizing them is better. You are a perfectionist regarding the choice and the quality of your relationships: limits must be borne in mind. You are credited with an analytical and often critical mind. Because every small detail may be meaningful, as you face new situations, you are anxious to keep them under control and you analyze persons and events with a magnifying glass. Your observation abilities allow you to understand the ins and outs of any given problem. The only danger is that you may clutter you life with meaningless trivial details.
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