Spineless libra breakup

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4/19/2011 1:04:58 PM | IP
madaboutlove

I know we were only dating for a few months but we spent a lot of time together. And he texts the breakup and says we can be friends. Wow. Then 5 min later changed his facebook status to in a relationship. With his old friends ex and we ran into her a week ago and he led me on until they were a sure thing. And couldn't even tell me in person. And friends?! Really?! It really hurt and wasn't "fair" at all
4/19/2011 1:25:37 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Haha no thanks you guys have the emotional depth of a puddle
4/19/2011 1:44:37 PM | IP
LibraSid

32 years old male from Upstate, South Carolina  

Some puddles are deeper than you think.

4/19/2011 1:58:00 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Haha I like it
4/19/2011 2:00:24 PM | IP
little_sparrow

female from the sparrow tree

Five planets of Libra

You just weren't the one. Was there talk of you guys settling down? Were you guys in a committed relationship?

The sad part is you weren't the one for him. The great part is you weren't the one for him. This means there is someone (probably less of a douchebag) who is perfect for you. You are now free to go find them.

I suspect in a few months, you won't even remember this guy.
4/19/2011 2:25:35 PM | IP
Nefer

41 years old female from Michigan  

Totally freakin' awesome, LOVE being me!

Posted by madaboutlove
Haha no thanks you guys have the emotional depth of a puddle


LOL My Libra says this. He calls himself Puddle, and me Ocean. He says, "Hey Ocean.. it's me, Puddle. Don't think so deep!"

Just a little reminder for my Pisces ass to lighten up a little and not drive myself crazy with hidden meaning or nuance, to just take something at face value. And relax LOL Cuz even though HIS brain goes 300 mph and he looks at angles and scenarios incessantly.. his is on a more logical, detached plane.. whereas mine is on a more emotional and feeling plane. If that makes sense lol
4/19/2011 2:26:59 PM | IP
Nefer

41 years old female from Michigan  

Totally freakin' awesome, LOVE being me!

Posted by little_sparrow
You just weren't the one. Was there talk of you guys settling down? Were you guys in a committed relationship?

The sad part is you weren't the one for him. The great part is you weren't the one for him. This means there is someone (probably less of a douchebag) who is perfect for you. You are now free to go find them.

I suspect in a few months, you won't even remember this guy.


I like this a lot.

I've missed you, sparrow!! Glad you're back!
4/19/2011 2:35:34 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Very true sparrow. I've felt true love before and that wasn't it.

Suckin whaaa? Lol
4/19/2011 2:40:04 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Yea I told him I wasn't cool as friends
4/19/2011 2:47:52 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Experienced and on to the next victim
4/19/2011 3:30:35 PM | IP
roamingfree

40 years old female

Sun Gemini As

eeek....what a donkey that guy is. Good riddance for your sake. Really. good you found out now, than later.
4/19/2011 3:36:25 PM | IP
Freetobe007

Wow! Regardless of him being a Libra and you being a Cancer, that's so messed up! So he was talking to this other girl while he was dating you I'm guessing? Because who decides they're a sure thing with someone after only a week and two days of talking to them. Not only that but it's his friend's ex!? This guy is an marker for sure! Don't feel bad. You're not missing out on anything
4/19/2011 5:10:34 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Yea really really lame ass
4/19/2011 5:31:23 PM | IP
madaboutlove

Awww thanks aquagirl
4/19/2011 5:34:26 PM | IP
size zero superhero

female

Sun-Libra/Moon-Sagittarius/Ascendant-Vir

Posted by madaboutlove
I know we were only dating for a few months but we spent a lot of time together. And he texts the breakup and says we can be friends. Wow. Then 5 min later changed his facebook status to in a relationship. With his old friends ex and we ran into her a week ago and he led me on until they were a sure thing. And couldn't even tell me in person. And friends?! Really?! It really hurt and wasn't "fair" at all


In any case, dude wasn't exactly a catch. The betrayal of a girlfriend should be harder to live with than simply calling it off at an earlier point...particularly, whenever the realization he wasn't satisfied in the relationship first set in. Instead he leaves disappointing aftermath for you to discover(surprise! new relationship within 5 minutes of the last one!).

Needless to say if you stayed together longer than a few months and all this went down, you would be far worse off and feel more conflicted than you do now. Blessing in disguise.

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