When a Libra wants you back

Kiara478
Ok. Here's a question for you guys. How do Libra men act or what do they do when they realize they want you back. Say, this Libra man realizes that he made a mistake (by being tooooo indecisive, not "snagging" her when he had the chance) and misses the woman terribly. What do you think he is going to do to get her back? Just curious. I can't wait to hear your comments !
LibraSid
I'd think it depends on the terms of the breakup. Who left who? Angry breakup or sad?
Kiara478
Right now? no one, just hypathetical (sp?)
LibraSid
So many possibilities...

A lot of Libras are insecure or shy when it comes to pursuing women. We are natural charmers but are so afraid of rejection that all we do is charm, it's kind of pathetic really. If you are dealing with a Libra man who is like this, he would probably just beat himself up over it.

Libras are also known to shut people out or "go cold". If it was a nasty break up and he is pushed to far... there is no going back. We turn indifferent to the other person. Generally speaking it takes ALOT to get to that point but if it happens, forget about it.



Oh and if his initial problem was being too indecisive he'll probably never decide if he should even try to pursue her again anyway. That is not a trait we give up easily.
UrsaMediocre
I don't know about other Libras, but whenever I felt things were unfinished and I wanted someone back, I always tried to reinvent myself. I feel that we always have room for self-improvement and if I'm not switching up things to be better and more refined, then I'm changing in order to break from the norm and be a little more exciting. I'd focus on what I thought went wrong & avoid repeating that mistake (unless of course, if I felt it wasn't a mistake & just a trait that clashed w/ her personality). I'd also make sure that I looked different, if not better, than the last time I saw her + as over-analytical as it may be, I'd wear colors that their sign is subconsciously attracted to. Basically, when I want someone back, I peachicken like crazy physically and humble myself mentally.
Kiara478
size zero superhero: I completely understand about the "forgive to a degree, but NEVER forget" part. I'm a scorpio sun and I have a terrible time trying to forgive. But Libras seem so congenial and courteous, I think it would be really difficult to not remain friendly with a libra man.

They are very charming; one of my good friends from work was dating (at least I think they were in the dating phase)a very handsome libra guy and he had one of those infamous bouts of libra indecisiveness, well she just shut him out completely. She had his number blocked,no texts, and she refused to see him (BTW, she is a scorp too)anyway he tried to get her back and stopped by her home, sweet-talked his way in the house and made dinner for her. She said he felt bad and wanted her back. Although she was flattered by the small token of affection, she still has not taken him back yet.





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