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Mich135uk
8/17/2009 5:42:14 PM | IP

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I don't need any advice but just wanted to vent.

After my trouble with an Aquarius, I decided I didn't want anything serious. So have been for a few months casually seeing a Sag guy. We'd get together every now and then have some fun. He was very flakey but I didn't mind cos it was nothing serious, I had also learnt from a friend of a friend that he's a bit of a ladys man but I wasn't bothered. Anyways saw him last time bout two weeks ago. Then went on holiday for 10 days. While I was away I got to thinking how well we got on, what a laugh we have and how much we have in common......and wait, how much I was missing him. We chat online alot. When I got home we chatted some more online. I sorta said to him during our conversation that I knew I was a bit of fun. To which he replied I was cool and he likes me. So I told him I like him too. Next night he was asking me to some family wedding and asking me not to move house ( as I was saying I wanted too) as it would make it difficult to see me. I had asked him in the week if we could get together Sat night. He said yeah he had no plans. Come Friday I asked if he needed picking up as I knew his car is in the garage. He said that he may be out Sat night after all wetting the babies head of a friend. He wouldn't know till Sat morning. So I said just leave it then till another time (no way I'm being second choice haha) Anyway he text me as I was going to bed that he like me and would text Sat morning. I was in cloud nine.

Sat morning no text...in fact no text all day. Went online and he's on there.....doesn't bother to try and chat to me. As I said before I knew he was flakey but after our chats I thought things were a little different. Frustartion builds throughout the day, and I'm a little crushed. My friend invited me round hers to cheer me up.WE had wayyyyy to much to drink. By 3 in the morning my friend went to bed. I did the worse thing poss. I went online....hes on there. Fueled by vodka and pent up frustration....the Aries demon was unleashed on his ass. I told him "How horrible I thought he was.....you didn't text.....heard you had alot of women on the go etc etc etc" He reckons he did text....nope texts don't go totally missing these days. That he was not a player and he does like me. In the end he just said it sounds like you made your made up. Then ignores me. I was so indignant that he ignored me that I deleted him. Sunday morning think OMG. I had a point but went completely OTT.
Mich135uk
8/17/2009 5:50:54 PM | IP

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SEnt him an email apologising and telling him that I was just naffed off that he hadn't text and I that I liked him and was over the moon when I thought he like me too. That likeing somebody makes me feel vulnerable and that it sounds like he's not that into me anyway so can we be JUST friends. No answer. I hate being ignored.....and feeling like a situation is in limbo. So text him today "So you don't want to be friends then. I've apologised and theres nothing more I can do. Take care" I of course don't expect to hear from him, just felt like I had to draw a line under it. As I said I hate being in limbo.

Though I put Sag vent I realise, I had a point...... I went about it all wrong. Still the way I look at it if he was really into into me it wouldn't matter. Might lay off the relationships for a while and just hang with the girls hhahha
Mich135uk
8/17/2009 5:57:07 PM | IP

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Can I also add that sheesh you Sags are so flakey thought the Aqua was bad. I mean I'm really independant too don't expect constant calls etc You can do what you want with your pals when you want. But why can't you just do what you say you are gonna do? and if you don't wanna just tell people. I mean as an Aries I can take the truth. I much prefer that than being strung along
WinterBorn
8/17/2009 9:36:37 PM | IP
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Sagi vent's are cool but dang I have a really hard time reading it all bunched up like that.

My Virgo-like brain just cant process it.

Sorry that we suck


 
Sagittarius89
8/18/2009 12:30:59 PM | IP
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"Can I also add that sheesh you Sags are so flakey thought the Aqua was bad" Didn't you hear?!!!? we are WAY worse!



calthrope
8/19/2009 12:53:23 PM | IP

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"But why can't you just do what you say you are gonna do?"

-because if we actually did all the things that come out of our traps, we would lose all chance of actually being respectable upstanding members of society and people like you would want nothing to do with us then either. It's really a lose/lose situation for us, stop hoarding the sympathy for yourself.
FeistyAquarian
8/22/2009 6:00:13 PM | IP
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That's just typical, uninterested guy behaviour. I hate to say it, but it sounds like it's true...He's just not that into you!!

(my typical line, but it's so true in situations like this ) If a guy is really into you, he will do whatever it takes to make it work and they just typically aren't all that shy about letting it be known they are into you.

Anyway, you're better off without him anyway, it sucks when guys do that (I've had it done to me before, by a few guys...lol) but all you can do is learn and move forward! And Ariens are great at doing that!
sagiluv
10/15/2009 8:34:53 PM | IP

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xtina
10/16/2009 2:20:11 AM | IP
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LOL I know this is unwarranted advice, but you shouldn't have let him treat you the way he did in the beginning... being flakey and all.

I know it wasn't serious.

But from one Aries to another, no man should waste your time like that... serious or not... your time is too valuable to be wasted on a man who is going to be late.

*On a good note, I love our Aries ability to realize and move on... you go girl!
rominan-sagittarius
10/20/2009 10:33:02 AM | IP

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Posted by sagiluv
I had to comment on your Sag Vent, I totally agree that Sag Men are Nutts!!! Im a Sagi Woman and well I can honestly say that all sagi Men like a challenge and once we notice someone is interested they loose total intrest!! I guess it's a turn off if you like a sagi man...lol (it's kinda funny) Now Sagi Woman are a bit like that, but we can appreciate when the one we like is able to confess their love to us,...we're a bit more compassionate...SagiLuv


sorry but it is not true that all sag men are like that. some are but not all as i am not like that. well actually i am like that but only if i am not interested in the fist place. if i say i like that does not mean i want to be with you as you can like people without getting in bed with them sheesh. my lover told me he loved me the second day and i was all over him!!

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