| Apparently Taurus is a great match for Virgo, but I'm not so sure. My girlfriend (of three and a half months) is a Taurus and I find things very difficult with her. She's a lovely, sweet and gentle woman, and incredibly sexy with it - she sparkles like a lake of crystal clear water reflecting the moon and the stars in the middle of the night, and I just want to dive in and drown in her, but she is so reticent I just never know where I stand with her. She doesn't talk about our relationship so I have no idea where she thinks it's going, where she might want it to go, if she thinks I'm just someone to have a bit of fun with or a potential life partner. She has a very busy life which I just have to fit into and I just feel that she isn't all that bothered about me. Meanwhile I feel that I'm falling for her, though I've had to try to cool my emotions recently as it was starting to hurt that she wasn't reciprocating. Being with her physically feels great, but she is so uncommunicative that I have no idea if what I am doing is right or if she's satisfied. It feels nice but I need verbal confirmation. I think my Virgo shy and reserved side combined with her Taurus reticence leaves me feeling unfulfilled because I wonder if I've done anything good for her. As a person who love nothing more than to bring a woman to a state of ecstasy she leaves me feeling uneasy and like I'd rather not sleep with for fear that she secretly thinks I'm the only one that's getting something out of it. I actually broke up with her just over a couple of weeks ago because I didn't think she cared, but then she started texting me telling me she does like me and she misses me, so I suggested that we give it another go which she has agreed to. I know Taurus women like to take things slowly before they "decide" to fall in love with a man, but things are sooooo painfully slow here that it just feels like it will never happen. Am I wasting my time here or will there be a specific moment when it all just suddenly clicks and she opens up to me? Being a Virgo I am a worrier who finds that the best cure for my anxiety is being kept informed, so I'm surprised that Taurus is regarded as such a good match for Virgo when Taurus is so guarded and secretive. I find it brings out the worst in me... but as I said, I find my gorgeous Taurus girlfriend so painfully irresistible that I can't bear to give up on the relationship, not just yet anyway. I'd love to get some Taurus women's views |
What's going on in my Taurus girlfriend's head?
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41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| I think Taurus and Virgo are probably a better match when we are older.Do you know what both of your moons and venus and mars are? what are your ages? I will say when I was younger I never had a completely deep and close relationship like I'm ready for now.reason being,I was afraid of being hurt badly I guess and I just didn't know how to share certain parts of myself.we don't like being vulnerable and hate the thought of rejection no matter how secure we may seem. also,we need tangible evidence of your feelings towards us.we don't like guessing or hot and cold games.you Virgo's are a little to subtle for our tell it like it is attitude.if you want her to open up to you and let you know where you stand,take her by the hands,look in her eyes and tell her everything you love about her and that you really care.then make sure she feels that everyday,and she will begin to trust you and open up.may not even take that long.... but tell me your moons and venus and mars.and ages....I have a compulsion  |
| Dude, u need to drop the shy act and act like an aries. Take that bull by her sexy horns and LEAD the relationship. She will follow !!! Taureans are strong women. We need equally strong men. There’s no room for indecisiveness. U gotta see what u want and TAKE it. |
Posted by BellaBulleautiful I don't know what our moons, venus and mars are. Can you tell me how to find out? Our ages are me: 35 (tomorrow) and her: 38. Posted by BellaBulleautiful The irony in this is that if I reject her it will be because of the very reticence that she is maintaining out of fear of rejection. Posted by Madalena Fantastic advice. When I first met her I was very much like that. Very confident, just acted myself and didn't worry too much about the consequences, and things went fantastically well. She was as enthusiastic as me and the whole thing just felt wonderful. Then, after about seven weeks, I started to feel like I was falling for her and, fearful of losing her, I started to behave differently because I became conscious of the need not to upset her. Ironically, that when things started to get difficult between us and she retreated and I started to do things wrong all of the time. I need to be like I was in the first place, but manufacturing it is a whole lot more difficult than just being it! |
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius This was the exact reason that I gave when I broke up with my Taurus GF just over a couple of weeks ago, that it was starting to affect my self-esteem. To be fair to her though, I didn't discuss my feelings with her as she wasn't showing her feelings to me, so I thought I might scare her off by getting all heavy. Maybe we're are bad as each other... Both holding back because of what we're worried the other might think! Going back to the first seven weeks that we were together, I was just being myself and acting instinctively - I didn't worry about anything, I just did what I felt and everything was amazing between us, so that's how I'm going to be with her now that we're giving it another go. |
Posted by PiscesLeoAquarius I just wish they weren't so gorgeously lovely..... So true. I read somewhere that Taurus woman's eyes "sparkle with wit and curiosity" and that is such a brilliant description. Her eyes really do sparkle and her whole face radiates light. Then there's her irresistible womanly curves and her choice of clothes... mainly simple black outfits but garnished with very glam looking scarves, boas and jewellery. She is truly fabulous and totally irresistible! I'm going to have to persevere with this woman!! |
| "When I first met her I was very much like that. Very confident, just acted myself and didn't worry too much about the consequences, and things went fantastically well." I think you answered your question. Oddly, the way you described yourself is the way that a lot of women are once they start falling and/or get intimate with a man. Initially there is a lot of confidence and interplay within the relationship, and then once they start falling for the person the dynamics change and they get overly sensitive to "losing" that person or "doing something wrong." Interestingly, if people would just be themselves like they are at the onset of the relationship, BUT still continue to grow and open up with that person, I think it would make for much happier people. As Madalena said, I like strong, confident men, because I am a strong women; however, I am still a woman, and I want to feel that sense of protection, etc that men provide to me in a relationship. I, personally, don't like overly sensitive men. With that being said, I, like you, (when I was younger) always wanted to know where the relationship was going, and I would put inordinate amount of time in worrying about that, and NOT being myself. Now that I am older, I am in a different place, so I am not like I was when I was younger. I think Bella may have it right that perhaps age may play a factor, but I don't know your age group, so that is hard to gauge. My best advice is to be clear about what you want (future state) out of the relationship. In all honesty, you've only been dating for a few months, and for me, I don't fall for someone that easily or quickly. When I was w/my ex-Libra, he fell for me in one month, I fell for him after a year. There is a saying, "The quicker you fall in love; the quicker you fall out of love." I don't know if that's true for everyone, but I've seen this to play out and be true, more times than I care to remember. I've said this before, Taurus women love to love up their men. When they are in to you, there is NO room for you to wonder - you will know! Every aspect of your life will be enriched by her prescence. |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| "Then, after about seven weeks, I started to feel like I was falling for her and, fearful of losing her, I started to behave differently because I became conscious of the need not to upset her. Ironically, that when things started to get difficult between us and she retreated and I started to do things wrong all of the time. I need to be like I was in the first place, but manufacturing it is a whole lot more difficult than just being it!" I don't understand why you would change like that.... and yes,she retreated because now she's not sure which is the real you.always be yourself with a bull,because we are always going to be ourselves with you.if you upset her,you upset her...she's not made of glass..... |
41 years old female from A view of you making an ass of yourself.
| oh,btw...yeas at your ages this is not good.you should both be beyond what I was originally speaking of. go here to do birth charts to find out moon's and venus and mars. http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal |
Posted by BellaBulleautiful Simple, because I suddenly realised that I didn't want to lose this woman and started to check my every action to make sure nothing I did would upset her. Ironically that's when I started to upset her! The good news is that I met her for an hour and a half today and we have coffee and chatted and afterwards I felt like a cloud had been lifted from me, like the chemistry was back. I think we're getting back on track! Posted by BellaBulleautiful Okay, I don't know what time either of us were born and all I know of her birth location is that it was in Scotland, so I put Edinburgh just for the purpose of getting a result. I don't know how much that may have compromised the outcome. Here are the results... Me: DOB: 20 September 1974 Venus: Virgo Mars: Libra Moon: Scorpio Her: DOB: 26 April 1971 Venus: Aries Mars: Capricorn Moon: Taurus |
| Aww sweet. She has my birthdate Yeah, she's really Taurus then; but she probably has a lot of masculinity (not in a manly way) about herself, because her Venus is in Aries (as is mine). If she is anything like me, she definitely appreciates you being YOU and not kittyfooting around anything. Truthfulness/honesty is like THE thing for Taurus in general - we may be slightly masochistic, because we always want to know whether it's good or bad. She probably likes to be pampered and worshipped, but not in a creepy way, but in a genuine loving way |
| April 26 rocks!! *gives shout out to self* |
Posted by USCTaurusGal That's good to know. Will just relax and be myself then. That's how I was for the first weeks when everything was at its best! Posted by USCTaurusGal I hope so, 'cause that's where I excel with women - making them feel special without coming across as a stalker! |
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