| I understand that it is said, when LEO is in love with you, he is loyal! However, since you guys have a reputation of quickly falling out of love (which would be -- I read -- when you stop forgiving her mistakes -> whatever that means?) then would you still be loyal? Would you at least let the person know that you have fallen out of love? |
How long is a LEO loyal?
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Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales I wouldnt say we quickly fall out of love at all (females at least). Actually, we tend to fight for something until the bitter end, whether it's for the right reasons or not. Most times we fight to salvage something just for the sake of not being a failure at it. Once it's over and we have given all we have to give, yes we move on quickly. We are excellent rebounders. We always tend to see the better of each situation. Now, that's not to say that we don't love hard and loyally, because we do. But to answer your questions.... 1. Would we still be loyal? NO 2. Would you at least let the perons know that you have fallen out of love?... Yes AND No. We don't like to hurt or disappoint anyone but you usually always know where you stand with us. So, we might let you down easily, but we would give you some indication of the change in temperature. And IF we really were in love you, we will always have love for you, you just end up in a different category. |
| 1. Would we still be loyal? >>> No. 2. Would you at least let the person know that you have fallen out of love? >>> I avoid saying in break ups the 'I have fallen out of love...' I stick to the facts. The facts of why it didn't work out. Her failure, my failure. Technically, I might still loved the person though I already broke up with her. But the loved that was left were not enough to salvaged the relationship. One thing is for sure, I will leave my ex-gf with his confidence and self-esteem STILL intact. |
| Seriously how many men actually leave you and tell you why or when...most just leave a woman hanging from the looks of things around here....Why should you expect anything more from a Leo??? |
| LeoLady -- Your description of Leo Love and loyalty is pretty much the way I see also in friendship. Leos do NOT give up on their friends easily. I have seen this throughout my friendship because I am the one who usually breaks the chains of contact. I disappear in silence and my LEO friends always forgive me for that. They continue seeking me up. I assume that is how I can relate to ROMANCE somewhat. Unfortunately when it comes to Romance with me, my waters run deep and hot. I realized with LEO man, the more open I was about my feelings, the happier he appeared. It is very hard for me to announce my love all too often, but when I sense he wants to hear it.. I tried to be very open with him. When I do open my heart, I do get this unbelievably bothersome feeling that I may get hurt for opening myself up so much. It is conflicting. In a friendship I don't mind opening up my heart, but in Romance I have overpowering feelings that I know can destroy me. I suffered a depression for a very long time after this Virgo man disappeared on me last year. which brings me to Sweethearts question: Sweetheart -- I was only left twice in my life by men I fell in love with. One was when I was 16 and this last time was last year in my 40s. I am super picky when it comes to giving away my heart. The first guy fell in love with my best friend, but he told me the reason. The second guy, the Virgo, just disappeared. I had casual relationships when the guy decided he wanted to move on, I asked.. what's the reason? The SAG told me, all his friends are getting married, he wants a younger girl and wants to get married. The other guy, the LEO man was just recently out of a marriage and he told me that I am more the type for long-term relations which he was not ready for. Which I actually found very funny, because I would never have wanted to marry him. It was just a casual/ sex only relation. ProVs -- That is what scares me... which is the definition of "FAILURE". What does failure contain? For example, with LEO man I realized that he blows events a bit out of proportion, meaning, instead of keeping things more factual in number or magnitude, he overstates. Let's say instead of saying, it happened 2 times, he says it happens all the time, OR instead of saying I will be upset if you ever leave me, he says I will die and not survive this one. I am a bit worried that he may archive events in such way in his head that h |
| are larger in magnitude than they really are. Therefore 'failure' could also mean that Leo man may remember things in a more serious fashion than they really are. |
| So yes.. I agree with the sense, if it is over, why staying loyal? I am just hoping for a fair explanation before he decides to be disloyal. It is rather deserving a closure when it gets there. |
| which is the definition of "FAILURE". What does failure contain? >>> Btw, I do not represent the majority of Leos, this is just my own opinion. The answer to this question will depend on what we have experienced in previous relationships. I have nearly zero tolerance for the following. 1. Her whole life revolves around me 2. Suicidal tendency 3. When my 1+1=2 explanation was interpreted in complex Physics or Calculus computation 4. Emotional blackmail Other imperfections I can tolerate but the above is really an annoyance and that's when I realized you can't change the stripes of zebra to polka dots. |
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales Yes, you are right.... Leos do NOT give up on their friends easily. I myself only have two prior friends in my life that wronged me to the point of never trusting them again. I do not hate them nor do I wish bad things upon them, I just will never allow them back into my life again. This is not something that happens to me often. I think as a Leo it is somewhat engrained into our personality profile to be that way. But of course it does depend on the individual's past relationships and life experiences. The reason your Leo man appears happier the more open you are about your feelings would most likely mean that he has feelings for you as well. As a Leo, we like to be flattered and lavished with attention, so hearing how you feel about us when we adore you makes our light shine brightly. There is nothing we get greater pleasure from than feeling our love is reciprocated by our object of affection. It is understandable that you worry that you may be hurt by exposing yourself. We all have those fears... at least I know I do. All I can say is to do what you feel your heart can handle and take it at the pace you are comfortable with. If you don't open yourself up to the possiblities you may miss out on something great! Good Luck! |
Posted by Pr0vs Btw, my LEO man says the same.. he does not represent majority of Leos, he is the quiet type who rather observes. Another co-incidence is... that the name on your amblem is his partial name... ha hahaa Can you open up Number 3 please? Do you mean you have zero tolerance for complexity coming from women? Not sure if I understood correctly. The rest makes sense. It looks like you do not appreciate weakling ladies... It is somewhat conflicting, because LEO men I met so far do sound themselves like those 3 points you made up there (1,2,and 4), but as you said, you must be the exception. |
| ok ... what I am trying to figure out is that those 3 points coming from LEO man was until he hunted his Lioness. Now he is in a less active stage. Can't figure this one either... |
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| ProVs & Ike Thank you for showing and clarifying no.3. I do have the tendency to assume and I did see Mr. LEO getting very upset twice for that matter. |
| Do you blow extremely hot in the beginning of courtship and need contant reassurance? >>> I do not like the constant reassurance actually because that means the conquer and challenge is over and what's next is peace, dullness or boredom. Make me jealous, make me insecure, ignore me and I will be that Leo baby in tantrums. Do you observe that you don't want "the woman to revolve her entire life around you" after you've hooked her, been reassured of her interest, etc.? >>> Not after the hooked up and reassurance. It is when the other person starts to become too possessive and clingy to the point that I can't freely do the things I wanted to do without her approval. |
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