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Help! Leo Guy broke up with me via text!Why DRAMA?

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10/9/2009 1:57:14 AM | IP
Guys I am completely in shock and please tell me if this is typical for Leos.
I have been seeing him for about a month. It had been going great, been intimate but holding off sex. I said I wanted to know him better. He had been sweet and loving and affectionate.

Then comes monday a weird misunderstanding happens where one of my friends on myspace (she is hot)put a comment on his page, then Leo decided to message her and said he was going to cook for me. She made a joke and started to flirt with him and he flirted back. She gave him her number and gave his. She said r you seually attracted to me? And he laughed and said "i dont even know u, lets go and meet in a public place for coffee.. he also said i know you are babykay's friend and i trust her and trust you bc you are her firend".. she then flirted more and he said "call me.. i dont want to start any drama,, i am here to make friends, but i am single"

Anyway she told me and I texted him "if you want to be with my friend yu can... then i said as a joke if u like her boobs i get it i would too haha"
He called my friend and said "i am deleting you.. i dont want a relationship with anyone ok?"
He fumed then called me, left 2 messages it was over between us and he was deleteing both her and me.
I got really emotional and called him crying that i didnt do anything wrong!
He then texts me "I am sorry please forgive me it must have been a big misunderstanding"
He then said lets not fight, "do you want to come over and make love?
I said "no i am tired"

I didnt write or call him for 2 days, then today I texted that I want to see hi in person and make up, I was just under stress and was recovering from the flu/ He said "dont worry we will soon, feel better"

2 hours later, I find he deleted me from myspace. I texted him "why did you delete me"
He texts "is myspace your life? I heard from other girls on my page you friend requested them, and i dont want the incident to hapen again with a mutual friend"
I said "OMG I add people all the time thru Myspace mutual firnd suggestions!"
He said "At least you are honest, but I have decided we should go our separate ways"

What was this about???
I cried so much and left him several messages explaining that he misunderstood me. I mistakenly texted him like 20 times saying just call me let me clear the air, I cant text al this etc...
He never called back or texted me back.

I feel like butter. I am not like that to text or cry or call... but I feel li
10/9/2009 2:01:11 AM | IP
I feel totally blindsided and hit by a truck and I did not do anything wrong. Now my friend or some girl may have poisoned his mind, and he doesnt know me well enough to know if I am telling the truth.

But have u known Leos to end things like this? I feel like I shouldnt have shown my emotional side, crying... I feel so stupid, but I feel like things were happening so fast beyond my control or comprehension.
Ive been crying... what is happeneing?
What is wrong with this Leo man?
He is Leo Sun
Moon in Scorpio
Venus in Cancer/Leo cusp
Mars in Aquarius

Please tell me what you think.. All Leo Men too please!
10/9/2009 2:05:33 AM | IP
PS Just Before he broke up , he wrote on the text... "why do u care about myspace.. you have my number and you know where i live do you want a virtual relationship with me or a real flesh and blood"
I said "but why delete me it makes no sense, my pride is injured, no reason t delete me, add me back and lets talk"

He says "u have made ur choice... myspace it is... I am moving on"
I know I canceled one date last week, and monday when he said "lets make love", I did not go over to his place... but that is no reason to show this anger.
Is this typical leo behaviour or moon in scorpio behavior?
So its over like that???
10/9/2009 2:06:50 AM | IP
dewsh so what is happening?
 
10/9/2009 2:14:30 AM | IP
In defense of my hot friend, she immediately notified me that she purposely flirted with him to prove to me he was a jerk, and was after sex because I wasnt giving it to him. She said the fact they exchanged numbers meant that he was hitting on her.

But heres the deal... we have only been dating a month, so theoretically he wasnt exclusive with me. My friend kept on trying to put in my head that he is a pig, etc
BTW he is an actor and has 3000 female friends on his myspace.
He texted me "they are my fans and I respond usually to every person, hot or not"
He also texted me today "do u think myspace is real??? it is fake... if you believe it you are insane"

OMG what did i do to deserve this kind of wrath as if I did something horrible to him.
10/9/2009 2:18:16 AM | IP
He also texted me "I am sick of these myspace games you are playing"
WOW
So it feels like he hates me so much.
I texted him "OMG if u didnt want to be with me u could have done it in a nicer way. I never asked to be in a relationship, I was enjoying our frendship? So what are you afraid of?"

Anyway he is not responding to me.
It is too late. He has made up his mind. He never even gave me a chance to speak about it or defend myself in person.
10/9/2009 2:24:45 AM | IP
"In defense of my hot friend, she immediately notified me that she purposely flirted with him to prove to me he was a jerk,"

Funny how she was arrogant enough to assume to "test" him for you. What a cookiemonster. Ditch her ass. Sounds like she's a drama starter. Your relationships and the guys you date are none of her business. She already had it in her head that he was a "pig" huh? Yep... drama queen. Cut her out. Seriously. She sounds way too controlling.

As for the guy... if it were really a "misunderstanding" if he really liked you he'd have looked past it. Sounds like he was looking for an excuse. Plus he was flirting with your "friend/ho". He did you a favor honey. Walk away and don't look back.
10/9/2009 2:24:50 AM | IP
hey but this is a forum... u cant give any advice?
please
its gonna be a sleepless night
10/9/2009 2:26:57 AM | IP
Oh Ginger thanks but I really liked him. Cant salvage this. Is this what Moon in Scorpio does?
10/9/2009 2:33:27 AM | IP
Again I am to blame bc my friend has been telling me for last 2 weeks she thinks the guy wants sex with me, so I said prove it/ My mistake... bc that encouraged her. She said I can see "how far he would go".. and I laughed at that time, ok ya lets see...
t turned into reality.. Moon in Scorpios are sensitive.. he felt played I am sure.
But I took the fall.
10/9/2009 2:36:46 AM | IP
Scorpio moon = suspcious. After he got caught the first thing that probably came to his mind is that you were playing games with him by sending your friend in to see what he'd say. Testing him. That probably pissed him off pretty good. Scorpios can be hypocritical when it comes to this. I'll test people but if they test me I get insulted. It's not fair but I'm being honest.
You unintentionally confirmed his suspicions by joking about your friend through text. I'm almost certain that he thinks you set him up by using your little friend as bait.

Even if this wasn't on purpose that is a juvinile thing to do. You have your friend to thank for this. I'm serious when I say get rid of her. She KNEW what she was doing. Even though YOU liked the guy she didn't care. It was about what SHE wanted. SHE thought he was a pig. THink about it. She's not your friend.
10/9/2009 2:37:47 AM | IP
My friend said "men are pigs.. that guy is a jerk, he wants only sex with u... he doesnt want a relationship, only sex" So when she said she could prove it. I said oh ya right!
OMG what did I encourage!
She tells me "see I revealed the truth for u.. he even called me and said "I dont want a relationship with anyone right now ok?"
She said he was giving her the message to convey to me.

I am sad. We were just getting to know each other. I wanted to cultivate a friendship first and see what happens. Of course I wasnt expecting a relationship immediately.

Tell me
was she right?
10/9/2009 2:38:41 AM | IP
You'll have to ask the Leos about him forgiving you but the Scorp moon will cut you off and be done. To him you set him up in a "sting" operation. In Scorpios minds WE are the only ones allowed to "sting". He won't be bothered by your games again because he won't trust you.
10/9/2009 2:41:46 AM | IP
Did you know she was doing this? Did you tell her to?
10/9/2009 2:42:06 AM | IP
"Even if this wasn't on purpose that is a juvinile thing to do. You have your friend to thank for this. I'm serious when I say get rid of her. She KNEW what she was doing. Even though YOU liked the guy she didn't care. It was about what SHE wanted. SHE thought he was a pig. THink about it. She's not your friend."


Ok I never saw my friend that way. Wow.

So if he felt he was "played" even as a "test"... then his words of "its over" were real right? On monday he said it was over, then after I cried and wrote him a letter explaining. He said "I am sorry forgive lets not fight", come make love and make up... I didnt and he sulked.

2 days later he deletes me saying "lets go our separate ways"!
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