| This account is based on my experiences with other Virgos of other Decans. I am a second Decan ruled by Saturn with a Capricorn ascendant ironically. 1st Decan - August 23rd through August 31st Friendship goes great in the beginning. Good contrasting personalities with core similarities. They are open about some things but keep a lot of secrets. Manipulative and controlling to the extreme. I gradually find out over time inconsistencies with their stories and I begin to unearth very large story changing truths that they did not want anyone to know. They have a penchant for speaking ill of their exes and wanting to have nothing to do with them. Much more comfortable socially with good tolerance. They are not afraid of utilising lies and deceit. 2nd Decan - September 1st through September 10th Friendship is hohum, not very quick. Early conversation shoots off like a rocket but after time too many similarities leads to lack of things to disagree on and hence discuss. Most self righteous of the three [At least I think so] and keen on truth. Most judge mental and lowest tolerance. Socially inept and awkward. Not keen on using lies and deceit. 3rd Decan - September 11th through September 22nd Friendship is good but very on and off. Long spaces of no communication culminating with one very large catching up every few months. Conversation is great with lots of slightly differing views making for good discussion. Most neutral of the three. Very sociable and warm. Apathetic to the use of lies and deceit. All Willing to use exes for sex Clean freaks Sharp wit Sarcastic |
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I belong to the 3rd decan.  |
My main idea behind this topic was to discuss my relationships with 1st Decans... this is not intended to offend anyone, as I believe all Virgos are capable of the characteristics mentioned thus forth. My first 1st Decan ex-best friend [August 24th] and I were great going out buddies. He always had cash and had no problem sponsering our fun times. I come from a poor family and his is wealthy. I never asked or demanded him to pay for me, he did it of his own accord. So one can say, they are quite generous. However, issues arised when I started to piece together the fact that I told him all of my personal stories and he hardly told me any of his. He had a knack for lying and exaggerating stories, which I never understood. He would introduce me to his girlfriends, which equated to two Pisces[*shudder during our friendship. I befriended them and we all used to have good times. Now being a Virgo, I noticed, males have problems with anger. So a lot of the times he would get pissed, they would look to me for answers. I believe in the truth, my allegiance is to the truth and I trust in the truth. So often time I would unwittingly "betray his trust" by telling them the truth. He would tell them about family problems, mother's disapproval and all sorts of things that sounded far fetched. Though I can make no claim these were not true or some variation of the truth, I said what I knew to be the truth. He abandoned me shortly after. |
| Now for the second seemingly best friend [August 31st], he too is quite generous and socially comfortable. We bonded during the difficult times of his ex girlfriend a Scorpio [November 11th] when I tried to be the counselor given my experience with Scorpion females. Needless to say, after hearing both sides of the story I realised how often he shot himself in the foot. He too, was keen on deceiving and manipulating this girl. Openly entertaining other women and getting close to them in direct sight of his girlfriend at the time, despite his clear knowledge this drove his Scorpio up a wall. When she grew tired of his games eventually and broke it off with him. He became very vile and spoke ill of her to all of his friends. He demanded that no one speak to her. My Mercury in Libra, just refuses me from taking such action, I must know both sides of the story before making such a drastic demand a reality. She kept in contact with myself and one Cancerian guy friend. Mr. 1st Decan claimed this was her way of keeping "tabs" on him. That sounded realistic, but all the ills he spoke of her did not. He was very distraught at his loss of her thanks to his Moon in Cancer I believe and would not move on. So we became close through my counseling him over what happened in the relationship and my pushing for him to seek closure so that he could move on. My gosh was he stubborn. Eventually he paid her a visit and they talked things out. He came back and unwillingly gave me the story eventually. I recently got a hold of his ex and got her side of the story... I could see clear inconsistencies... Now my knowledge of both of them leads me to believe they both lie and manipulate. He told me she would speak horrible things about me behind my back and she said the same of him. So I don't really know who to believe. Needless to say, this relationship will not survive much longer. Perhaps I will be accused of sticking my nose where it does not belong, and that has truth. But as I said before, what matters to me most is the truth, my allegiance is to truth. So why should I value a dishonest friend over the truth? |
| I agree with the 2nd decan not being prone to lying. I am a 2nd decan scorpio trying to get with a 2nd decan virgo... wish me luck haha. |
Posted by xo_scorpio Ooooo.... careful he falls deeply for you... that Scorpion charm and dresscode are hardly matched  |
| I fall under the 2nd decan. |
Posted by Jason2213 I'd love to hear your experiences with other Virgos, Beergo85's as well. |
Im The first decan of virgo mercury i'm not on the virgo cusp which is from the 23 to the 27 of august i'm born on the 29 so im a full virgo plus u have to apply aspect as well i have Venus square Saturn i don't believe in game playing with people i dont lie but if i have to spare someone feelings i will soften my tone to how i will tell the truth. the second decan have serious problems of letting go i kno dis virgo female friend who refuse to let go her relationship even tho dis people be playing her out like a game.lmao |
| :O My experience...I've only been aquaintances with August virgos...but... Its really fun to have conversations with 1st decan virgos because they can talk, talk, talk, talk, and talk. And they're funny. I don't open my mouth anywhere near as much as they do so its like a breath of fresh air being around people who like talking so much on a daily basis every once in a while. If it counts for anything, one of my friends is a Libra (Sept. 29). If he was born sooner I guess he would've been a 3rd decan. I did find these true with him though: -Friendship is good but very on and off. Long spaces of no communication culminating with one very large catching up every few months. -Very sociable and warm. |
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo I'm not one to have an abundance of friends so I'd guess if I were to lose a friend I would in some quiet way try to save and hang on to it. But if it turns out my friend(s) are indeed playing with me I'd let go instantly and they'll be left wondering why I stopped quietly appearing beside them like a ninja anymore. |
| Hey canjun, I too am from the first decan and that fits me perfectly well. BUHAHAHAHAHA! Caj-Friendship goes great in the beginning. Good contrasting personalities with core similarities. True, i get along with everyone very well even if the person does not like me at first. Caj-They are open about some things but keep a lot of secrets. Manipulative and controlling to the extreme. Determines, who I am speaking too if its a guy who is a chatty kathey i keep the converstion to a simple one. If they are good friends who i can trust i'll tell them what it is i have in mind. Manipulative and controlling nope. Caj-I gradually find out over time inconsistencies with their stories and I begin to unearth very large story changing truths that they did not want anyone to know. Sounds like a typical leo right there. Caj-They have a penchant for speaking ill of their exes and wanting to have nothing to do with them. I speak nicely about my ex's besides one... she screwed me over and left me with bad taste. I still keep in contact with a few ex's who are now married. Caj-Much more comfortable socially with good tolerance. Yep, i can enjoy a large groups as much as i enjoy being alone. I always find somebody in the group to have a comfortable conversation without being the center of attention. Caj-They are not afraid of utilising lies and deceit. Determines, anyone and everyone lies, but i do not do it unless the person who i've known for a while begins to explain exaggerated stories which i have heard before then i'll lie by agreeing with them and know that inside they are the liars and i simply follow along until they try to bring me down and then i'll usually use their stories against them. I bet you can consider that manipulation, but i find it a great defense mechanism. I consider that a damn sag influence haha all my sag pals do that a lot with people who lie such as gemini's. Summary: I'll agree on you with sociallizing and ex's. |
Posted by Jason2213 Yeah, I don't think 2nd Decan are bigshot talkers. We much prefer to listen and comment on what is being said. Posted by LeGendary ViRGo That sounds fair. the second decan have serious problems of letting go i kno dis virgo female friend who refuse to let go her relationship even tho dis people be playing her out like a game.lmao Yeah, we're suckers a lot of the time. The most naive probably. |
Posted by sortilege85 Booya Determines, who I am speaking too if its a guy who is a chatty kathey i keep the converstion to a simple one. If they are good friends who i can trust i'll tell them what it is i have in mind. Manipulative and controlling nope. So you don't get in on the manipulative action? It's so much fun at times. Sounds like a typical leo right there. Haha, I don't have much Leo experience so I'll take your word for it. I speak nicely about my ex's besides one... she screwed me over and left me with bad taste. I still keep in contact with a few ex's who are now married. I just meet the bad ones I guess :\ Caj-They are not afraid of utilising lies and deceit. LOL I don't consider it lying, I call it playing a long. Just to see what they have to say. |
Posted by CajunspiritPosted by sortilege85 Whats manipulation i never heard of that term before...enlighten me. >=D Don't worry, once you start hanging out with more leo's you'll see what i mean haha. Its alright, theres good apples and then there's the rotten ones. In my experience, the good ones always fall for the bad boys while the crazy ones always go after the good guys. Strange how that works. Then were both on the same page when it comes to people lying. |
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