| After three relationships, all with Arian's, im still trying to figure this one out... All started great, and ended badly, yet looking back, I still cant put my finger on why they didnt work out! I have no contact with any of them these days There is someone new on the horizon, showing a lot of interest in me and guess what? Another Aries !! Although i like this person a lot, from history, im very hesitant to proceed any further... |
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give it a go. what do you have to lose except your heart eh?  meh. i dunno. i've got a cap interested right now. but...the thing is...i've found you caps to be so closed off with your feelings and emotions, and this aspect for a ram will never do. and i'm not talking about actions...but verbally. at least for me...the other person has to verbally express themselves...not with gestures or actions..and that's before i'll disclose how i feel. maybe that's the issue. and from my perspective..a ram girl is hesitant to reveal her feelings unless the other party shoots first...but maybe that just me. i do have ((belch)) cancer rising and an aqua moon..so who knows... best advice..go for it. we're a bundle of fun anyway...except when we're pissed...  |
| Well this is the thing... Im A Cap (& a typical one), we arent supposed to even get along with Aries... In all cases, its Them that are attracted to me (although it doesnt take me long to respond I am a Cap/Sag Cusp The only thing i put it down to is that i do have a great sense of humour and can (and do) find the funny side of every situation, I do laugh a lot And I notice that Arians also seem to have a great sense of humour, but beyond that....I dont know !! |
| heeheee...maybe it's the sag part they're attracted to...i know a sag/cap cusper...he's a work of art. and his venus is in scorp. it's been going on for years. and like i said..he's a typical sag..but it's all about the verbal communication...or lack thereof with caps and yea, he's the same way. he will spend hours going out of his way to pry into my life, but can't come clean with his feelings...and that's what i've always found with other caps. go out with her and have fun. isn't that what it's all about anyway? having a good time? just because you've had bad experiences with other rams...that didn't end well..(nothing really ends well does it?) doesn't mean this one is gonna end up a nightmare. ya just never know. have fun mr. aries magnet! |
| I'm not in a relationship with a Cap, but one has been my best friend for 15 years, we get along great. |
| what stops Aries and Cap... it simply comes down to this: both are strong headed and unlikely to compromise. oh Dog, man man mannnnnnnnnnn, run. run fast! lol not again. it's an accident waiting to happen  i wish you caps would focus more on emotional depth and compatibility. some of the most terrible combos have been known to succeed.(ps: what is it with you and Aries?! what is it with me and Cap?! one day some of us will learn. or won't we...) |
| That's too bad! I don't see why they can't get along. |
| "i've found you caps to be so closed off with your feelings and emotions, and this aspect for a ram will never do." Bingo! I used to be very close with a Cap girlfriend and this was a huge reason we had issues. |
| i know a cap and aries best friend duo. they relate to each other on so many things but it can get ugly sometimes and in a weird, almost secretive way. they are both extremely stubborn and hard-headed. their relationship both thrives on and is compromised by the constant need to challenge each other. this need not only compels them to stay in contact but since neither of them possess the ability to agree to disagree it causes frustrations. especially when it comes to politics! |
| To: DB From: Xtina Aries woman and Capricorn Man- By Linda Goodman (This obviously might not describe you in full since you are a cusper) The unmistakable air of loneliness that hangs over a Capricorn man, even in a room full of people, draws the Aries girl straight to his side (LOL Soo true). To the sentimental, egocentric Ram, the reason for his loneliness is obvious. He's been waiting for her -- to show him how beautiful life can be. So she proceeds to show him. Aries never beats around the bush. Her initial enthusiasm is stifled by the Capricorn man’s slow responses – his earthly immunity to her fiery Mars charisma and her impulsive emotions may finally lead her to decide he’s too stuffy, aloof, and distant. It could be the end of a promising relationship that might have been deeply satisfying, as well as financially successful. Why should she waste her time trying to break through his loneliness to show him that life is beautiful, when he obviously enjoys his isolation? He wouldn’t recognize beauty if it knocked him over. She’s wrong. Capricorns do appreciate beauty. But he’ll never tell her about those pictures he painted in school when the teacher wasn’t looking, or the music he use to drown himself in when no one was listening, before he buckled down to the serious problems of carving out his security in a mad world… unless he thinks she really cares. It can hurt to lose someone you love because you’re unable to communicate your feelings, and this is too often the case between the quiet Goat boy and aggressive Ram girl. How can he let her know about all those secret dreams he wants to give her – how can he show her the lifelong romanticism hidden deep within his shy, funny Goat heart? Well, he should look at it this way: if she can’t see more virtue in the exceptional than the exciting, she’s not the right girl for him. |
| So, you see, the Mars-directed instinct of the Aries girl might have been right. He really was waiting for her to come along, and show him how to paint rainbows. It’s just that her initial approach might have been overwhelming for the more introverted Goat. Capricorns have difficulty coping with reckless action and abandon, even in the name of love. It takes this man a certain length of time to make sure he has a firm grip on the reality of romance, and even then, he proceeds with caution. This way, he’s sure not to slip and fall, or make any mistakes he’ll regret as some future date. With Aries, it’s “fly now – pay later.” With Capricorn, it’s “pay now – and fly later, with a clear conscience.” Assuming Capricorn and Aries do reach across the chasm of their differences, and hang on to each other’s hands and hearts, the disparities between their outlooks on life must still be either overcome or over-looked. He’ll try to over-look them. She’ll try to overcome them. Even in tackling the problems of their differences, they’re different. It lies in their divergent approaches to a situation. The situation: He has just hurt his knee, and the doctor has told him he shouldn’t aggravate the injury by walking on it for at least three weeks. The knee injury spoils the skiing trip they’d planned in the mountains. ARIES: “I’m sorry you can’t come with me, darling. But I’m sure you won’t mind if I go along with the others and try to enjoy myself anyway.” CAPRICORN: “Do you know what you are? You’re selfish.” ARIES: “Do you expect me to sit here and hold your hand, when I’ve been looking forward to this weekend all year? Couldn’t you make an effort and come along, even if you don’t ski?” CAPRICORN: “No, I do not wish to come along in my crippled state, and yes, I do expect you, if you love me, to stay here and hold my hand.” ARIES: “Do you know what you are? You’re selfish.” (Actually they are both right. They’re both selfish.) |
| On the physical side of love between them, the same kind of hurdles must be overcome before they find sexual satisfaction. When the Ram mates with the Goat, it’s a blending of Fire and Earth, and these are not normally the most compatible of elements. His sex impulses are controlled by Saturn, the planet of solid resistance, self-discipline and permanence. Her are directed by Mars, the planet symbolizing the masculine principle of flaming penetration. Capricorn would rather remain lonely and starved for love than risk being burned by a temporary passion. Aries would rather risk being scorched than not even try. So she’s usually the one to initiate sexual advances. Assuming the stars are favorable, and she catches him when he’s too weak to resist the Capricorn man will respond to her fresh enthusiastic expressions of love with the kind of profound intensity only the Saturn-ruled can understand – and a depth of affection that will surprise her as much as it will delight her. If these two miraculously manage to get together, it’s probably because he has the Moon in Aries, Sagittarius, Leo, Gemini or Aquarius – or because she has the Moon in Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo, Pisces or Scorpio. Then the differences between them (and there are undeniable differences) will tend to attract instead of repel. In other words, rather than become annoyed by his caution, stability and composure, she’ll respect him for these qualities she lacks and try to imitate them. Rather become uptight over her forceful drive, he’ll envy and admire it, and loosen up his laces a little himself. With harmonious Sun-Moon relationship in their mutual charts, love between Aries and Capricorn can grow into a deep and lasting devotion – sexually and otherwise. However, with a square or opposition between their natal Sun and Moon signs, the Goat and Ram will either lock horns in constant battle, or become so bored with each other that they wander off someday and forget to return. Whatever their planetary positions, there’s always the chance that his distrustful reserve in the beginning will petrify her natural romantic buoyancy, and they’ll never get beyond holding hands at the movies – or making magical promises with their eyes which they never keep. (To be continued.... have to go to work  ) |
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