Cougars or Sugar Daddies

Interesting...

I'd be with an older man if he was healthy, wise, good-looking, & hip.

Security & wisdom are so sexy.

seavixen

11/3/2009 11:39:00 AM | IP

female

I'm in my 30's and honestly, I have to beat the younger men away with a stick. I'm not trying to be chickeny or anything like that- just answering the question truthfully. I don't necessarily think it's a "cool" thing. My ex husband was 8 years younger than me...and I would never go that route again-alas, what we do when we're inlove! I truly believe age is nothing but a number, but my romantic side definetly blindsided me on that one (take those damn rose colored glasses off!). I don't think younger men specifically like older women just for sex, I think that they like the idea of a woman more comfortable in their skin, experienced with life and all that it encompasses, has their own money, not as insecure or possessive (hopefully)...and maybe just good ol curiosity. I haven't been romantically involved with anyone older than myself, and honestly- I look forward to it if it happens.

11/3/2009 11:56:57 AM | IP

from your subcutaneous layer

You've aged well if you're in your 30s

To be honest, I try to stick to a 5+/- years for shagging,etc as it makes a lot of sense right now..
Yah, a rich old spinster wouldn't go amiss though, especially if she was getting ready to poop her clogs

11/3/2009 12:11:54 PM | IP

I was with at least 10 years older men long-term together. One was 14 yrs older than me, and I definitely had the hots for him imagining sex with him at every corner of his office.

Yes, I'm not sure what it is that I get more approached by quite younger men. I'm in my 40s, but the 20's guys seem quite courageous lately in approaching me.

seavixen -- what's your sign please? Curious since you wrote you like scorps.

Would you mind me asking why you wouldn't want to choose a younger man for a serious relation again. Since you were married to him, you were important to him. Where are the potholes of such relation?

I am wondering if it is the maturity level of his...?

11/3/2009 12:17:19 PM | IP

Posted by LibrasRule36!
Interesting...

I'd be with an older man if he was healthy, wise, good-looking, & hip.

Security & wisdom are so sexy.

I agree with you, Libra. But lately... once one gets the taste of things...

I kinda started liking younger men. Makes me feel perverted in some ways.

Then I look at the older guy and think .. wow.. he is making way too many noises from grumpy sounds to whatnot. But then I observe that the much younger girls can be just totally into that guy --- like I was.

11/3/2009 12:18:11 PM | IP

deem -- wht means 'poop her clogs'?

eden 3

11/3/2009 12:20:18 PM | IP

hahaha i get hit on by 16 year olds in the mall my husband is so mad a lil crowd of em followed me round *shrugs* idk these youngings r chickeny i told some lil baby boy i could be his mama "it was a joke" and he was all lk "oooh mama" ha

my hubby is months younger but he loves to call me his old lady ;P

as i get older older men get more attractive ya security stability and that silver fox look

cant wait til hubby is rocking that sorta distinguished appeal

11/3/2009 12:25:55 PM | IP

from your subcutaneous layer

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
deem -- wht means 'poop her clogs'?

To pass on into the next life

11/3/2009 12:26:28 PM | IP

from your subcutaneous layer

(it should have read 'pop her clogs)

11/3/2009 12:37:15 PM | IP

Posted by deemnsout4ever
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
deem -- wht means 'poop her clogs'?

To pass on into the next life

ah.. ok.. you'd be out for her money? (theoretically speaking)

11/3/2009 12:39:44 PM | IP

from your subcutaneous layer

Hehehe...yes and yes (I'm just playing)
One of my long term relationships was with a lady a few years older than me, not old enough to be a cougar at the time though, and I dunno if there's much in that 'women mature faster/sooner' nonsense

LibrasRule36!

11/3/2009 12:41:51 PM | IP

female from Miami, Florida USofA

Posted by eden 3
hahaha i get hit on by 16 year olds in the mall my husband is so mad a lil crowd of em followed me round *shrugs* idk these youngings r chickeny i told some lil baby boy i could be his mama "it was a joke" and he was all lk "oooh mama" ha

my hubby is months younger but he loves to call me his old lady ;P

as i get older older men get more attractive ya security stability and that silver fox look

cant wait til hubby is rocking that sorta distinguished appeal

I don't like when younger guys hit on me - I think they are still wet behind the ears and don't know how to clean their cornholes properly.

Young, dumb, and full of cum.

moon_eyes

11/3/2009 12:51:55 PM | IP

26 years old female