I reconnected with an old friend which happens to be a Virgo. This is a man I was friends with 20 yrs ago. We have been seeing each other for 3 months. I am a Scorpio. He is extreme Virgo. Very moody, stays alone most of the time, very quiet..We can go for days without speaking and then I get a text or call out of the blue saying that he has got to see me.I am extremely attracted to him and everything about him. Our relationship is very sexual. We see each other once a week or so..It seems like everytime we see each other he opens up a little more.He is happy and loving...but when we are apart he goes back in his shell and our relationship gets confusing again..For example we saw each other the other night and when we parted in the morning, he called me 30 min later just to talk and then called again to talk about an hour afterward. At that moment it seemed like we were very connected and we were exclusive. So I call him again last night and he is quiet and short with me.. This is pretty much how it has been going..He is hard for me to read. I know I would give him the world if I knew he was really into me. I am sure I am in love with him, but would never tell him because I fear he would run..From what I gather, there has to be a careful balancing act on my part to keep his interests and not scare him off. When we first started seeing each other..I pushed a little to much for his time and I saw him withdraw and I studied more about his sign and have learned not to push and to leave him alone and it is working, but I am afraid that if I act too disinterested that he will think I am not giving him enough attention and I'm not really into him and he will look elsewhere..What should my next steps be to try to move us closer and not scare him off? Should I continue with the cool exterior and wait on him to make the moves? My Scorpio tendencies make me want to be very possessive of this mate and of course that is impossible so I have to fight with myself to keep it cool..Thanx
