Virgo in Venus and Mars

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2/14/2011 1:32:39 AM | IP
happykitsune

female

Ok so I need people to be straight with me. I'm seeing this leo who has a venus and mars in virgo.
I've read a lil on it and it appears that they don't flirt much or at all and tend to go very slow.

This leo hasn't flirted with me at all, but we seem to have very deep conversations and a lot in common and when he's alone in the art studio it's me he calls up to talk with while he draws. I seriously can't tell if he likes me or not because of these mixed signals.

So I need some people to give me their experiences with people who have dealt with venus in virgo and/or mars in virgo.

Also, it seems like he wants to get at me somehow, like push my buttons, because I mentioned that I hate lying and he picked up on my change in voice and the look I got in my eyes. He could tell he hit "money" and told me he was going to lie every so often now just to get at me. What's up with that? Is that a virgo thing or leo? or is it his moon in pisces?
2/14/2011 3:56:49 AM | IP
hades

male

Sun Virgo Moon Aquarius Mercury

well I'm straight... LOL.. there you have it...

virgo and pisces are mutable signs... so you go figure it yourself.. and just be yourself..

hades
2/14/2011 2:16:46 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

I'd just rather people gave me some of their experience that why I'm not getting my hopes up
2/14/2011 2:56:06 PM | IP
Candeh15

22 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

I'd like to know some of this too, considering the Leo I'm trying to know more has his venus in virgo. He hasn't been huge on flirting either, but there is something subtle there that I think might be flirting, but going from one guy who'd just grab me and start kissing me to one who I can't even tell if he's flirting is one hell of a change lol. Though, it's pretty cute in a way lol.
2/14/2011 3:01:35 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

I was reading and it says they like to get to know you better before they really try to invest into you. I guess that means in the way of flirting as well. I mean there is definitely chemistry there with him and I, but I'm used to at least some light touches, or teasing in a sexual manner.
He told me once touch was too sensual for him o.O
2/14/2011 3:07:01 PM | IP
Candeh15

22 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

Posted by happykitsune
I was reading and it says they like to get to know you better before they really try to invest into you. I guess that means in the way of flirting as well. I mean there is definitely chemistry there with him and I, but I'm used to at least some light touches, or teasing in a sexual manner.
He told me once touch was too sensual for him o.O


Yeah same here. I'm so used to like a least some form of blatant touching/flirting. I mean, it's not like I can't tell he's into me, but I just mirror people. So if he's not flirting heavily, I won't either. Or I'll sensor myself. For example, I was texting him last night and I told him if I was hiring him, he'd have no problem getting a job.

He said, "Ha nice. What's the position and how much does it Pay? Hmm... that could be read the wrong way."

In general, I would have said the first vulgar thing that came to mind. But instead I said to him "I'm trying really hard not to say something really dirty."

And he just said, "Why try?"

This is what took me aback. So I told him I felt I should have been on my best behavior.

It's so interesting. Like me being a virgo, I'm shy to begin with at first, but eventully I warm up. I have my venus in leo though, so I can be pretty big when I'm flirting or just being cute. So it's like... completely opposite haha. I guess I can understand him really wanting to get to know me first, because that's such a virgo thing. I should know. lol
2/14/2011 3:30:02 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

Thanks MissKitty, that's very very helpful. I think I may wait a little to make any blatant signs that I like him. But I've tried to drop some subtles things here and there. Maybe more sexual than anything...but I'll definitely keep what you've said in mind. It's very hard for me to just come out and say I like someone tho because of my venus is capricorn. I guess you could say I'm slow :/
And I Candeh I mirror as well, which is why I usually don't end up flirting with him. But not that I know of their ways of "flirting" or whatever you call it, I won't be so afraid to give him a little nudge.
Glad the lying thing wasn't bad...it gave me mixed feelings, but I could tell he had his own lil intentions for it the stinker.
2/14/2011 3:33:28 PM | IP
Candeh15

22 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

Posted by MissKitty
We aren't flirts at all, no. My 'flirting' consists of just talking to you about anything, shared interests, etc. If we're paying attention to you at all, doing things for you (big or small) we like you.


This seems understandable. When the leo I'm talking to and I went out on our date, we found out that we both love Radiohead, like quite a bit. Today, while I was just hanging around, the leo texted me randomly and said, "Radiohead is coming out with a new album on Saturday!!" Needless to say, I didn't rreally know this, but he seemed so excited and I thought it was cute that he shared that with me (I mean, I'm excited too). So would this be a typical example of what you're talking about, Misskitty?
2/14/2011 4:07:49 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

That's good. I don't like desperate guys, but I do like regular contact.

Would you happen to know what the sex was like Claire?
2/14/2011 4:53:35 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

I have read. Thanks
2/14/2011 4:55:46 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

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2/14/2011 4:56:31 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

What is your mars claire?
2/14/2011 5:05:08 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

Ah I see... hmm hope scorpio and virgo mars are a good match...that always worries me cus Idk how the sex would be till I actually do it...would rather not waste my time if I can just know if making love in the bed room will be good or not
2/14/2011 6:30:58 PM | IP
Candeh15

22 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

Posted by CancerMoon
I don't think Venus in Virgo and Venus in Leo matches very well. I had some pretty bad experiences with it. I hope that helps you a little.


Awww... :/

well anything is possible I always say if you can work through your differences. I think it helps that I'm a virgo because I can empathize with this leo and his no flirting.
2/14/2011 9:57:10 PM | IP
happykitsune

female

Hmm I enjoy being romanced but I love the idea of someone who will be loyal to me and who I can trust to be stable.
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