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6/22/2012 10:14:26 PM | IP

i need help!! any advice would be much appreciated!! i've fallen for a cancer man and i don't know what to do to get him to fall in love with me. i'm a scorpio female and give amazing advice to friends, but when it comes to my own love life i lose all objectivity!!! help!! please!!
6/22/2012 11:21:59 PM | IP
iwin32

26 years old male from Cancerland, U.S.A  

I'm a Cancer male. ===

Just be friends with him and go from there and if you already fell for him, well, just wait for him to do it as well. We can fall pretty fast. Be honest and sincere and everything will be fine but don't force him to do anything or make yourself look needy or clingy because he will back away. Just go with the flow.
6/22/2012 11:26:52 PM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

relax. please. you are borderline obsessed.

what is your chart?

I have $5 on you having merc in sag
6/22/2012 11:40:27 PM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

Posted by scorpfrance
i don't know what to do to get him to fall in love with me.


Posted by scorpfrance
i didn't know how i could prove to him that he could trust me.

how can i succeed where other women have failed?


Posted by scorpfrance
i would rather be in a long distance relationship with him then in no relationship at all.


^^^^^^^^^^^^^^read these. You wrote them. Are you sure you are ready to be in a relationship?



Posted by scorpfrance
i won't know for sure unless i ask him.


You are obviously the type of person who needs to address these type of things in a direct manner..... and right now, you aren't feeling like you can do that. You are neglecting yourself. Ask him all the questions you have thrown out over at the cancer board. If he's as "right" for you as you say he is.....he'll have no issue answering them and putting your mind at ease.

You should be able to talk openly about such things if that is what you desire.

Honestly though, I think you need to calm down a bit. You'll burn yourself out and him over your anxiety.
6/23/2012 1:03:42 AM | IP

Perhaps go and meet up with him?
6/23/2012 1:08:01 AM | IP

Perhaps go and meet up with him?
6/23/2012 2:35:48 AM | IP
Stinger Baby

28 years old female

1st, you cant MAKE a person fall for you.

2nd, all you really have to do is be yourself. feelings are intense i see, but calm down and be your normal self. that will attract him.
6/23/2012 6:45:51 AM | IP
R1g0rM0rT1s



words fail me

elle and stinger are 1000 million per cent spot on. you should never want to be with someone that badly imo...not healthy.
6/23/2012 7:24:04 AM | IP
seraph

35 years old male from Canada  

First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.

Eleven exclamation marks means it's srs bzns.

6/23/2012 8:05:56 AM | IP
IntriguedScorp



Scorp with a Saggie Moon. That's all yo

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6/23/2012 8:08:45 AM | IP
IntriguedScorp



Scorp with a Saggie Moon. That's all yo

Here's a better question: What can the Cancer man do to make me fall in love with him.

In my own personal dealings, when I have ventured into the "how can I make a man fall in love with me" thinking it was always, without exceptions, an unbalanced, co-dependent relationship prospect that was sure to be filled with drama and game playing. What is this man doing that is making you to become emotionally involved? really analyze this question.

IF, he is push/pulling, hot and colding, passion then no passion, etc etc etc... then you are in an unbalanced, verging on obsessive relationship.

IF, on the other hand he is wining and dining, sending you sweet messages, holding you hand or expressing himself romantically, etc etc...then what you have is real and you shouldn't have to do anything other then be yourself because it is already working.

Good luck
6/23/2012 1:15:42 PM | IP

hello everyone!! good morning!! i must say that i was SO delighted to see that so many of you reached out to me in my quest for help! well, first i want to address this response:


Posted by seraph
Eleven exclamation marks means it's srs bzns.



i'm a sag rising with an aries moon so i tend to use exclamation points a lot, i think it's all that enthusiastic fire in my chart so it's not that i mean serious business, it's just that i was excited when i created the post. i had actually started on the cancer forum, but when i wasn't getting much advice there i thought i should probably go to the scorpio forum and try my luck here being a scorpio very much into astrology. unfortunately, i posted a lot more information on my cancer threads than on this thread so it would probably be in my best interest to provide you with more information so that you could help me even more than you already have.

i completely agree that you can't make someone fall in love with you!! that sentence, unfortunately, came out very wrong in my original post. perhaps it's my sag foot in the mouth syndrome...don't know actually.

i will agree that i tend to be obsessive, but i really try to overcome that part of my nature. i don't like trying to control any person. in fact, when it comes to personal relationships, that is the one area in which i try to not exert any pressure, control, or use manipulative tactics because firstly, i don't believe you can control anyone or make anyone feel something for you when you don't and secondly, i want someone to love me on their own accord.

my current problem is that i can be impatient and i have the feeling i will need a lot of patience when dealing with cancers...

any further advice would be greatly appreciated and if you all want me to provide more info about this situation just let me know and i'll cut and paste all the stuff on the cancer forum. i posted this late last night and was very tired after a long week

thanks so much again guys!!
6/23/2012 1:18:10 PM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

lol @ this scorpio with an aries moon

WHERE IS YOUR MERC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(and venus?)
6/23/2012 1:25:29 PM | IP
IntriguedScorp



Scorp with a Saggie Moon. That's all yo

Posted by ellessque
lol @ this scorpio with an aries moon

WHERE IS YOUR MERC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(and venus?)


I swear to god--I'm leaving if her venus is in Leeb!

(Saggie RSG..don't forget that Aries moon and all your coolness. )
6/23/2012 1:27:04 PM | IP
IntriguedScorp



Scorp with a Saggie Moon. That's all yo

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