| Who Doesn't believe you can find your "better half" on a dating site? And I'm certainly not judging it just personally feels like a disorder to me. I don't think fate, destiny, and providence live on the same block with technology. |
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25 years old female
Pisces sun, moon, merc Venus in Ta
| Destiny can come from anywhere with the same effect |
female from U.S.A.
Sun Pisces Moon Pisc
| I agree, but maybe for different reasons. I don't feel any connections over the internet and that initial lack of a connection ruins it for me. I also don't believe in searching for love. I believe I will find someone special by him just walking into my life or vice versa. With internet dating, everything is premeditated, even people's reasons for talking to you. |
| Right! its the active search for love thats like nails on a chalk board. I cant wrap my mind around it. |
25 years old female
Pisces sun, moon, merc Venus in Ta
| Actively searching online is as unaffective as actively searching in RL if you are focusing on your lack of having a lover. On the other hand, joining a dating sight with positively in mind, and not desperation, if it is in right timing to meet a certain person, maybe they will also be on the site and message you, no different than that person could bump into you at the bank and be inspired to start a convo. It's all about intention. I DO however agree that it is infinitely harder to feel someone out online for chemistry, which is so important for us pisces and I would imagine, other water signs. |
24 years old female
Sun 9º Pisces Moon 1º Sagittarius
| I met my bf online.... actually, my best friend posted an ad for me without my knowing and weeded out the creepers and forced me to talk to SOMEONE. haha. so I was sorting through the replies, I saw his picture and the only reason I started talking to him was because he reminded me of an old friend of mine and when I met up with him I met him with the intention of just making a new friend... It is kind of hard to have chemistry through the internet. Thats why we started talking for a little bit through text and I decided "ok I don't think hes a creepy killer" and met up.  turns out he lived right down the street from me, imagine that! |
female from U.S.A.
Sun Pisces Moon Pisc
Posted by PiscesFebFish I'm glad someone else understands! Also, I do think there is a very slight possibility of meeting someone you really connect with online, but in my opinion, that chance is too slim to be worth much to me. I can comes to terms with that I may find a long term relationship online, but not a soulmate or someone I'd spend the rest of my life with from online. |
female
Scorpio Sun Cancer Moon Scorpio Mercury
| I meet my Scorp online on a dating site. You should see the looks we've received when we tell people that. If were speaking astrologically, intellectual and communication chemistry I think can very well be felt online, since mercury rules both and technology to a certain extent. But yes, certain chemistry must be felt in person, that physical click. With Scorp though, I'd been chatting for fun with several guys but his introduction message was sparkling like a diamond. First time I was talking to someone online and I cracked one of those wide huge goofy grins people make when they talk about someone they like and or just met. I had friends follow us on our first date sitting at the table behind me, one of my friends starting him down the while time LOL. We laughed about it later, he thought it was a smart idea. Tbh I didn't think that would turn into what it has. This is also my healthiest relationship to date too, and some other people I met had some romantic sounding meeting stories to the relationship, albeit horror story endings haha. I used to feel the same way as the OP before Scorp. I was just using online dating to get done experience under my feet maybe make some new friends. Sometimes I'm still surprised things have been so wonderful and turned out like they have. Aside from the friendly stalkers on our first date though, it wasn't any different than other first dates or hanging out with some new love interest. |
26 years old male from Cancerland, U.S.A
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26 years old male from Cancerland, U.S.A
I'm a Cancer male. ===
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27 years old male from United Consciousness of Yugoslavia
. . . tendre barbare
| I think you will more likely find a soulmate on internet than IRL. It's a big world out there. I met my ex online and eventually moved 231 miles for her. Even if our relationship didn't work out it still lasted for a couple of years, we're still best friends and moving to this part of the country was the best thing that happened to me. She's the only one who truly knows me inside and out, we have so much in common and well... without internet we would never have met. |
37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me
Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c
| You don't think putting on a sexy dress, makeup , doing your hair, spraying on perfume and going to a club, pub or bar as actively searching for love? I prefer internet dating for quite a few reasons; Men/Women on the internet are usually educated. You can determine a person's ability to form rational, logical thoughts. There is no alcohol involved, therefore reducing the numbers of drunken interactions. You can get to know someone without all the pressure. You don't connect simply stop talking to them. Lastly, I have made many a terrible decision based on physical appearances. I might even fall into the shallow category. I am less concerned with that via the world wide web. Posted by PiscesFebFish When is the last time you found something you weren't looking for???? |
female
Scorpio Sun Cancer Moon Scorpio Mercury
Posted by enfant_terrible Awwwww. Cute. That was pretty brave of you too.In general, I still think its better to be able to date in person. Pheromones are where its at the ends if the day for physical attraction and you only get those in person. I'm very thankful for internet dating though. Even if Scorp isn't my permanent soul mate, I've collected invaluable things from him,.his family and our time. |
| I dont actively search for love because its not a priority. If its meant for me to find my "soul mate" I personally believe it will happen, not necessarily by the click of a mouse. And as I stated earlier, I'm not judging so please dont attack, I'm just sharing my feelings on the matter. I know a few couples who met online and are either married, living together or just geniunely happy. And when I get dressed up to go out its not with the intention of attracking a man. I look lovely picking up eggs but thats because I love being a woman and I like to look my best at all times. Do I get hit on, absolutely and more often than not I decline advances because my goal in life is not marriage or babies- its inner peace and being content. When you know you've met the one, you just know and I feel like when it happens I will know. I just dont seek it out. |
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