How do Cancer and Pisces come along on dating?

crabbeme
I've been dating this Pisces girl for a month now and I agree with all the other posts Pisceans have posted.

She can be really nice and hot to me on one date and very indifferent on another, doesn't like to be tied down, likes people who are hard to get, lies occassionally even though she said she didn't, but she's super sweet to me and affectionate and we talk on the phone and text each other a lot, but we kind of only see each other once or twice a week

Should I play hard to get to her sometimes?

Tks
CRABBEME
Cancer1986LeoCusp
cancer & pisces happens naturally, i mean you do not have to play hard or something just be yourself...call her 100 times a day if you feel like calling...be clingy if you want to...i do not see any compatibility problem...it just sometimes gets overwhelming.

If it is only a month with time you will learn and adapt to each other then it becomes even easier....especially Pisces is willing to adapt more if she loves you heads over heels.

But, Man these pisces are sneaky they are good at break ups..it is like holding a tickling bomb under your coat; you never know when she unexpectedly declares that she wants a break up and changes her mind next day...good luck!
crabbeme
mmm......I doubted calling her so much would be a good idea, she doesn't like that

yea and she talks about her ex a lot, how much good times they had, but she always said she won't go back to him and he's his best friend now only
Cancer1986LeoCusp
Calling, texting a lot should not be a problem i guess....i used to call any time of the day and usually she would be in the mood.
Perhaps mine was that way...regarding that sweetness and affection that's a treasure you rarely find in others and actually that is what will always be reminding you of her in case if you break up...

I would probably end up marrying my pisces if i did not go for my education to another country. Pisces are out of site out of mind..maybe that's good...dunno...started dating a scorp girl lately but still miss pisces sometimes...those sweetness, being all mushy...making huge fun conversations out of any crappy topic...
crabbeme
yes I totally agree with you, she would compliment me so often that I feel so good around her, of course in turn I compliment her back

I do agree with you that they are spaced out sometimes and also they like to revenge if you ever cross her and they are good actresses, I know another Pisces who totally cheats and lies all the time! (no offense to other Pisceans) and they play a lot of mind games........... >
They are really really fun people to hang out with and they are spontaneous!

But being a crab myself, security is the most important factor to me and I doubt if ever any Piscean can provide that because the ones that I know always flirt and they like a lot of people liking them and spoil them. And I feel sometimes she doesn't know for sure who she likes!
crabbeme
Tks Lena, yes I do give her a lot of space........ cos she seems to be busy all the time with homework and house work and TV, lol

but we sometimes talk hours on the phone too
piranhaparadiise
ok you might want to read *Bad dating habits* thread...there are our habits and the reasons why we behave certain ways...

The indifference is a normal thing for Pisces woman...at least for me...we are so involved in our minds we tend let things flow
...ok if we bring out our emotions that lay some insecure feelings we can be clingy...and a bit needy...especially if *you* change your predictable ways...
we *notice* very minute changes...ok this is where it can seem or is hypocritical as we are always changing especially our minds the way we do things/like things..but we don't want you to change...for example if you always text/call in the morning for a good morning message...if you suddenly stop..we will notice and this will make us think you don't like us as much...something is up...it will bring a little bit of our insecurity...you don't want that as then we will start to become needy...or at least question you..now having said that we need lots of space so it is a contradiction ...

We do love your attention even if we don't reciprocate it on the same level...it's not that we don't care...we don't want to smother you...and you crabs tend to like to cling but not have too much cling from the other party...at least not the ones that are very into their space...

It is normal for us to not always be around you...hence one two times a week...we just like to have time to process our thoughts..play a lil music to soothe our souls...

As for speaking about the ex...well unfortunately I did this with my ex crab...but it was about an ex guy friend [a crab too]...I just was still going through the process of getting that out of my system...someone to talk to...If she says she doesn't want to be with him...she doesn't...but she will still have that emotional connection...my ex became jealous and also cranky when I did talk about him...but I decided to focus on him rather then dwell on my ex friend...and that's when the tables turned

So while you may not like the talk of the ex...the sooner she gives all her attention to you...you won't probably like it so much...it's the truth...

Incidentally I am dating another crab...we were out and he had asked to see me again in a few days to go somewhere to plan the event...well I had told him I will sleep on it...tell him later...well he asked to see me Thursday...and although I am free I told him no the weekend...the reason being I just wanted to have time to myself and I wasn't in the mood to meet
piranhaparadiise
Another thing I want to say...she may not be that into you *emotionally* as you are to her...so you might want to keep your feelings down...cause it could be likely she is still in the rebound stage...and not completely or willingly to be interested in you 100%...
crabbeme
yes Piran, I totally agree with you and I've read your *Bad dating habits* thread... all of the traits matched hers

yes I also asked her out more than once but she said on the weekend.............

@_@ confusing...........
crabbeme
thank you Piran, I like your detailed post
piranhaparadiise
Posted by crabbeme
yes I totally agree with you, she would compliment me so often that I feel so good around her, of course in turn I compliment her back

I do agree with you that they are spaced out sometimes and also they like to revenge if you ever cross her and they are good actresses, I know another Pisces who totally cheats and lies all the time! (no offense to other Pisceans) and they play a lot of mind games........... >


How old is she ?? If she is young...then she is probably in the *want to explore stage*...

As a Pisces I can say I have never cheated on a guy [infact it's been the guys that have]...I don't have time or the desire to see numerous guys...one is enough and even too much for me
Cancer1986LeoCusp
Posted by crabbeme


But being a crab myself, security is the most important factor to me and I doubt if ever any Piscean can provide that because the ones that I know always flirt and they like a lot of people liking them and spoil them. And I feel sometimes she doesn't know for sure who she likes!


EXACTLY, dude! they do like a lot of people liking them...that would drive me nuts!

She had that 'little princess syndrome'

with scorp you feel more secure but not as much fun as with fish
crabbeme
she's young, 23 , but she said she's only seeing me..........and no others

I do have a hard time believing in anything she says though @_@
crabbeme
Cancer1986
I've never dated a Scorp though, I am starting to wonder if I should date another Crab
crabbeme
Posted by Lena282
Do you know her Venus? The sign it's in suggests how she'll behave in a relationship.


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