Aquarius Men What's up with them?

Queenscorpio
I met a very nice Aquarius. Analytical and Intelligent, as a scorpio that intrigued me. We had a great platonic relationship for a month or two then he just stop communicating with me. Have any idea why? I don't.
Lilscorpiok
I find that Aquarian males generally aren't interested in having a relationship. They're just sooooo independant.
CallMeAlienRobotOrWhatever
he is playing game to see wether you are still interested in him or not.

if you re still interested in him, then call him, otherwise ignore him, and sooner or later he will also ignore you completely. i did it too to all of my exes
CallMeAlienRobotOrWhatever
yeahh stupid and childish
greta2242
Goodness this is JMO here, but as a lone aquarius growing up in house of 4 scorpios and one of my best buds being scorpio, I can say that scorpios can be intense and intriguing. However in a romantic setting I'd have to kill any man who tried to possess me, make me stronger, criticize me, all in the effort to 'improve me.' Scorpios are the greatest people I know, but romantically I just can't see an aquarius staying with a scorpio for very long. Fighting with a scorpio can get ugly and a scorpio can be seen as a cold hearted monster who doesn't let the scorpio's sting show on the outside ALL the while there is this underbelly of sensitivity that scorpios never see. If you are really interested in an aquarius the biting nature of the scorpian personality is the biggest turn off. However a scorpio also shows an aquarius an intensity that very few signs can offer and the aquarius can see a kindred spirit who instead of putting the emotions to the side to get what he/she wants, the scorpio has no problem dicing in an emotional intensity.

Since the question concerns why an aquarius can back away, my guess is the biting nature of a scorpio proved too much for him to handle. Don't stress about him at all. If he comes back, he's yours. If he doesn't then he never was.
scorp5pt0
it's possible that maybe he started having feelings for you and decided it's too much for him to handle right now?

i'm a scorp female that dated an aqua male - twice (same guy). we started off by having a platonic relationship for about a year, before he told me that he was interested in me.

unfortunately it didn't work out between us - all i can say is that we make way better friends than lovers. as a friend, i can always count on him to be there when i need him. as my boyfriend, however, he was never there. he was too detached and emotionally aloof for us to make a genuine emotional connection.
Karima27
Forget about him! Please listen to me. I am a female scorpio. I was "involved" with an Aquarius male and we got along about as well as hot oil and water splatter! He liked me because he said i was a challenge. I liked him because. Hey he was cute and i thought a good person (it's that Aqua friendliness that sneaks up on you) They don't hold that emotional depth us Scorpio's need. Waaay to unpredictable.
houstonpeach74
Queen, I experienced what you did with a guy I dated casually for about 8 weeks. The first month was nice, but then bam! he started acting strange. he stopped calling, he stopped emailing, told me that we needed to break ties, but then changed his mind and would call me to talk...

it's part of their make-up...it takes a strong person to put up with their BS, independence, and aloofness.

They do get bored easily, and they also do tend to develop feelings that sometimes overwhelms and scares them - so much so that they retract and back pedal.
halfwaytohell
I just read the intial post.

I started looking into things, like what signs my friends were, what signs my past friends where, my family, and some things kinda match up. I'm an aquarius.

And I had a Scorpio friend once.

I ended it with her because she was VERY pocessive!
She'd call my house for me several times a day, even though I just got off the phone with her. It got to the point where I didn't want to speak to her any longer. I'd say something like "my ma needs the phone." and she'd come back with "WHY! Who is she going to call?" .. What the f---? Whenever I made plans with other people, she HAD to be included in them. She was acting as though we were best friends for years, even though I really made her aquaitance for only a few months! The point of friendship is that there is no pocession! That's why I personally like it much more than none plutonic relationships.

She also lied a lot, about stupid things that didn't matter in the first place.
I.E. lying about owning an article of clothing.. lying about interests.
Her opinion of things also changed when she was with different people. THAT drives me up a wall.

But anyway.

We don't like positions where we are made to feel obligated to talk to you. Obligated to hang out. Made to feel guilty if we don't do either.

Don't feel so bad about his sudden distance, if you moved in on him as quickly as that scorpio girl did to me.. He's probably freaked out, and if that IS what you did, I wouldn't expect him to associate with you very much any more.

If it's not. Don't feel so bad. I know if I haven't spoken to a friend in a while it wasn't to make them feel bad, you know? Maybe he's busy, or catching up with other friends.
moonchild8
"He acted so standoffish and did not give me a good reason why."

-ahhh, gotta love those aqua men when they do that!!!
moonchild8
"he is playing game to see wether you are still interested in him or not.

if you re still interested in him, then call him, otherwise ignore him, and sooner or later he will also ignore you completely. i did it too to all of my exes"


alien...ok, so what if an aqua guy does this to an ex even is he has been seeing another girl, in other words, he has a girlfriend but still plays games and strings along the ex to get a reaction and to see if the interest is still there...
moonchild8
"it's part of their make-up...it takes a strong person to put up with their BS, independence, and aloofness."

"They do get bored easily, and they also do tend to develop feelings that sometimes overwhelms and scares them - so much so that they retract and back pedal."


-i completely agree!
ZALLA
Why are aquarius men so so ja so .isnt it unfair to the rest of us pisces females.All we want to do is love after all it is what we do best and please i dont think we clingly and emotional and detached and all those dreamy thing we are realistic strong and independent maybe a bit stubborn but we are strong to ????
Karima27
Who cares about Aquarius men? Sounds mean but after listening to all of this who would want to deal with that madness? I speak from experience though. And honestly they are a waste of time.

Aquarius and Aries are good together. I don't ever really hear of that pair having a problem.

nikki1676
i dont think that is mean..i agree..who cares? why expend all this energy and be in a state of confusion? It is not worth it...i have known some aquarian men in my time and they always turn out to be a disappointment..not becuase of how the relationship turned out, but becuase they made themmselves out to be something they're not...they lie a lot and are insecure...their so-called "unpredictablility" becomes predictable after awhile and kind of boring...There are so many other exciting men who you can have fun with.
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