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thisLIBRAgirl
6/9/2012 3:39:25 PM | IP
thisLIBRAgirl

25 years old female from Copenhagen

Hey guys

My leo man and I was supposed to hang out thursday. We planned to cook together, watch a movie, just relax.. We talked on the phone earlier that day, and he said "Im home at 5 a clock". I went out and bought groceries for our dinner, and texted him in the bus, im there in 30 minutes (5 a clock). He said "Oh im gonna be late bla bla", I said its okay, just hurry up.. around 6 a clock i texted him, are you on your way. He called me and said, im gonna take the train now (it takes 45 minutes). Let me just say I was waiting outside his apartment and felt like an idiot..

Basically he was at his friends house or whatever he was doing for 1½ hour, while Im waiting outside. I called him and said nevermind, im gonna go home, I've been waiting for 1½ hour, youre just chilling at your friends house, not even stressing, while Im waiting outside with these bags. He kept giving me excuses, "I was helping a friend" bla bla.. I said I didnt care, because he knew that he was meeting me at 5, so why are you making other appointments.

I forgot my phone charger at his house the last time, so I told him, Im gonna wait, but only to get my charger.

When he arrived he said "Oh you have been waiting for almost 2 hours now (like he was surprised), you wanna slap me right now, dont you?" ... then he tries to make me smile, by looking in my eyes and smiling. I got so pissed, cause i didnt feel like he was taking me serious. I took my charger and left..

This is the guy who begs me to hang out with him, if I dont have time to hang out in 2-3 days, he gets jealouse, and mad, and things like that... I dont understand.

This was thursday. Still no apology. Havent spoked to him since..
Nefer
6/9/2012 4:38:12 PM | IP
Nefer

41 years old female from Michigan  

Totally freakin' awesome, LOVE being me!

I damn straight wouldn't wait. I'd spend the $10 or $20 or whatever and buy another charger before I'd wait like Faithful Fido outside a man's apartment at HIS convenience.

Shoulda bounced, girl. Boy didn't learn NOTHIN' that day.. except that he can keep you waiting for two hours, and all you do is (wait for him FIRST.. then...) grab your butter and leave in a pissy mood (aka no real repercussions)...

I don't think he'll apologize.. in Guy Think.. YOU CHOSE to wait around like you had nothing better to do, he didn't tell you to stay, so why's that HIS fault?

Wanna know what WOULD get an apology?

You don't wait an HOUR at a man's apartment before you find out what's up, calling him an HOUR after the set meeting time and getting the run around. At 5:05, you can call and say you're there.. but *I* wouldn't... at 5:15, I'd be GONE. He set the time, he stood your ass up like it was nothin'.. why you owe him any explanation at all? You don't. So you bounce, Girl. You don't TELL him, you don't text and say you're leaving, you just GO. And then go silent, no contact. Guys KNOW what they do.. if he shows up at his apartment (an hour or two LATE), expecting you to be waiting there, and YOU AREN'T THERE, and YOU AREN'T EXPLAINING butter TO HIM.. he KNOWS what he did, and he knows he was wrong. And he knows you won't take his crap. And he knows YOU think you (and your time) are worth more than that half-assed bullbutter he just tried to pull on you, so HE will start believing it too... So then he'll apologize.. cuz you just carried yourself like a woman who DESERVES an apology for his bad behavior. And all without saying a word.
thisLIBRAgirl
6/9/2012 5:09:48 PM | IP
thisLIBRAgirl

25 years old female from Copenhagen

Seriously I dont mind waiting if I KNEW he made an effort, if I KNEW he was hurrying up. But thats not even the case.. The fact that he comes up with all these excuses and cant even be honest to me, made me lose my respect for him.

You right, I probably shouldnt have waited for that charger, but I did... like an idiot.. thats what I felt.
Nefer
6/9/2012 5:48:37 PM | IP
Nefer

41 years old female from Michigan  

Totally freakin' awesome, LOVE being me!

As gently as possible.. YOU keep buying his excuses, keep taking his butter.. and it's making him lose respect for YOU... so no, he won't hurry up when he knows you'll wait cuz you want so badly to see him.. but if he knew YOU value YOU and YOUR TIME and you might be GONE by the time he showed up, cuz you don't play the waiting game or tolerate feeling disrespected and blown off.. damn straight, boy would hurry up if he didn't want to miss out. Guarantee you'd only have to do this once or twice for even the thickest-skulled guy to understand.

And you're not an idiot.. you just aren't valuing YOU and YOUR TIME, this situation said HE (and seeing him) was more important than YOU (and how crappy it felt to be kept waiting like that for 2 hours.. outside his apartment? Aww hail no!), and THAT my dear.. is killing his respect and attraction to you.

Leos want a Queen to rule with.. Libra girls make GREAT Queens.. where's your Crown, honey? Put it on. Be a Queen.
celticlioness
6/10/2012 4:58:12 AM | IP
celticlioness

female from Wicklow, Ireland  

Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo

Posted by Nefer

Leos want a Queen to rule with.. Libra girls make GREAT Queens.. where's your Crown, honey? Put it on. Be a Queen.


Agree, what you have done is depicted yourself as a servant, waiting around to wash the feet of your king, he has plenty of servants - really he does, he's a leo man FGS. He wants his queen as Nefer has put it, his equal, the woman he can go forth and rule with, the woman he can show off to his friends, not someone who is lurking around outside his apartment with a bag of food to cook up for him.

Leo and Libra is a great combination, and when in a relationship should bring out the best in one another - this isn't his best and based on your other thread you didn't display your best either - so what is it about this relationship that is suffocating you and masking what it is that makes you both shine?
Geminems
9/25/2012 8:33:48 PM | IP
Geminems



Sun/Rising-Gem. Moon-Sag

I've actually found Leos to be the first to apologize.. Even if they know they're not wrong, just to keep the peace. It could be something else in his chart though?
Geminems
9/25/2012 8:35:16 PM | IP
Geminems



Sun/Rising-Gem. Moon-Sag

If you ask for an apology though, they'll be stubborn about it.
Mavi
12/5/2012 11:24:53 PM | IP

I am a leo and leos will only care when the toy is stil fun to play with.... You r best to toy with him n not let him think you ar at his beckon call. He will actually value u more in future if u keep him at a distance

 

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