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Aries4beauty
7/19/2012 2:54:27 PM | IP

So Im an Aries Woman 4/11/89 & He's a Leo Man 7/29/88. And like a usual aries we set our eyes on something we want and we get it but i just can not seem to get thru to this Amazing LEO Man. A little back ground about us. The Leo man is very close friends with my son's father they meet maybe 4/5 months ago. My son's father is an marker the relationship took a turn for the worse and Mr. Leo was right there through it all. I found myself thinking about him consantly, how he's the prefect gentleman & everything im looking for in a man. Then outside of my better judgement About 2 months ago I had an intimate connection with Mr. Leo. It completely blew me away. Let's say GREAT sex. I mean he said he was feeling me and he's concience wouldn't get in the way. Never before had i cheated but i did it and i was sure i didn't love my son's father anymore. So i split up with my sons father 2 days after me & Mr. Leo connected. My baby's father is leaving in a week and I know the fact that he still resides with me may be affecting Mr. Leo. I assured him that he is what i want. A few weeks ago He stated that we were getting to close and we shouldn't do anything till my baby's father is gone. I agreed, i was a little hurt but i understood. Then a few days after that we had sex again. Then a few days later he say's the same thing lets back away from one another. Then a week later we made incrediable unexpected uncontrolable love. Then the next day he tells me he's not ready for a realtionship he can't give me what i want which is a realtionship, he still wants to be intimate but only with each other even though we have no title. Im cool with that i just got out of a realtionship not trying to be in another one right now! But this leo man can't make up his mind ITS driving me CRAZY!!!! and im feerful that one day ill be expecting a night full of excitement but ill end up in disappointment when he say's he wants to stop!! Question time LEO Men...Is he scared to commit?? If so how do i Make him feel comfortable to give his heart to me?? Is he just playing mind games?? What do i do to keep him?? even if he drives me crazy??
celticlioness
7/19/2012 2:59:26 PM | IP
celticlioness

female from Wicklow, Ireland  

Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo

No he's not afraid to commit. He just doesn't want to commit to you, he's getting what he wants from you with no effort whatsoever, what man is going to turn down dinner handed to him on a plate followed by dessert and a cheese board.
Nala13
7/19/2012 3:20:41 PM | IP
Nala13

37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me  

Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c

A cumcumber can become a pickle but a pickle can never become a cucumber again.

It's too late. He knows you cheated. We leos are a loyal lot. I'm not saying we don't cheat because of course we do. The difference is we are going to tell you what we did, when we did it and who we did it with. There will be very little sneaking around.

I would imagine he is thinking, "man she would do this to me"...cause that's what I would think.

Move on and learn from this. Hopefully he will never tell the baby daddy otherwise you are really going to have drama. All these men need nowadays is a reason to bounce and you just gave a helleva one.
ellessque
7/19/2012 3:53:20 PM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

Posted by Nala13
A cumcumber can become a pickle but a pickle can never become a cucumber again.


i love this.

*stealing*
Aries4beauty
7/19/2012 4:07:36 PM | IP

I thought the same thing @celticlioness about him just wanting the sex basically using me but i always get us started because i love sex! & many times we dont even have sex we chill,cuddle, & enjoy each others time. He even brought up NO sex and we should just build on our friendship.??

He knows me very well and also has had talks with my family He knows how bad the situation was with my babies father and my reasoning for doing what i did but maybe that is the thing he's thinking i would do the same to him....

So is there NO hope for me having this man in my life?? Because of how circumstances brought us together??

Thanks guys for the Help also i need all i can get
ellessque
7/19/2012 4:35:23 PM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

okay, in retrospect, that probably wasn't a great thing to put on my facebook status. treetrunking perverts.

*deleting messages from stupid exes*
celticlioness
7/19/2012 5:06:44 PM | IP
celticlioness

female from Wicklow, Ireland  

Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo

Posted by ellessque
okay, in retrospect, that probably wasn't a great thing to put on my facebook status. treetrunking perverts.

*deleting messages from stupid exes*

LOL
celticlioness
7/19/2012 5:11:45 PM | IP
celticlioness

female from Wicklow, Ireland  

Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo

Posted by Aries4beauty
I thought the same thing @celticlioness about him just wanting the sex basically using me but i always get us started because i love sex! & many times we dont even have sex we chill,cuddle, & enjoy each others time. He even brought up NO sex and we should just build on our friendship.??

He knows me very well and also has had talks with my family He knows how bad the situation was with my babies father and my reasoning for doing what i did but maybe that is the thing he's thinking i would do the same to him....

So is there NO hope for me having this man in my life?? Because of how circumstances brought us together??

Thanks guys for the Help also i need all i can get


No I don't think there is hope for you two, and if it does happen it will end in time because of the way it started. To be honest if he's taking sex when you get you two started then he doesn't even want sex that bad. Its all a pity because Aries and Leo are great together, if we both learn to not go with the initial impulses we both possess and not jump in head first without thinking. He likes you, he doesn't want to lose your friendship and is trying to keep it together with the friendship offer, but your making it difficult offering sex and he is by taking it. If you're just out of a relationship, no matter how bad it was, you need time to find yourself and heal again before having any kind of relationship with someone else, that takes time and you deserve to give yourself time lovely Aries.
Nala13
7/20/2012 7:50:12 AM | IP
Nala13

37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me  

Pretty funny, almost always on time. I c

Posted by ellessque
okay, in retrospect, that probably wasn't a great thing to put on my facebook status. treetrunking perverts.

*deleting messages from stupid exes*



Gotta love the exes. Not !

Everytime I see your username I read it Elle Squared. I might have dyslexia. In any event, you are now "E squared". That is forever your name.

P-Angel
7/20/2012 11:52:40 AM | IP
P-Angel

54 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Posted by Aries4beauty

... like a usual aries we set our eyes on something we want and we get it ...

Let's say GREAT sex. ..... Never before had i cheated but i did it and i was sure i didn't love my son's father anymore.

My baby's father is leaving in a week and I know the fact that he still resides with me ....

... we made incrediable unexpected uncontrolable love. Then the next day he tells me he's not ready for a realtionship ...

Im cool with that i just got out of a realtionship not trying to be in another one right now!

Is he scared to commit?? If so how do i Make him feel comfortable to give his heart to me?? Is he just playing mind games?? What do i do to keep him??






lol
Love366
7/20/2012 2:46:36 PM | IP

34 years old

@MsAriesBeauty......It started messy it will end messy. Please do yourself a favor and just cut all ties with him until you’re emotionally grounded.
Metoo
7/22/2012 8:27:03 AM | IP

Seems like your insisting on complicating your life right now.
Just because the guy is great doesnt mean its right.
Your about to bring plenty of baggage onto him.
Your getting out of a sticky relationship and your clinging to someone who is making you feel
sexally wanted, emotionally validated.
You gotta be able to stand on your own two feet.
A man isnt supposed to be some sort of magic pillar to hold you up, deal with all your emotions, solve all your problems...
The two of you need to step back, let the dust settle, think of how your baby will cope without two parents, get yorself financially and mentally stable and then down the road, seek a healthy balanced relationship that compliments you, not sstains you.
Your already mistaking great sex for love. Its not, its just great sex, and it is great because its forbidden, he wants you because you are forbidden fruit, belonging and living with someone else and this is why he cant resist. His ego gets a huge boost but he knows its not ideal and morally he is trying to take a stand.
He is trying to tell you this isnt what he was after...this will end badly if you dont get yourself together and listen to what he is telling you.
Stop sleeping with him, start thinking logically about a fresh healthy start to your life an your childs life.

leilaxxlovez
7/24/2012 7:46:51 PM | IP
leilaxxlovez

female from Namibia  

Dreamer @ heart yet I'm too earthy to b

Amen @ Metoo

Seriously, you want sex that bad? @ aries
The last thing you need is another complicated mess when it sounds like u just came from one.
sex = good. sex with baggage=more baggage.
Do the math lol
leilaxxlovez
7/24/2012 7:47:17 PM | IP
leilaxxlovez

female from Namibia  

Dreamer @ heart yet I'm too earthy to b

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leilaxxlovez
7/24/2012 7:47:26 PM | IP
leilaxxlovez

female from Namibia  

Dreamer @ heart yet I'm too earthy to b

Amen @ Metoo

Seriously, you want sex that bad? @ aries
The last thing you need is another complicated mess when it sounds like u just came from one.
sex = good. sex with baggage=more baggage.
Do the math lol

 

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