How to win back a taurus and get over one

10/18/2006 5:18:02 PM | More
Dope

Okay this is the situation. I'm on the Caner/Leo cusp and my ex boyfriend is a Taurus, we both have Virgo moons. So we broke up a year ago because I cheated on him. I felt like he didn't trust me when I was being loyal so I acted out (emotional and dumb idea, I know). Although my actions led to the break up I'm still not over him. He was my first love and the only man I've been with (I'm 21 and he's 27) so it's a little hard. Since then I've thrown myself into work (like most Virgos) but I relapse into emotional breakdowns randomly (like most Cancers.) He has a new girlfriend (I think she is a Pisces) and he'll call randomly but its unfulfilling, feels a little cheap, but in the same it feels warm and solid. We had still been having sex even after he got in the new relationship (which I knew nothing about.) I was deeply hurt and went off on him, but I still love him and regardless of what he or I have done I want to be with him. But since then I've grown very distant from him. But I'm happy and proud of him in the same. As long as he's happy I'm happy for him, but in my heart I do want him back. I just want to find peace in everything. I want to get over him. Although to get forgiveness from a Taurus is really hard I guess the real question is how do I find peace and how do I also get him back.
Any advise
10/20/2006 3:58:09 AM | More
Tauro

male

About Me: Sign: Taurus Ris

You don't deserve a taurus. You'll also never get him back because once we are betrayed you will never see us again.
10/20/2006 10:49:49 AM | More
Alana

female from Ireland  

I am Aquarius. I am the Chinese Horse.

Hello there Dope:-)
First of all, change that alias name Dope to something more positive. You may feel and think you are a dope for what you did......but that was another time and another place - to make mistakes is your birthright:-) Everyone does stupid things......

OK so you cheated on Mr. Taurus - you know you did wrong and are remorseful and the consequence was you lost him.
But remember and beaer in mind, he also cheated per se - he was with a new girl and he never told you....so he's no saint either - so I wouldn't put him on a pedestal or forget about his "indiscretion" too easily.

So now he's with new girl and you feel you still love him and want him back. If I was you, I think I would write him - either by pen or e-mail, whichever is convenient for you. Tell him how you feel about him and the situation but also say that if he is really in love and wishes to be with Ms. Pisces, then you accept that - men like women to say - you have of choice freedom!

You know the sequence of outcomes that may ensue....He may ignore the contact - which means he doesn't want to be with you. He may answer back in the negative saying he loves Ms. Pisces more than you or he may answer in the positive saying you really are the love of his life - let's give it another shot!!!!! You've got to brace yourself for all the different possibilites and be ready to deal with outcome - have no expectations is my advice - whatever is meant to be will be.

I have to respectfully disagree with Tauro about the forgiveness part......the taurus's I know are the most forgiving of all the people of the zodiac. However, I wouldn't keep repeating the sorry bit.......you say it once, and once from the heart....if someone can't forgive and accept "your sorry", then they've got major issues to deal with because life is too short not to forgive.....things will never be forgotten but forgiveness is essential for everyone's overall mental state.

So Dope...I'm gonna now rename you "Hope" - wishing you all the best and wishing the best outcome for everyone involved in your story:-)

Alana x
10/22/2006 10:46:27 PM | More
Dope

Oh Alana thanks so much for the Positive words.... be well
10/25/2006 3:31:10 AM | More
bittertaurus

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10/30/2006 4:03:37 PM | More
yourstrulyTaUrUs

35 years old

Have to agree with bitter, not only is he getting his cake and eating it to, you girls are feeding it to him. Taurus have this way of drawing people in. Anyway, this guy has you there. You'll never get over him. He's doing to you what you did to him in his own way maybe? He has probably forgiven you but when you keep saying sorry he'll play you for all the sorry he thinks is there. Be careful, winning him back, you might want to think really hard about that.


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