SCORPIO WHATS UR DEAL?

lovesick
Scorpio men seem so hard to get along with.. is any of this true?

My questions:

1. )Do scorps say what they mean? Do they take thier time with love so they don't lose control or to regain trust? Like if they say they've missed you or love you.. even after a fight or break up or just period do they mean it?

2.)Do they really have a problem with losing control when it comes to Love? so they back off when they do fall to deep??

3.)I've had a neg. review on this saying scorps are users and will do that till they are threw with you. They have no heart and only care about themselves. They will say whatever to keep you around and have control. They dont mean it. True?

4.)I've had a positive review saying scorps are just sensitive and need trust. Especially when getting back together. They take it slow. They are intense but wont keep you around unless they feel your worth it or special. True?

5.)Is there such a thing as a testing period? Whats up with the hot and cold? Back and forth? Push and pull? Ex. I know a few ppl who dated scorpios who are on and off but they stick around forever.

6.) I've read scorpios dont come back for second chances or give them. Once there done they are done... so how come so many do? Ex. Girl on here has been going 6 years with her scorp back and forth. Broken up many times too. Now they are getting married.

7.) I've read they are very selfish.. meaning they put themselves first in the relationship but that doesnt mean they dont care or love you. True? Ex. I had a friend who dated a scorp and some days he would go without talking to her because of work. Than come back. She questioned his love for her and he would get upset because he was just trying to work. They are still together I believe.

lovesick
any good answers or is this all bs that people just make up? They seem so intense why would anyone date them! I could be wrong... but scorpio men are a huge topic right now..
theonly764hero
Posted by lovesick
Scorpio men seem so hard to get along with.. is any of this true?

My questions:

1. )Do scorps say what they mean? Do they take thier time with love so they don't lose control or to regain trust? Like if they say they've missed you or love you.. even after a fight or break up or just period do they mean it?

2.)Do they really have a problem with losing control when it comes to Love? so they back off when they do fall to deep??

3.)I've had a neg. review on this saying scorps are users and will do that till they are threw with you. They have no heart and only care about themselves. They will say whatever to keep you around and have control. They dont mean it. True?

4.)I've had a positive review saying scorps are just sensitive and need trust. Especially when getting back together. They take it slow. They are intense but wont keep you around unless they feel your worth it or special. True?

5.)Is there such a thing as a testing period? Whats up with the hot and cold? Back and forth? Push and pull? Ex. I know a few ppl who dated scorpios who are on and off but they stick around forever.

6.) I've read scorpios dont come back for second chances or give them. Once there done they are done... so how come so many do? Ex. Girl on here has been going 6 years with her scorp back and forth. Broken up many times too. Now they are getting married.

7.) I've read they are very selfish.. meaning they put themselves first in the relationship but that doesnt mean they dont care or love you. True? Ex. I had a friend who dated a scorp and some days he would go without talking to her because of work. Than come back. She questioned his love for her and he would get upset because he was just trying to work. They are still together I believe.




Hmmmmm. Well I think first of all, keep in mind is that everyone has their own star chart uniquely tuned to the exact time of birth, so while tendencies create a pattern among signs, there are other factors such as strong rising signs and moon signs (how other people see your appearance and your subconscious behaviors) as well as the enviornment we were raised in and our parents that make a major dent in who we are today.

When dealing with scorpios the #1 important factor to recall is that they go through 3 evolutionary stages from infacy to full mastery. This is because they harness such a great deal of
theonly764hero
...of psychic energy from incarnation that the faint of mind and ability often cannot opperate at the right capacity. Think of a car battery trying to power a television remote. Therefore it is understandable that the first phase is the "scorpion". An unevolved scorpio scorpion has not yet learned the ways of the world or their true self, their source of energy. Scorpions are prone to violence, manipulation and jealousy. They may lash out at their peers, or worse, be an outcast behind the scenes and develop sinister modes of thinking, ways to influence others negatively without being the focul point of attention. Through this great deal of suffering and confusion, with the burning up of the ego and the association of their femenin aspects, they may pass into the next stage, the Eagle. (note that some scoprios take longer than others to reach maturity and pass from their first stage to the second. They need a great deal of love, attention and support to help them grow into strong, amazing and dynamic individuals. Scorpios usually possess a gift of transmuting pain into personal power and life lessons.) The Eagle is highly capable in ability and is on a path of righteousness and fulfillment. They are extremely persistent and will gain a tremendous amount of momentum in working towards their goals, while absorbing awareness and aquiring wealth and stability along the way. The final and 3rd level of evolution for scorpio is the Phoenix, which represents full mastery of self. Phoneix possess the power of knowing, (claircognizence) a step up from intuition. Many phoenixes are highly psychic and have a deep relationship with their higher selves, and an otherworldly interest in the afterlife and holistics.

So know your scoprio. Know where they're at. And help them grow, especially if they are less evolved, with your nurturing and patience they can grow to be the ultimate loyal and passionate partner, someone you love, admire and depend on.

I'm a virgo and my girlfriend is a Scorpio. It's a classic case. I've been dating around, different women for years and I thought I struck gold a couple times, but it turned out to be fools gold. Manipulation sends me running the other way. I look for honesty and character. My scorpio girlfriend, danielle, had her share of trust issues, as did I, but when we met, the very first night turned into passionate sex (something she would never do with a stranger) and she immediately knew she could trust me and I knew I could tru
theonly764hero
. trust her (sorry, I'm a horrible writer because my sentences run on and on hahah bare with me here). There is so much to admire about scorpios; their passion, their persistance, their loyaly and their intelligence. And yes, they can be little treetrunkers sometimes, but we need to change our way of thinking and forgive, because 95% of the time, their hatred stems from pure love.





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