capricorn women ... have feelings too

cappysweetie
Recently, I've just started reading my astrologic profile. The capricorn woman has a very hardcore depiction. Indeed, like most signs I can be strong in certain aspects of my life, but I can be very emotional (ultra-emotional). I also read that most capricorn women have a tendency to attract weak men and are unlucky in love ... wow that sucks for someone like me, jeez I'm only a 21 year old college student. In all honest I wouldn't mind having someone with alittle backbone, but if needed me to be his "rock" (so to speak) I wouldn't mind that either. And since I'm supposely unlucky with men (aka cancer man ... darn him, I haven't heard from him in three weeks), then why do I love them so much! LOL. But seriously, I think most cappy females(and maybe the others too) want realness from the opposite sex. Most guys that I've had relationships with (not counting that cancer "friend") just can't be honest ... I'm not your "good time" girl, like a solid relationship with love, stablity, and compromise. I don't think that difficult for any women to ask for. What do you think?
BlackGoat
Of course Capricorn ladies have feelings... I'm very sensitive and unlucky when it comes to love. Guys seem to be afraid of me.. it's strange.. hmm

Hope everything works out with your cancer friend.
capricious
What does that mean? Tendancy to attract weak men? I've read that before too....
pdragon
maybe because we 'appear' strong and confident that men who aernt so strong find us comforting. Not something i like the sounds of, Im happy to play the woman, i want him to be the man!

blackgoat Guys seem to be afraid of me.. it's strange.. hmm

same here!!!! men im interested in never seem to feel the same way, its very sad... maybe because we are into them we act to suggests that we aernt interested, 'aloof' if you like, i do that alot im trying to break the habit
capricious
"maybe because we 'appear' strong and confident that men who aernt so strong find us comforting. Not something i like the sounds of, Im happy to play the woman, i want him to be the man!"

Hmm... I personally would have thought being strong and confident would scare off weak men, with timid, shy and easy influenced girls being attractive to the less manly bloke.
cappysweetie
Blackgoat:"Hope everything works out with your cancer friend."

Thank you for the support. We are just friends because it would be too mcuh chaos to be anything else at this point. I'm just there when he needs a friend and NOT "a bed buddy"

sb: "I totally agree. But then I think we cap women try so hard to be self sufficient that send the wrong message accross. Or so me thinks."

This is very true, I can come accross as being very self-sufficient but that's because I like to be able to take care of my self instead of being independent and needy. However, I've realized that I cannot be as independent as I want to be because I'm not worldly each.

pdragon:"maybe because we 'appear' strong and confident that men who aernt so strong find us comforting."

Oh my goodness this could be very true. I tried being with a man with a stronger personality than I (a scorpio) and he was a bully. So I'm satisfied with the men I attract ... as long as they are faithful

cap:"A cappri girl has three shells
Top most shell: Docile,Vulnerable,Sweet and innocent
Second Shell: Strong,Not so emotional,Selfish,Ambitious,.....
Third:Sensitve,Caring,Loving,Passionate...Sometimes not so confident,Wanted to be told she is desirable,is loved
Peole at first know her by her first shell,they get shock after they see her second shell very few are wise enough to be able to see her third shell."

That was very clever!!! Cappy women he all three of these shells but it takes someone very special to see our third shell ... we just can't show that shell to every man or else they will take advantage of us.



cappysweetie
cap,

It would be nice to find a guy like that. He doesn't have to be as strong as an Ox emotionally. I'll be his backbone if he could be my rock
Evo Fish
I'm sure Caps girels are sweet and all that jazz...but the main fact that they are known for being the gold diggers of the zodiac, and are HEAVILY attracted to money, that the actual person.....I think I would rather be with a gemini 8-)
pdragon
I personally have NEVER been attracted to a guy with money, i always prefered someone in my own class. A family member is quite wealthy and its made him into an obsessive, paranoid person who thinks everyone is after his money and are trying to screw him over to get it... even his family!!!! (FYI Hes a Sagittarius)

I have always been afraid of finding someone with that kind of obsession and insecurity for money.

All i want is someone whos willing to do what it takes for stability, not status.
cappysweetie
pdragon: "I have always been afraid of finding someone with that kind of obsession and insecurity for money."

All i want is someone whos willing to do what it takes for stability, not status.

EXACTLY pdragon, totally agree with you I don't know who Evo Fish has encountered but that cappy had to have some other elements in her chart ... she wasn't your normal cappy female. Why on earh do we have to be gold-diggers? Shoot, we can make our own WITHOUT the assistance of some arrogant, pompus jerk who believes that 'money' will get him some butt and sees that it gets him nothing but loniness in the end.

Most men belittle women like cappies because we refuse to be dependant. Sure Evo, she probably took your money but most cappies are opportuntists -- why wouldn't she ???

LOL, if I had an idiot that offered me money ... LOL, I'll take it! BUT, BUT, BUT! Once, it's given to me ... I'm sill not obligated to do anything!!! It's my body an mine alone. I will feel like a cheap piece of meat to except money in exchange for "relations" ... ewwwww! Sorry, a man has to put down an "emotionally" higher payment than that!

Man, always complainting about situations they create ... jeeezzz. Leave us cappies alone
pdragon
Cappysweetie,

Loneliness is right! The obsession that some guys have that money wins them friends and happiness is just sad. I should start a human train and sing. "You don?t win friends with dollars! You don?t win friends with dollars!"

I hear stories of guys buying women jewellery, clothes and even CARS! Just because they think, they will get some. Sad to say the least, unwilling to do a little hard work with something called charm and personality.

An I agree with you, many men belittle women like cappies because we refuse to be dependant, they are just insecure about themselves and afraid they will look whipped in front of their mates.

Down here in Oz, men are virtually married to their male friends and vb (beer). I have found that without a stubbie in their hand, your hard pressed for the ozzie male to make the first move and especially in they REALLY like you. No confidences around the ladies without grog (alcohol) in their system especially if you are self made and have a good head on your shoulders.
cappysweetie
pdragon: "Down here in Oz, men are virtually married to their male friends and vb (beer). I have found that without a stubbie in their hand, your hard pressed for the ozzie male to make the first move and especially in they REALLY like you. No confidences around the ladies without grog (alcohol) in their system especially if you are self made and have a good head on your shoulders."

I couldn't agree with you more pdragon

Don't worry, it's the same here in the U.S. Most men are very into what they see on the television or in magazines that they except every women to be an emulation of that image. You have to be 80% false (with you body and your mind) for a man to make the first move -- so their have no confidence with the ladies unless they see a false image. It are hardworking and ambitious, that's looked upon as trying to one-up a man. Most men will not admit this because it isn't considered politically correct but quite a few feel this way. If they don't feel intimidation, they feel that you should take care of them! Hahaha, now we both know that's laughable.
cappysweetie
sb:"I call those women, the assembled Girl."

YES! You, Branh, and I spoke about that a month and a half age hehehe. Geeeezzz, I was soooo crazy over that cancer wasn't I? We didn't you just tell me I was being stupid sb ....
cappysweetie
I do think most people confuse our need to be financially secure to make a family etc as gold digging. Which really isn't the case.

This is true. Honestly, I think if 50% of the men had their way ... women would be totally dependent on them ... and them alone. OMG, I would detest having to live that way. Kinda reminds me of the play "Trifles", poor woman

Well, we live in this day and time. We just have to keep running our mouths so life can stay ... well not exactly fair ... but better than it use to be
SoftCookie
Cap women have very sensitive feelings, especially when their hand is looking for your wallet...
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