It sounds sweet, friends aaaahh with benefits, oooh!! But it turns into one of the most destructive, ego-sapping, pathetic self-denial acts one can do to themselves.
What I experience through reading here (& other forums) & with my real life girl friends, THIS HAS GOT TO STOP!!!! I'm done with hearing about how you were fine with being friends because he told you he didn't want a relationship in the beginning even though I could see how much you liked him. How can I know this but you don't? That you didn't care what happened eventually and OOOPS you had sex and now you are in girlfriend mode. "Why doesn't he call, what did his text mean, a strange girl posted on his wall...."
Ok, fwb means that the last time you treetrunked could be your last time. It's indefinite and there is no strings attached. Hopefully you picked someone who likes you. Someone you are actually friends with but know that it won't go anywhere. It was easy for me when I did engage in it a few times. Nice guys, not great looking but cute. Men I knew I wouldn't want anything more with. Now it seems women are using fwb as an appetizer for the main course.
"I thought it would be fine but then I started to have feelings for him." AAARRGGH! I so dread that sentence.
Men can have the same reaction but I'll let them speak for themselves here and please do discuss your experiences. This is also about women and why has hooking up and fwb become the new flirting device. And I know there are women who can handle this just like I did but we didn't expect anything from it, did we?
FWB - Women Can't Handle It
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